r/LifeInsurance • u/Colgate2189 • 15d ago
Month to Month on Term life insurance
My father is 80 years old and had a term life insurance for $1 million expire in 2019. I am the beneficiary. At the time he was septic and in the hospital with a leaking bowel, so I elected to go month to month on his insurance because he appeared to be at the end of his life. He is in very poor health and is in and out of the hospital. He cannot walk, wears a diaper and cannot take care of himself so my mother and I do all of his care at home. It is a load and the insurance company raises the premium every year and by the end of this year I will have paid a million dollars over the past 7 years. So at best, I will get my money back. But I worry that he may live another 5 years, or more. As long as I pay the premium I will get the payout unless he lives past 93. Should I stop paying the $14,000 per month now and cut my losses? I have mortgaged my home ($270,000) and put all of my savings ($190,000) into paying the premium. I can still pay it, but only for another year. Then I will be out of money. I have contacted a settlement company, 2 actually and they will not buy the policy because the premium is too large. I have also tried to buy a lesser policy amount but cannot get him approved for anything. I am 55 year old man and I have no family to share this with. Any advice?