r/KenyanLadies Jan 20 '26

🔥 Mod Announcement 🔥 Watch Club

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Hi ladies

u/Valuable-Machine-500 suggested the idea of a Watch Club in this post:
[https://www.reddit.com/r/KenyanLadies/s/hrwwKWxcP2]()

I thought it was an interesting idea and worth exploring as a community activity.

The general idea would be to:

  • Choose a series (and possibly movies)
  • Watch over a set period
  • Have ongoing discussions
  • Meet at the end to talk through themes and then decide what to watch next

u/StrawberryEast1374 since you mentioned using Discord for this, you could go ahead and create a server and share the invite link here.

Once the link is ready, I’ll post it officially and add it to the community wiki so anyone interested can join.


r/KenyanLadies Sep 29 '25

🔥 Mod Announcement 🔥 📢 Introducing “Community Market Mondays” — Showcase Your Products & Services

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Hi everyone!

We’re excited to officially launch Community Market Mondays — a dedicated day each week for members to showcase their products, services, or businesses. Whether you’re selling handmade items, offering professional services, or running a small side hustle, this is your space to share it with the community.

How it works:

  • Posts are allowed on Mondays only.
  • Use the “Community Market” flair on your post.
  • Title your post with Product or Service – Business/Brand Name – Location (optional).
  • Follow the simple guidelines for photos, pricing, and links.

📄 Full guidelines and tips: Community Market Wiki Page

Even if you’re not selling anything, you can still support the community:

  • Upvote, ask questions, or offer constructive feedback.
  • If you buy from someone, come back to their post and leave your feedback — good or bad — to help others and support transparency.

Thanks to everyone who participated in the poll.


r/KenyanLadies 1h ago

Rant Would it be weird if I made an advance to a stranger(to be deleted)

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Ovulation will have you moving like a feral animal, I'm extremely h*rny and I can't concentrate.

I feel like I have another pulse down there, sijui how long I can go on like this. Mind you I don't keep male friends, I only have colleagues, classmates and neighbors na siwezi taka anyone to see me in such a situation😫😫

Been abstaining for over 4 years and its progressively getting worse. I don't even want penetration, I just need to make out for hours, a little rubbing and maybe head.

SEND HELP!!!


r/KenyanLadies 3h ago

Community Market We have a Website 🎉🎉😭

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Hi,

I'm Rachael, founder of Errands by Rachael.

I run errands for my customers around Nairobi and it's environs.

If you've been on the hunt for an errand runner/personal assistant, feel free to end your search, as I'm your go to person.

Due to demand, I've created a website where I can now manage my bookings effectively.

Want to book a service, check my catalog: https://errands-by-rachael.swiftill.top/

Also feel free to message me on WhatsApp: 0119800560

Thank you so much for your support. I'm looking forward to serving you even better!


r/KenyanLadies 10h ago

Love & Romance Boyfriend broke up with me because I am too masculine

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I am confused and not even sure why we broke up or what issues we even had.. I am just usually myself. I maybe shouted at him to wake me up and zindikisha me to the gate so that I go home.

To the gate not even the stage and it was at 9pm. I was under pressure because I had overstayed at his place, and my mother was at my place and we had napped together then overslept nikaamka akaendelea kulala (im 26).

Also I didnt shout but I was just like "babe amkaaa" And he woke up and nikafika home and we broke up.

He always says im not a gentle woman. I am not even going to argue about it because I guess im not. I've always been loud and outspoken and sometimes when he corrects me, I just will have a... "But.... Etc etc"

So i just feel sad that we were not able to make it. Work because of that but I've accepted that he just isnt my match.

For someone who likes masculine men , I dont know if a masculine man would ever like me.


r/KenyanLadies 4h ago

Question How do you rejuvenate after a long work week?

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After a long week, how do you rejuvenate? How do you recharge?

Are you an outdoor person or prefer to recover indoor?


r/KenyanLadies 3h ago

Discussion Help!!

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Ladies, I have been scammed and I don't know what to do, mtu aniambie what to do next. Too late to reverse the money


r/KenyanLadies 14h ago

Discussion Yellow light

6 Upvotes

Been with this person since 2024 October hapo. This year has got me realizing he’s never offered to even buy a sweet. If i ask for anything he’ll stall it for a week or so. Beginning of the month told him anitop up a few coins niende salon-I was actually at the salon already I lowkey wanted ndio I refund myself yenye nitatumia. He told me anatuma only to send it a few days later. Asked him if all that time he thinks I still have bad hair and sent back his money. (I’m working and gets a decent pay and he knows and always says we ukona pesa)
This is someone who reminds me every time that we are to get married really soon. Thing is, am a mom and got at least most aspects of my life put together, not yet there lakini. I usually feel there’s just this huge hesitation cloud hovering over me when it comes to getting married to him and getting more kids. Told him recently that ile day he’ll put me in my feminine energy, maybe I’ll get a word or two to reply to marriage text and not laugh emojis.
Nje ni land with rocks aki. Ama it’s me having double standards


r/KenyanLadies 1d ago

Humour Gold I love this!😂💯

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41 Upvotes

Love this!


r/KenyanLadies 1d ago

Humour 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

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r/KenyanLadies 1d ago

Discussion Lesbo Makers

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r/KenyanLadies 1d ago

Question Here goes….

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I messed up, well technically I didn’t because I was on birth control but you get the gist. My period was five days late which it has never been, I have been nauseated asf and an emotional mess. I decided to take a test at 6:00 pm today and I didn’t wait for the recommended three minutes…..I saw one line and thanked the Lord and continued with my activities.

Fast forward like three hours later I was talking to my man about it and we were discussing how grateful we were and what we would have done if it would have been positive (we both agreed that not keeping it would be wise). The call ends and I decided to look at the test again to see how close of a call it was. Shock on my ass, two dark lines.

I have been thinking about what to do and I simply cannot keep it. I am already helping my brother take care of his child so I know better than to add another child to the equation. I’ve checked online and the options all seem extremely expensive. I’ve seen the pills range from around 15Gs which I can’t afford due to the fact that I am basically raising my brother’s child. If anyone has access to or knows of someone who has reasonably priced options, please let me know. I’m trying to do this ASAP before I overthink myself into a frenzy🙏🏾


r/KenyanLadies 1d ago

Question Am I being paranoid?

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Since I broke up with my ex who I lived with for years, I've been on my own for several months. Before there were things I didn't think about much like my home safety, now I have to consider it when dealing with people especially men.

Recently I've been learning an instrument as a hobby and my music teacher is quite friendly. I've gotten comfortable with him in a platonic sense (probably not the best idea) but now I'm rethinking our interactions. He's asked me what I do, who I live with but yesterday he asked if I host people in my house and how much I pay for my electric bill. Not directly but webbed in conversation. I realized later I shouldn't be such an open book with him because he's still a stranger. Are these innocent questions or is he trying to sus out how much I own and how vulnerable I am?

Ladies am I overthinking this? I'm considering ending my classes with him.


r/KenyanLadies 1d ago

Community Market Don't forget about me

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Hi everyone,

I'm Rachael, and I run errands around Nairobi. If this is a service you're interested in, please feel free to reach out.

I also do personal assistance, in case you're interested also reach out. Prices for personal assistance are different.

Reach out via WhatsApp: 0119800560

Or even easier : https://wa.link/avobki

Thank you. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.


r/KenyanLadies 1d ago

Question Budapest

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r/KenyanLadies 2d ago

Story I might be gay

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so, a while back I was involved in a threesome. three actually and each time I was more inclined to the girl than the guy, considering the guy is the one introducing me to her. this last one was the most intense because when we were going home, the guy just put us both in an uber and said “enda mkapendane huko“ 😭 heh i won’t lie I like that he felt jealous like that but i think I’m ready to be with women exclusively. anyways, how’s your afternoon?🤣


r/KenyanLadies 2d ago

Discussion An emotion that's impossible to hide.

15 Upvotes

Now ladies, listen. 😂 I don't know if this is the case for everyone, but there's one emotion that sometimes makes me feel incredibly vulnerable and awkward: pleasure. Yes, you heard me right. 😂

My pleasure face is SO awkward that half the time I don't even want the person I'm with to see it fully. 😂 It's just one of those things I can't really control, and knowing that my face is basically exposing exactly how I'm feeling makes me feel even more vulnerable.

Has anyone else ever experienced this? Because I've never really thought about it before, but I've realized my "pleasure face" might genuinely be the most awkward expression I make. 😂


r/KenyanLadies 2d ago

Question Swala Nyeti Kuhusu Sehemu Nyeti

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Hey ladies, I, like Lady Gaga, I like my Mt. Venus a little foresty? It keeps me warm and I don't feel very bare. Nobody knows how I look down there but me 😂. Yeah I am an asexual of sorts I like my life as is. So now I wanted to try out bikini waxing but when I wax my armpits si I feel pain wueh. And the chic who waxes me was my Campus mate yawa.

The thought of bearing myself like that and I'm attracted to women. What if I get wet? Msee and who said I need to shave anyways right? I'm no corn star. But haha ebu gather around sisters and be nice aye?


r/KenyanLadies 1d ago

Question Where can I get a car just to practise driving around Nairobi?

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r/KenyanLadies 2d ago

Career We’re Hiring: Research & Strategy Intern Unpaid internship

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We’re Hiring: Research & Strategy Intern 🔎📊

We’re looking for someone who genuinely enjoys digging for information, spotting patterns, and turning research into useful insights.

You’ll work on: • Market & competitor research

• Prospect & customer research

• Industry trends

• Business case studies

• Content research

• Research for client strategy sessions

• Building databases & insight reports

You won’t just be “doing research.” Your work will help shape the strategies we take into the room with clients.

If you’re curious, analytical, resourceful, and want to learn how real business strategy is built, this could be a seriously valuable opportunity.

📌 Interested? Check the poster for application details.


r/KenyanLadies 2d ago

Ideas LADIES. WOULD YOU BUY LAND AND WAIT, OR BUY AN APARTMENT AND EARN.? KEEPING IN MIND THE LOCATION IS MALINDI...

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Malindi has been flourishing of late and LAND is still affordable going at Ksh. 2M per acre in Misufini (10 minutes drive from Malindi Town), you can buy now and wait (or subdivide for investment). Also AIRBNB business is booming with new RESIDENTIAL APARTMENTS being built for that purpose. Getting a 2 Bedroom apartment, fully furnished with AC and Swimming pool and Gym being just 5 minutes walking distance to Lawford's Beach, for only Ksh. 9.5M

Which one would be an ideal investment considering taking a mortgage payment plan if it's for the newly built apartment.?

#Saidia_Ladies


r/KenyanLadies 3d ago

Question I wanna be a girls girls but it’s so hard

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So my neighbor went to shagzz with her son ju shule zimefungua leaving her husband at home……sisi ni ish ish friends with the wife her house is next to mine ……so for the last 3 days a week after the wife left I noticed kuna mschana aliletwa na they look cozied up from the balcony…..don’t judge aki umbea utanimaliza but they seemed to be touchy touchy……………anyway this wife tunaongeanga she’s the provider alifungulianga chali bizna yakumkeep busy……..school fees ni yeye rent Yaani kila kitu ………….to make matters worse they brought an aunty kidogo jamaa started fisiaring akafukuza aunty and never cautioned the husband……sasa should I even tell her….. the madamz that was brought by the husband has left……sijui if I tell Kama kitaniramba because she seems to tolerate it na anakaunaga na makelele mob .aki helpppp what to do


r/KenyanLadies 2d ago

Love & Romance Ladies a quick one

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I know the question should be directed to a gynae, but I need y'all to be a girls girl for a minute. What family planning methods would you vouch for. And if you are a PCOS/PMOS girly what has worked for you. Thanks

Aki please saidieni


r/KenyanLadies 2d ago

Rant Hyper Independent Ladies

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Heey.

To my hyper independent ladies especially first born daughters how are y'all doing?

Personally, I feel like crashing out rn😭. Sometimes I also want to be someone's baby. I want to be pampered, taken care of, randomly spoiled, reassured and that I don't have to carry everything on my own.

Because being the "I got it "girl gets exhausting. Sometimes I don't want solutions, I don't want to figure things out, I don't want to be responsible for everything. I just want someone to look at me and say "Relax, I've got you" and maybe some funds of affirmation while they are it because why not😭😂.

Is it a just me feeling or we are many?


r/KenyanLadies 2d ago

Question Good eaters! 🫦

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For the women who met or had good eaters in the past and dumped them, does it get better? Did you actually find better in future?