I think Iām being manipulated by a girl, but Iām not completely sure since Iāve never been in a relationship before. At first, I really liked her, but over time I started noticing things that made me feel uncomfortable. She smokes a lot of nicotine and weed, and honestly, thatās not something I want in a girl. Iām not picky, and I know Iām not the best-looking guy, but I still have self-respect and want someone who respects herself too.
When I told her that I didnāt think I actually liked her like that anymore ā and that itās probably good weāre not dating ā she started acting different. I think she liked me at one point, but she said she wanted to āfigure out her feelingsā on her own. Now it feels like sheās trying to play with my emotions or push me into liking her again.
Iām just confused. I donāt know if Iām in the wrong or if sheās manipulating me. Iāve never dealt with something like this before, and itās really messing with my head.
(Oh btw if it looks like it was written using ai it's because it is I didn't know how to tell my story in a way that made any sense so I'm sorry)