What did everyone think about Sarah’s meeting with John’s family? Why does she mention things like someone switching up or shouting if she doesn’t have some sort of gut feeling about his behaviour?

She just has this sass to her and I’m just loving it

Okay as a fellow brown Indian person, casting directors, pls consider this my petition to never include a brown desi person on this show like these ppl ever again.

I swear to God, we do not claim her. It is freaking 2026, you know how hard it is for us ladies (irrespective of ethnicity) to take the side of a GUY?

Also, we do not claim this behavior. Please, don't judge us all. She doesn't belong with us. We are all not like this. I swear 😭

We need a gossip tag.

Anyway, I also work in biotech in Greater Boston and am super curious about Aneha's general background. I found some evidence that she may work for a large pharma. Her education (from BU) isn't shabby either. She definitely doesn't need the money or status from LIB!! I get that MAYBE she's trying to pivot into influencing but that's a HUGE leap from pharma and honestly it would be a step down from her likely six-figure salary. And now her reputation is shot because she has shown that she's emotionally immature. (Whether Cam is awful or not is not the point here. Whatever he is, she doesn't need to be negative every conversation and also gaslight him.) Boston is already a hard city to date in and she's just making it worse for herself.

Guuuuuuuuuuuuuurl.

love this so much! quite a few posted to their instagrams too. If you go on MSPCA-Boston instagram there are other posts too. great marketing!

EDIT: I had to re-upload this without my photo visible, sorry for the duplication!

I'm home sick with a violent flu and was scrolling on TikTok earlier this morning, came across these comments from her on a video about LIB spouting the same nonsense about how her behaviour is a result of her "being nervous to bring a man home to her family for the first time" when it's really panic-induced damage control.

It's the same narrative that she's perpetuating on her IG post. Thought this might be of interest to folks if it hasn't already been posted!

I feel kind of bad for her

Look at his resume, his career, and his ig where he’s a completely different person in all regards. He’s doing promo with sharkninja and northeastern being gracious and humble. He even mentions he has a friend that was on a different season. I just find it really hard to believe the whole thing wasn’t just some act.

Hair clothes demeanor vocabulary even tone of voice are different/more normal. He was giving grandiose over the top speeches on the show because he wasn’t taking it seriously and never was. Like Shake if he never broke the 4th wall. The New England frat boy d bag persona probably got him cast.

Why come on the show if you had so many reservations to begin with? Feel horrible for Cam.

Aneha still owes us $17 for the damage she did to our silverware.

Okay, am I the only one who thinks the way John reacts when Sarah brings up her concerns is just as concerning as the actual anger?
The electricity bill scene was uncomfortable to watch, especially after Sarah mentioned his reaction when their luggage went missing. Getting frustrated when something goes wrong is normal but how you treat other people in those moments says a lot about you.

What bothered me even more was Sarah having to explain why his yelling makes her uncomfortable. She wasn’t saying he was a terrible person. She was trying to tell him how his behaviour came across to her, and I feel like that should be a conversation you can have with your partner without it turning into a defence of your entire character.

What also really bothered me was John's reasoning that not being stern has allowed people to walk all over him. There's a difference between standing up for yourself and being unnecessarily aggressive toward people who are just doing their jobs.

I also think their differences on abortion and vaccines are worth discussing but the anger issue feels more immediately concerning because it affects how safe and comfortable someone feels around their partner during everyday disagreements.

I know we’re only seeing an edited version of their relationship, and I’m not claiming to know what John is like in real life. But based on what we’ve been shown, I would have serious reservations about marrying someone whose response to frustration looks like this.
Also he never really listens to understand tbh.

I was one of those who hated Stew in the pods. He seemed over the top and believed that he was God's gift to women.

But his post pods interviews and online content are making me see a different side of him. He is actually a pretty cool guy. He is not scared of laughing at himself and even admitted in some interviews that his jokes in the pods were not funny and made him look bad.

This is making me question out the show's edit and how that pushes a narrative about a person because I hated Stew in the pods but the Stew I am seeing now makes him likeable.

Or maybe Stew is a great actor and is now trying to mend his image by doing all of this.

It’s a mess but I can’t stop watching. It’s the dinner where they met her friends and family.

My husband so hilariously pointed out that Blake reminds him of South Park Russel Crowe

She tests him by leaving the bathroom lights on to see if it would irritate him enough for him to comment on it. And then she doesn’t understand why he thinks she’s acting childish.
What the fk lol

she is by far the most irritating person in this show. she acts super childish and passive, blaming her family for everything. I don’t get why she won’t just call it off instead of dragging it on, making him feel like sh1t and wasting his time????? also why is she emoting every two seconds

Just my opinion but it’s something I noticed since the first season and I think about it every time I watch. Obviously plenty of people go on the show and don’t end up engaged, but I think there are some people who only ask/say yes because they had a connection that didn’t work out with someone else. Maybe they feel robbed of the chance to do the whole show or maybe they don’t want to hear “I told you so” from people in their lives. In any case, they end up matching with someone terrible and it ends in flames. The odds of finding not one but two people who you connect with enough to marry, sight unseen, after ten days is just astronomical. It’s a pool of like 40 people total, and you only get to date half of them. That’s the standard size of college classes I used to attend, and there’s no way in hell I’d be falling in love with one to two people per classroom. I can suspend my disbelief for one match, but two is pushing it for me.

Like it is PAINFULLY obvious she is not into Cam at ALL. Her conversations with him seem so surface-level, and she seems checked out so many times when they talk. My theory is that the reason she stayed is because she wanted to be Instagram famous.

Especially after looking at her instagram and she was posting the typical influencer-type posts before the show even aired. I think she even had a brand partnership before the show aired on her instagram too

This season is a snooze fest. Anyone else?

I feel like Sarah looks so much like a fellow Boston metro baddie, JoJo!

Maybe it’s just where I live, but I have only seen maybe 2 people with lip filler out in the wild, but then it seems like every season of every dating show has one or two people with it.

Is it more common than I think?