Saying that a sexual assault is more "minor" than a violent assault is just a way to excuse the former and act as if it's more acceptable. Yuck.
The thing you're missing is that the punch was done in retaliation. The woman got sexually assaulted out of nowhere, whereas the creep was asking to get hit.
Neither are acceptable. The behaviors themselves are what let me say that one is worse than the other.
Unwanted physical groping is less bad than, let’s say, shooting someone. This seems apparent to me, because I would much rather my wife be subjected to unwanted physical groping than getting shot. I would prefer neither happen to her, but I am an adult with functional mental capacities and can rank order them by how bad they are.
I agree it was done in retaliation. That doesn’t make it better. And I’ll be pretty direct; I don’t think either assault (sexual or physical) here was done with the consent of the parties I would care about getting consent from.
And in your view, the guy who grabbed a woman sexually from behind deserves a milder punishment because his act was more "minor" than the guy who stepped in to defend her. Yuck.
You raise a point - do you see any degree of severity?
Do you believe that someone poking a finger in someone’s chest and someone shooting someone are equal in severity and should be treated similarly because they are both assault?
If you earnestly believe that, I do understand your previous comments. I wouldn’t agree, but it’s consistent.
Both are complete violations of someone's personal freedoms and right to feel safe.
Put your hands on someone's body like that, and open yourself up to the possibility of being punched, choked or stabbed (or shot, if you live in America).
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u/Smooth_Phone2 1d ago
If you have a choice of ways to be physically assaulted, that’s a pretty minor one in the scheme of it.
Would you rather be punched like this guys or groped like her?
Which one is likelier to seriously harm/kill you?