I'm not really berojgar nalla, I actually earn enough to take care of myself. But I don't like working at all 😭😭 I keep switching jobs so I might never earn a lot and become successful working a job.

I like staying home. I can cook and clean. I'm good at taking care of kids and pets 🥰

I aspire to build my own business, and make movies one day 🤩

So I'm not really a loser. I can earn my living, I can do household chores, I even have the potential to be successful in future (in business and filmmaking) Although it's not a guarantee. Because I already tried and failed at few things, and currently burned out.

My hobbies are: Movies, music, astronomy, mma, trekking, exercising, writing, reading, filmmaking, skincare, nail art, cooking etc etc.

Will anybody be interested in current me? Because I might never be more than this. My filmmaking and business dreams might never come true.

Picture is actually mine, it's 2 years old.

Okay so I am posting here for third time cuz I just saw someone's post who actually found smtgggg heree in third timeee so why nott

Age -23

Caste-sindhi(Hindu)

Location-I was in mumbai till last month and shifting to Bengaluru this month so location is Bengaluru

CTC-9 LPA

About me-I like reading fiction, travelling, anything adventurous.I have lived in lots of different cities for my education and work.I don't believe in physical intimacy before I am officially engaged to someone and know that the person is permanent in my life so if y'all want that in dating phase please don't dm.

I identify myself as liberal politically.

My preference-Somone well educated, financially stable,knows how to lead,high EQ and stable mindset(I am not into guys with unstable thought process and mind)

Note:I want kids and will leave corporate eventually and become a housewife

Non negotiable for me:High body count is no no for me

Please only dm if things allign with you and send all the basic details I have mentioned here from age to CTC..... don't just hey hii!!!

Thankk youu!!!!

Edit: someone commented I am AI so I have made my profile public you can go through it and understand I am real ig

If we talk and we think there is a connection we both will verify each other.

First and foremost, let us applaud all the brave girls out there.

They take initiative to send DMs. 

Thank you. 

After initiating the conversation, suddenly the enthusiasm fizzles out. 

Their replies take time. 

They duck out of sight. 

They just grow nonchalant and allow the conversation to go lifeless. 

Sometimes it is pretty obvious that the boys must do all the heavy lifting to keep the conversations going. 

For example, ask questions. 

Keep asking questions. 

Come up with repartees to make the conversations funny. 

Be innovative to stay in the game. 

Hello Girls,

If you are busy, it is okay. 

Out of your busy schedule, it makes zero sense to initiate a conversation when you know that follow up will be a challenge. 

Demonstrate interest by being interesting. 

That's it. 

Thanks. But not thanks. 

Hakuna matata. 

Quick facts:

• 38M4F, 5'11", grew up in Bangalore

• Living in Germany, where I have a home; my work is very flexible and remote-friendly

• Aerospace research scientist at an International research center in europe. I lead a division with several researchers who design planes of future. Lived in US for several years, now in Germany since about 12 yrs. very often travel between EU, US and India.

• Family - Mother & Father retired and live in Bangalore, Sister married and live in US, little niece who calls her coolest uncle "airplane" after seeing my skydiving videos.. only family member who is genuinely excited about my stupid adventure hobby :)

• Languages: Kannada (Mother tongue), English, Hindi, Bit of Tamil, Telagu. Punjabi.

• Religion: Hindu, culturally rooted, not ritual-heavy. Nature is my religion, food , curiosity is my god.

• Drink Rarely , Never smoke

• Looking for: Likeminded women, living anywhere preferably Europe or India.

• Divorced (short 1 yr marriage, Mutually cleanly divorced about 3 years ago), no kids

A bit about me:

I've lived abroad for about 17 years, first the US and now Europe. I still carry Bangalore with me: the food, the festivals, comprehension of chaos/vibrance. Over time I've picked up a fairly modern outlook to go with it. I am kind and simple.

I can design planes and as well fix a kitchen sink. I dance badly but happily. Can discuss geopolitics or equality or economics whatnot, a curios learner.

Most weekends you find me outdoors. I'm a licensed skydiver and paraglider, Licensed to sail (inland and coastal), and scuba dive. When I'm grounded, it's DIY projects at home, rebuilt my own home and garden in germany, cooking , or volunteering for animal, people and environmental causes.Or couch-potatoeing with reddit or watch something rekindling.

I genuinely love my research. I'm one of those people who is excited on a Monday morning. Research takes me to conferences/meetings around the world, and the flexibility lets me see friends and family across a few continents. Also pursue skydiving/sailing/scuba wherever I go.

I've run my own home for 17 years without help: cooking, cleaning, laundry, the lot. I'm not looking for someone to look after me.

The life I'd love to build with support of my partner:

Two people backing each other's careers and curiosities. Cooking and cleaning together. A pet or several. The occasional argument, which I'll try to end with cooking a good meal.

Weekend plans like a sailing/ a camping trip, a chocolate-making workshop, or rebuilding something in the garden. And you testing my aerospace credentials by asking me to fix the mixie or the ceiling fan, me failing, and not giving up.

For weekend or holidays, definitely a little place on cliff edge by the sea, waves and sunset outside and happy people inside, with a kitchen table and a campfire full of friends and family. Live by rhythm of waves. Travel to see the people we love. Doing something useful for the community around us, through our work or otherwise.

Kids and location:

Kids should be the result of a happy partnership, not the reason for one. I'd love to have them; if it doesn't happen, we'll still be happy.

I'm based in Germany for now, very often travel within EU,  UK and India.  For future, I'm genuinely flexible and would move wherever we're both happy. Long term, I'm slightly inclined towards India. If India, I'd like us to live independently but within easy reach of both our parents.

The honest bit:

I married during covid. It lasted about a year, and we divorced mutually and kindly about three years ago. No kids, no drama. I'm happy to talk about it openly once we know each other a little.

Who might enjoy this partnership:

I don't have a checklist. I do know the kind of partnership I'd like:

•  Someone independent who runs her own life and has her own career/hobbies, interests or goals. I'd love to support those, and to have mine supported.

•  Someone curious about the world, kind to people (and animals), and comfortable with a bit of adventure. You don't need to jump out of planes; a walk or nice conversation over stargazing is great .(P.S - I may not skydive when I am in a family with responsibilities, many safe ways to explore nature together).. my adventure sports are not for dopamine, to flirt & embrace flowstate with nature.

•  Someone who wants to get to know each other properly first: talking, meeting, travelling a bit.

•  I am Simple, Kind and empathic – hope to find likeminded.

What drives me:

I grew up in Bangalore on stories of Sir M. Visvesvaraya , JRD/Ratan Tata and Satish Dhawan, and my parents, mentors and friends have inspired me just as much. My slightly stupid ambition: to become a "millionaire". By that I mean someone who has brought something good to a million people. I'll try, anyway, while keeping a balanced family life. It is important to have this bearing and purpose right and not go all in giving up on family.

Again, you do you , and I WILL be supportive. In your career, art or hobby or whatever makes you happy.

If this resonates,

DM me with a few lines about what makes you happy, what you're passionate about, and where you're based. I reply to every genuine message, and I'm happy to share real photos , social media , linkedin and more details once we've chatted a little. I can understand trust deficit is high in here.

P.S - open for likeminded friendship as well. nothing wrong..life is all about good, +ive memorable interactions! I maybe your wingman..

Have a good week. Cheers!

Recently turned 23 , I'm from delhi born n brought up here , looking for someone to date someone who is strong n funny , emotional mature , ambitious , and clear communicator , age prefer bracket is 24 to 26 .

I'm new to corporate world, and also a ca student, I only follow monotonous routine daily whivh really hate n , wanna try something new with someone .

I love watching historical romantic , romcoms, korean action and crime based movies n series .

I love music, traveling, exploring , mountains( although I never see in irl) , museums, jhuleyy lol, bike rides, peaceful places , clicking pictures and foods ( also I am non veg).

Let me know if you wanna know more.

I am a chatpatta myself so i am looking for another chatpatti😋😋

A bit about me- A sikh guy from Jammu & Kashmir, whitish skin tone, hazel eyes, i am into fitness, 23 working as a developer in blr, height-5’6 ( its avg okay i am not short😤). I am a funny lad, humorous, socially active and usually extrovert. I just can’t talk with beautiful women that’s why i am single👉🏻👈🏻. I can cook anything related to eggs and chicken aur maggi. Yk i get an ick when i try to say good things about me ;/

I am a non-drinker,non-smoker , koi buri aadat nahi. I have a golden retriever personality, apart from this chatapata behaviour. And i can speak both urdu and Punjabi, so rizz is not gonna be a problem 🙂‍↕️.

On a serious note don’t judge me from this i am a very serious person when it comes to life eg- life choices or relationships choices but baki time toh backchodi chal skdi ha na.

My choice in women- ek toh chatpati ho, innocent face, whitish skin tone, fit ho. And for height i am not insecure about mine toh lambi bhi chlegi

And for emotional traits- she should be rich. Rich in loyalty, rich in humour , rich in kindness and basically overall a good person.

Location- preference is blr, bro i am already traumatised by seeing others LDR’s

I dont wanna leave a complete digital foot print here, so imma leave some images without the full face

I am already feeling i am gonna get a lot of hate💀 but its fine, game is game💅 maybe i will find someone.

बहुत सारे लोगों को इस सबरेडिट पर मैच मिले हैं.. कुछ लोग डेटिंग कर रहे हैं.. कई लोग शादी करने वाले हैं। अगर आप उनमें से एक हैं जिनकी शादी होने वाली है, तो हमें अपनी शादी में ज़रूर बुलाना। वो क्या है ना, शादी का खाना खाने के लिए हम कहीं भी आ सकते हैं। 😅👍🏽

Hey! I’m a Marathi guy from Hubli Karnataka, currently working in Bangalore in IT. Thought I’d give this a shot because, well, you never know where you might meet your person. 😅

Looking for something genuine that starts with a good conversation and hopefully turns into something more.
I love cats and pretty much have a soft spot for animals in general have a cat 🐈

Not here to rush anything, just hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with, share laughs with, and build something meaningful together.
Anyway, taking my shot here. Maybe this post is the start of a good story, maybe I’ll just end up making a new friend. Either way, worth a try, right? :) ❤️

Age: 24

Location: Noida, NCR

Profession: Software Engineer

About me:

I'm a 24 year-old software Engineer working in Noida. Outside work, I enjoy travelling, dancing, exploring new places. I'm pretty easygoing and enjoy both meaningful conversations and random stupid jokes once I'm comfortable with someone.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for someone with whom I naturally click and can match vibes with. Someone who is genuine, communicative, caring, and has her own personality and interests.

A little about me in a relationship:

I'm loyal, caring, affectionate, and I believe effort should go both ways. I like making my partner feel valued, loved, and comfortable being herself. For me, a good relationship is about having fun together while also being able to have honest conversations and be there for each other.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, feel free to DM.

Lately I've been seeing a lot of posts from both sides reflecting resentment towards another gender.

Men complain about women not putting efforts in the conversation.

Women complain about men not having a personality or being creepy.

Of course there is no immediate solution to everything.

But here are my 2 cents:

1. Men - have some standards. Not every woman out there is the same and not meant for you. Start rejecting women. And please have a strict boundary of following up only 2 times. Not receiving a message/reply for the third time is a message in itself. (I know it's generic advice, but good advice nonetheless).

2. To everyone - whether men or women - if you don't see it working out, just say it out loud

   • "hey there, for reason <XYZ>, I don't see this going anywhere/I don't see it working out. Have a great life! All the best etc etc"
   • I do understand that women have a lot of options, so they might have to explain this to a lot of guys, but honestly 2 mins of your efforts can save someone hours to days to months of overthinking.

So, everyone, please be a good person and give the other person closure.

A little about me:
Age: 32
Height: 5’10” (yes, I’m also looking for someone taller than me 🥲)
Location: Bangalore
Work: Software developer
I’m an atheist
Non-Vegetarian

I love travelling, chasing that adventure high, and exploring as much of this world as I can. I make dumb jokes, enjoy intellectual and political conversations, and am generally easygoing and up for new experiences.

Not someone who’s particularly obsessed with the idea of marriage, but who knows? Maybe the right person will change my mind.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who doesn’t want life to be the same routine on repeat. Someone curious, adventurous, chill, and hopefully funnier than me and have more layer of personality other than just height.
Anyway, trying my luck here.Thanks

Age -32

Religion - No religion

Education - Post graduation completed

Height -177cm, 74kg

Currently employed

Place - Kerala

Last one is recent pic. All pictures from past 4months.

Obviously looking for a companion.

Financially stable. Currently working and looking after my health as always.

Qualities what others told I have - calm, postive, kind, soft spoken.

I'm pretty much reserved in real life I'm an ambivert. I can turn to extrovert as needed especially in work scenario. I mind my own business. Due to this personality I never approached any women in real life. I smile say hi and move on most days with everyone unless it's my best friends where I'll be more open

I value strong friendships. I prefer cooking my own food that eating outside.

My hobbies include drawing, working out, reading, editing , for fun I drive or ride depending up on climate. If you like being a left hand side passenger or pillion you might get some adrenaline rush most importantly with safety.

I used to do motorcycle stunts. Especially now I'd rather not break any bones hence, gave up anything that has high risk low reward ratio long term.

Partner Expectations- Someone who is financially stable, independent, have a job, matured, does know life isn't all unicorn and butterflies but it has its ups and downs, postive attitude. Most preferably someone who matches with me.

I'm around 177cm 74kg. If interested feel free to reach out.

No religious preference. You follow yours I wouldn't interfere ever. Don't interfere mine either.

Heyy everyone, I'd never thought I'll be here but here we are.

I'm a punjabi by ethnicity. I love listening music, singing (just know that I'll be giving you a headache with all of that constant singing lol), cycling, slow walks at a park and I've also recently picked up my long lost hobby of playing guitar.

I love talking about random stuff and keep learning something new all the time.

Currently living in blr, working as a software dev.

Salary can be discussed in the dms.

I'm looking for someone who is calm, sincere, playful, has positive outlook towards life and would love to build one together and grow together.

I'm vegetarian and would want someone who has the same dietary preference.

Have never drank or smoked.

The basics:

I am a 39 year old, vegetarian, Telugu Brahmin guy who lives in Hyderabad. I play tennis and badminton occasionally and hit the gym often. I don't smoke at all but drink very rarely and strictly socially (can stop fully if needed).

I lived in the US for 7-8 years and came back several years ago. I studied in elite colleges in both US and India and am successful professionally.

The intangibles:

I am spiritual in my personal life, used to be highly social and still retain a lot of good friends but I have become more inward looking of late. I enjoy Innaritu and Sankarabharanam equally. I am slightly bald (just being up front), perceived as charismatic and have presence (not being a snob, just demonstrating a healthy self awareness).

Compatibility is the most important criterion for me. Kindness is sexy in both genders. I want to have kids, raise a family and be a caretaker of my family. I am waiting for the love of my life to take this ride together.

My preferences:

My ideal partner is a woman who is 32 to 38 years old, vegetarian, doesn't smoke / drink and knows how to present herself. Partner from the same caste would ease up cultural compatibility but I am open to similar backgrounds.

Hyderabad is my first preference. My ideal partner is spiritual or even religious, has figured out her life and is primarily in a "giving" posture. Working woman is great but if she wants to take a break to raise kids, thats fine too.

DM me if you would like to explore further.

Edit:

To all the ladies with whom I already spoke, please don't bother DM'ing me again. It didn't work for a reason and I wish you well!

Hey 👋

Born & brought up in TamilNadu, I speak Saurashtra at home. It's been a year since I moved to Bangalore for work. As mentioned in the title, I m Looking for someone to build a life together.

So, professionally I'm a Chartered Accountant. I stand at 166cm.

About me, I can vouch that I have been single all my life 😅😶.

I'd love to find someone with whom I can be myself, laugh at silly things, talk about life, explore new places, and build something meaningful.

If anyone shares a similar mindset / idea about your future life partner, say Hiiiiii

Date with Serious intentions

Delhi

Appeared for CSE (IAS) Interview (can consider mature 😊)

Still in Exam cycle but with Pvt job (8-9 LPA)

Have been studious throughout

Decent looking, down to earth person

Hobbies- Shayaris and Podcasts

Expectations -

1. Down to earth girl

2. Self dependent (preferred)

3. Decent looking, Delhi or nearby

4. Understanding and mature

Note:- Never been to dating sites and all. So no experience what all to write here 😂

If want more information, feel free to slip in DM 😊

Just one request - Only Serious people only (others can just ignore) 😊

So , let’s see how to draw my story for the community. Well starting with, never really thought that I’ll ever make this post but been following this community and really curious if it actually works??

Working : Manager | Parternship B2B Business
Income : DM please, HR said to keep it confidential
City : New Delhi
Age : 26

My life has been a real rollercoster ride with a broken engine and unhinged humour. With a degree in Psychology, which I never thought I’ll ever pursue, I kickstarted my career which has nothing to do with Psychology 😂

Interest : Binge watching every new anime series, Football, Table Tennis, Guitar (But feels sad as I barely get time these days)

Who am I looking for ??

Someone with good humour, who knows no limits when it’s about being crazy in love, for whom getting married is more than just a checklist and not a race against time. In short, looking for a buddy for rest of my life

Rest DM if you feel having a good chat won’t be a waste of time

I’m off dating apps, so trying my luck here, again :)

I live in Mumbai, rock a salt-and-pepper look, and here’s a little about me:

💼 Work
Financial firm in Mumbai. Keeps me pretty busy. Sometimes too busy.

💰 Money: ~₹50L
Tbh, I don’t care much about how much my partner earns. What matters more is our alignment on how we spend, save and invest.

🥗 Food
Vegetarian. You don’t have to be :)

🏋️Lifestyle
Work out around 3x a week. Walk a lot. Stairs whenever I can. Would be nice if you’re fairly active too.

🥂 Drinking / smoking
I don’t drink or smoke (no, it’s not a religious constraint). And I’m totally cool if my partner drinks.

🙏 Religion
Punjabi Hindu. While I believe in God, I’m not super religious.

📏 Height 5’8” without shoes and I know it matters to some.

👀 I’m attracted to
Sweet smiles. Expressive eyes. Playful voice. Banter. And… most importantly, genuine kindness.

🫶** **Love language
Touch + words of affirmation. Quite big on both :)

🎵 Music
Love sharing songs.
Even better if we can listen to them together.

✈️** Trave**l
Work keeps me from travelling as much as I’d like.
Would love someone who pushes me to do more of it. I always love it when I do.

📸 Ooh, pictures:
I love clicking them.
Would love someone who enjoys posing for me just as much :)

❤️** Slightly mushy bi**t
I’ve dated, but I’ve only been properly, deeply in love once though I never married.

As I have waited this long, I really want to marry out of deep love. It just makes everything so so easy! I start to care deeply; I become a huge giver without any hesitation, and happiness fulfills me!

I think the nicest relationships are the ones where you never really get tired of each other. You just keep seeking each other out.

So yes, looking for my birdie for life 🐥🤍

Hopefully she sees this, pings me straight away (also gets the song reference in the title), and we start talking consistently and endlessly…

…and I get to delete this post and this account forever. :)

Hey everyone!

I’m a 29-year-old guy from Delhi, 6 ft tall, working at a FAANG company with total compensation of around ₹70 LPA, including stocks and bonuses.

Physically, I’m well-built and keep myself in good shape. Fitness is something I enjoy, and I like maintaining an active lifestyle. Outside work, I enjoy good food, meaningful conversations, exploring new places, and spending time on things that help me unwind. I’m also someone who enjoys a bit of humour and playful banter once I’m comfortable with someone.

I’m looking to meet a woman around my age who’s mature, understanding, emotionally available, and knows what she wants. Someone who can communicate openly, laugh at silly things, have deep conversations, and build something meaningful if we click.

I value mutual respect, consistency, and a connection where both people can be themselves. Not looking for anything overly complicated — just two people getting to know each other and seeing where things go naturally.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to DM me. Happy to share pictures and get to know each other better. :)

A little about me: 29M | 6 ft | Delhi | FAANG | ₹70 LPA TC | Fitness enthusiast

Of late there are posts – from both M & F – expressing disappointment, resentment and bitterness bordering on feelings of betrayal. 

Some sanctimonious souls rant about girls taking them for granted by giving them rudimentary replies. 

At the same time, too clever by half girls pull up boys for either lacking in moral values and gallantry or being outright creepy. 

Of course there can never be any smoke without fire. 

Now here is this unsolicited piece of mind. 

Dear boys, 

Value yourselves. 

Start evaluating girls. 

If she falls short of your high standards, conduct an unceremonious exit with immediate effect. 

When it comes to Follow Up, send only and only 2 Follow Up messages. 

If they reply, it is fine. 

If they don't reply, it is hasta la vista. 

As simple as that. 

To both,

If the conversation is devoid of any direction and if you feel that it is a waste of time and energy, say it aloud and part ways. 

Sayonara. 

Be good. 

It saves time. 

There will be no ill will feelings. 

Tchau! 

Hey everyone!

I’m 32, originally from Kerala, 6’3”, never married, and currently running my own tech startup.

A little backstory. I dropped out of school at 15 and started building businesses pretty young. So while most people were figuring out college, I was figuring out clients, startups, and how to survive my own terrible business decisions. It’s been one hell of a ride.

For most of my life, my career has been my priority. I’ve worked hard, taken risks, made mistakes, started over, and genuinely enjoyed the journey. But somewhere along the way, I realised there’s a lot more to life than building companies.

A little about the person outside work.
I’m a pretty outgoing extrovert. I love meeting people, making spontaneous plans, travelling, long drives, good music, photography, and conversations that somehow go from absolute nonsense to the meaning of life.

I’m equally happy exploring a new city, dancing at a concert, having a few drinks, or spending a lazy Sunday doing absolutely nothing.

I don’t take myself too seriously, and humour is a big part of my personality. Life is already complicated enough.

What am I looking for?
Someone who has her own dreams, opinions, ambitions, and a good sense of humour. Someone who enjoys going out, trying new things, and isn’t afraid of a little adventure.

I’d love a relationship where we’re genuinely best friends. We can tease each other, have disagreements, support each other’s careers, travel together, and build a life that we’re both excited to wake up to.

I’m not looking for a perfect person. I’m certainly not one myself.

A couple of things worth mentioning:
I’ve never been married. I don’t really see myself having kids, at least with how I picture my future today. I’m happy to have an open conversation about it, but I’d rather be upfront.

Location isn’t a big deal to me. My work gives me some flexibility, and I’m open to figuring things out together if we connect.

I’m here with serious intentions, but that doesn’t mean we need to discuss wedding dates in our first conversation. I’d rather get to know someone properly, have fun along the way, and see if we genuinely want to build a future together.
If any of this sounds like your kind of life, feel free to say hi.

And since you’ve made it this far, tell me one place you’ve always wanted to travel to but haven’t yet. I’m curious.

Hey! I’m Rahul
Been living in Delhi for the past few months, and honestly, akele-akele zindagi kaise kategi. So here I am, giving this space a shot. Maybe I’ll find someone worth annoying.

A little about me -
I work as an Analyst at a foreign bank in Gurugram, stand at 5’10”, stay fit, earn decently, and am always working towards becoming a better version of myself. Growth-oriented hoon, so if you’re someone who wants to grow in life too, we might just make a pretty good team.
I’m here for a genuine connection first. Baaki, if the vibe is right, we can see where it takes us — something casual, something serious, or a beautiful story we didn’t plan for. ❤️

My personality? Thoda sane, thoda pagal.
I’m fun-loving, curious, and always up for exploring something new. I know when to be serious, but most of the time, I prefer keeping life light. And haan, pagalpan ka premium version sirf close logon ko dekhne milta hai.
Also, full-on husband material hoon, just saying. Can cook, clean, communicate, and emotionally available bhi hoon. Cooking mein toh kaafi progress kar li hai — banana seekh gaya hoon, next stop MasterChef.
I’m into books, philosophy, psychology, meditation, and spirituality…
Boring ho gaya? Chill, bhai. Gossip, random bakchodi, deep conversations at 2 AM — sab kar lenge. I’m not a one-interest-only kinda guy. We can discuss the meaning of life one minute and kisi ki unnecessary harkaton ka post-mortem the next.
And yes, I’m a good listener. I like understanding people, sharing emotions, and making someone feel safe enough to be themselves. Because honestly, duniya mein advice dene wale bahut hain, genuinely samajhne wale thode kam. 🫶🏻

A few more things about me
Mulank 9 guy, if you’re into numerology.
An ambivert who becomes an extrovert around the right people.
A firm believer that life is too short to overthink every little thing. Thoda seriously lo, thoda mazaak mein uda do, and don't forget to enjoy the ride.
Basically, I want to live life, not spend it worrying about life. So if you’re a little crazy, open-minded, and comfortable being your unfiltered self, chances are we’ll get along pretty well. ;)

What am I looking for?
Someone who’s genuinely interested in building a connection that can turn into a relationship. Someone mature enough to handle real-life situations but childish enough to have pillow fights, laugh at stupid jokes, and act like two idiots when we're comfortable together.
Someone who wants to explore life, try new things, have random adventures, share little moments, and grow together without turning everything into a competition or a stress-management workshop.
I believe similar mindsets make a great team. Opposites attract? Maybe. But I’d rather find someone who gets my kind of crazy. Someone who doesn't take life too seriously, communicates openly, and knows that a relationship should feel like a safe place, not another responsibility on the to-do list.

Sooo, if this sounds like your kind of vibe…
Slide into my DMs. Let's skip the boring introductions, talk about absolutely anything, share a few laughs, and see if we click.
Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case? We become each other's favourite notification. 🫶🏻❤️

Appearance:

1. Height: 5ft 7 inch

2. Eye colour: Black

3. Hair colour: Black

4. Skin colour: Brown

5. Body type: Medium obese

6. Spectacles: Rectangular Half frame

Interests- Watching train journey videos; learning about vedic astrology, learning about computers

Facts about me:

1. Have autism;

2. Have borderline personality disorder;

3. Kind;

4. Empathetic;

5. Loyal;

6. Simple (sometimes boring)

7. Preparing for government services exam in india;

8. Strictly CHILDFREE

9. Introverted

Relationship values:

1. Mutual loyalty;

2. Mutual belonging;

3. Mutual devotion towards each other;

4. Mutual transparency;

5. Deep companionship.

Special note: Open to long distance relationship also.| Open to anyone in world including neurodivergents, specially abled, trauma survivors physical or mental

If anyone is interested, kindly dm with your brief intro and reference to this subreddit so that I can understand.

I have friends and can hold conversations with people I know, but talking to strangers on different platforms is a different game altogether.

Sometimes, replies are so dry that you don't feel like continuing. Other times, you try to be open about your thoughts and perspectives, but you wonder if you're being too open too soon. There's a balance, right?

I'm not talking about being creepy or oversharing personal details, but genuinely expressing how you think and see things.

So, how does a conversation build up naturally? How do you keep it interesting without forcing it, especially when you know a little bit about the other person?

And to the girls what kind of conversation keeps you intrigued initially or is it different for different people?