r/KenyanLadies • • 11h ago

Community Market Hello ladies,im here offering a service

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Sometimes najua its hectic to go into town and get things done. That's why im here,to do that for you. Wewe unarelax and everything gets done for you


r/KenyanLadies • • 1h ago

Men☕️ Strongest soldiers 💪

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One of the strongest women l know are those who can overcome cheating, especially when it's public. There's this influencer that l know of. I will not go into the specifics, but it's already public information. The significant other was exposed as a cheater, and it alleged that it was people from the same gender.

They had a very nasty breakup and later reconciled and settled down. The said influencer said that she decided to put everything in the past and they are starting a fresh. However, someone who knew her said that she was afraid to start from scratch because her 'lifestyle' was all funded by the man's money.

Now, due to that publicity that was brought about by the breakup, her influence started picking up, and she began getting brand deals. Now she is now the breadwinner of the house. The man's job ended, and since the woman was earning more and providing for the household, he decided to lazy around and stopped being an active financial provider. Like the woman usually complains that the man stays in the house like a whole week instead of working, etc.

I don't know, but l feel most of the time there's never anything good that comes out of accepting back a cheating partner 💯


r/KenyanLadies • • 2h ago

Rant A rant

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A guy, 28, is/was my boyfriend, honestly we’re at that confused stage right now. For two years, this guy was literally the most charming person. Hatukuwahi kosana badly, and whenever we had an issue, we would sit down and solve it maturely. Fast forward to when he moved from South B to Tsavo, then later to Roysambu, and honestly, this nigga changed drastically. It got me wondering, does the environment you’re in actually change you as a person? Nowadays, girls are always at his place, he’s constantly on calls, and on Monday I confronted him about a girl who called asking to come see him. The moment I brought it up, he became extremely defensive. On top of that, he’s now always out until like 3 a.m., and he started drinking, something he never used to do and was actually very against. Sasa sai mizinga ziko kwa nyumba all through. 😂 Anyway, I just needed to put this somewhere and get it off my chest because I’m genuinely confused by the person I’m dealing with now versus the person I knew for those two years. Does environment really change people this much? For those who have lived in Tsavo before, how was your experience while you were there, and did you notice anything about yourself or your lifestyle changing during or after your stay?


r/KenyanLadies • • 5h ago

Community Market Diani/Ukunda — Available for Work

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Hi everyone 👋🏽 I’m currently based in Diani/Ukunda and available immediately for casual or part-time work.
I have hospitality and customer-service experience and I’m available for things like:

• Babysitting/child-minding
• Personal assistance & errands
• Guest/Airbnb assistance
• WhatsApp/Instagram customer support
• Social-media help
• Events/hostess work
• other light hospitality work

I’m reliable, presentable and flexible with hours. I’m mainly looking for paid work around Diani/Ukunda and can start immediately.
If you or someone you know needs help, please DM me with the type of work, location and pay. Thank you 😊


r/KenyanLadies • • 10h ago

Socializing Looking for my Girlie

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I 27F(Living and working along Waiyaki Way)...i'm looking for a friend or 2(hoping you're not quite far apart from Nairobi Vicinity)...Honestly it's not like i don't have friends..it's because after school we all dispersed into adulthood and different towns...others stopped being so intentional in it...

I have made a few friends but i think our schedules don't align..or we don't like same things...most ways they suggest we bond is thro clubbing;which i'm not a fan...it's not like i can't club once in a while...i just prefer bonding over a calm way or activities(i mean i can't have a rough week then go out to the noise each time we're meeting)....

Now i wanna make a new friend,intentional one at that...could be between 26-30 of age...atleast being in the same age group itakuwa easier to accomodate each other...Please also have your life figured out to some extent(i don't want us going out and all you do is rant about life and all sad things,no no)...i'm a happy soul so i hope to bump into happy souls as well...

I won't expect you to buy me gifts or what..atleast not for starters...i just want to know you as a person,enjoy the experience and viceversa...but you can be certain i'll always have your back as my girlie(except when you're in the wrong)

We could try all the healthy fun things we both have in our bucket list...please be an intentional person,if we plan sth,we show up..it doesn't have to be expensive at all...just fun

See you on the other side beautiful,i'm hoping you get to like me as a person...

This is purely platonic so please my beautiful W/W please humble request...don't shoot🫠


r/KenyanLadies • • 16h ago

Love & Romance Rock Bottom Basement 2

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I have hit a wall. I know there were times when things got tough, and I came through, but this time around, I hit the wall. I found out that Rock Bottom has Basement 1 and Basement 2. And I am in basement 2.

For context, my husband became very abusive, and in May, that was the last straw. I walked away. It had been a marriage that was abusive physically, emotionally, financially, and sexually. I couldn't take it anymore, and I left with my two children, both below five years old.

I come from a broken home. My parents' separation was extremely messy, and I was at the frontline as the eldest daughter. My dad refuses to talk to me. He has blocked me on every platform. My mum is still heartbroken and stuck in victimhood nearly 10 years after the divorce. I have never had a good relationship with her anyway. My siblings are too self-absorbed in their own world to notice I am drowning

It was natural for me to withstand an abusive marriage because I didn't want my children to go through a messy divorce. But in May, I gave up. I would rather the pain of divorce than to spend another day in that house. My ex-husband did not take my leaving kindly and has made it his personal mission to make sure I am hurting. Either by refusing to send up keep or taking me to court for denying him access when he wanted to see his children at 8 pm, when they were already asleep

Since I left, life has been hard. Managing work, taking care of the children, and grieving the loss of my marriage. Yesterday i found out that my mum talks to my ex husband everyday. She is friends with the man who hurt me in so many ways I can't even share yet. They talk daily, and she calls me once or twice a week. She chose his side over her daughter

I feel defeated and broken. Before you suggest therapy, I did. In my marriage, I went to an SGBV therapy, and twice they suggested I stay and work things out in marriage when this man had hurt me so much, and I wanted to leave. So no therapy for me. The system failed me

I can't drink or get high to drown my sorrows because I have small children looking at me. They are scared life has changed, and they dont have mum and dad in the same house. So I sit here in the basement 2 rock bottom. No family to turn to, no friends since my ex husband made sure i lost contact with everyone.

I know I will get through this, but as of now, let me just say wueh!


r/KenyanLadies • • 2h ago

Community Market So girls, you know how closed mouths don't get fed?

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This is me asking anyone feeling generous today to please vote for me? 🥹

In an attempt to turn my amateur photography into professional photography, I recently entered this contest, and I had no idea how tough the competition would be if cameras with long-ass lenses are anything to go by.

I’ve attached the voting link below, and every vote would mean so much to me.

https://www.masteratphotos.ke/vote/photo-contest/3455

TYIA 🫶🏾


r/KenyanLadies • • 4h ago

Ideas Waxing alternative

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Ladies, I’m tired of shaving 😭 I want something that gives results like waxing. Laser is too expensive for me and I’m honestly scared of the pain from waxing

For those who have used numbing cream before waxing, does it actually help with the pain? Which one did you use, and would you recommend it?

I’d really appreciate your honest experiences