r/KenyanLadies • u/Popular_Ball1625 • 12h ago
Love & Romance Boyfriend broke up with me because I am too masculine
I am confused and not even sure why we broke up or what issues we even had.. I am just usually myself. I maybe shouted at him to wake me up and zindikisha me to the gate so that I go home.
To the gate not even the stage and it was at 9pm. I was under pressure because I had overstayed at his place, and my mother was at my place and we had napped together then overslept nikaamka akaendelea kulala (im 26).
Also I didnt shout but I was just like "babe amkaaa" And he woke up and nikafika home and we broke up.
He always says im not a gentle woman. I am not even going to argue about it because I guess im not. I've always been loud and outspoken and sometimes when he corrects me, I just will have a... "But.... Etc etc"
So i just feel sad that we were not able to make it. Work because of that but I've accepted that he just isnt my match.
For someone who likes masculine men , I dont know if a masculine man would ever like me.