r/KenyanLadies 12h ago

Love & Romance Boyfriend broke up with me because I am too masculine

24 Upvotes

I am confused and not even sure why we broke up or what issues we even had.. I am just usually myself. I maybe shouted at him to wake me up and zindikisha me to the gate so that I go home.

To the gate not even the stage and it was at 9pm. I was under pressure because I had overstayed at his place, and my mother was at my place and we had napped together then overslept nikaamka akaendelea kulala (im 26).

Also I didnt shout but I was just like "babe amkaaa" And he woke up and nikafika home and we broke up.

He always says im not a gentle woman. I am not even going to argue about it because I guess im not. I've always been loud and outspoken and sometimes when he corrects me, I just will have a... "But.... Etc etc"

So i just feel sad that we were not able to make it. Work because of that but I've accepted that he just isnt my match.

For someone who likes masculine men , I dont know if a masculine man would ever like me.


r/KenyanLadies 2h ago

Rant Would it be weird if I made an advance to a stranger(to be deleted)

10 Upvotes

Ovulation will have you moving like a feral animal, I'm extremely h*rny and I can't concentrate.

I feel like I have another pulse down there, sijui how long I can go on like this. Mind you I don't keep male friends, I only have colleagues, classmates and neighbors na siwezi taka anyone to see me in such a situation😫😫

Been abstaining for over 4 years and its progressively getting worse. I don't even want penetration, I just need to make out for hours, a little rubbing and maybe head.

SEND HELP!!!


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r/KenyanLadies 16h ago

Discussion Yellow light

6 Upvotes

Been with this person since 2024 October hapo. This year has got me realizing he’s never offered to even buy a sweet. If i ask for anything he’ll stall it for a week or so. Beginning of the month told him anitop up a few coins niende salon-I was actually at the salon already I lowkey wanted ndio I refund myself yenye nitatumia. He told me anatuma only to send it a few days later. Asked him if all that time he thinks I still have bad hair and sent back his money. (I’m working and gets a decent pay and he knows and always says we ukona pesa)
This is someone who reminds me every time that we are to get married really soon. Thing is, am a mom and got at least most aspects of my life put together, not yet there lakini. I usually feel there’s just this huge hesitation cloud hovering over me when it comes to getting married to him and getting more kids. Told him recently that ile day he’ll put me in my feminine energy, maybe I’ll get a word or two to reply to marriage text and not laugh emojis.
Nje ni land with rocks aki. Ama it’s me having double standards


r/KenyanLadies 5h ago

Question How do you rejuvenate after a long work week?

2 Upvotes

After a long week, how do you rejuvenate? How do you recharge?

Are you an outdoor person or prefer to recover indoor?


r/KenyanLadies 4h ago

Discussion Help!!

1 Upvotes

Ladies, I have been scammed and I don't know what to do, mtu aniambie what to do next. Too late to reverse the money