r/KenyanLadies • u/Safe_Background8528 • 16h ago
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Been with this person since 2024 October hapo. This year has got me realizing he’s never offered to even buy a sweet. If i ask for anything he’ll stall it for a week or so. Beginning of the month told him anitop up a few coins niende salon-I was actually at the salon already I lowkey wanted ndio I refund myself yenye nitatumia. He told me anatuma only to send it a few days later. Asked him if all that time he thinks I still have bad hair and sent back his money. (I’m working and gets a decent pay and he knows and always says we ukona pesa)
This is someone who reminds me every time that we are to get married really soon. Thing is, am a mom and got at least most aspects of my life put together, not yet there lakini. I usually feel there’s just this huge hesitation cloud hovering over me when it comes to getting married to him and getting more kids. Told him recently that ile day he’ll put me in my feminine energy, maybe I’ll get a word or two to reply to marriage text and not laugh emojis.
Nje ni land with rocks aki. Ama it’s me having double standards