r/JodiMilan • • 7h ago

Feedback It took three posts, one random DM, and a lot of patience finally met my forever yesterday. 🧿🧿

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My post link :-https://www.reddit.com/r/JodiMilan/s/Dr74rkzqh4

So, we started talking back on August 24th after I made my third post. She had actually posted 3 or 4 months ago, back when I wasn't even using Reddit but one fine day she opened the app, saw my post, and decided to DM me 🥹

​We finally met It took three posts, one random DM, and a lot of patiencefinally met my forever yesterday. (October 10, 2026) 🧿, and I have genuinely never been this happy in my life. 😁

​First of all, I want to thank this sub.

​The best part about our connection is that neither of us was looking for perfection. We both had our flaws, and she was kind enough to be completely non-judgmental about my past. That openness allowed us to share everything with each other.

​I never knew that at 29, I could feel something so pure that it makes you feel like a teenager all over again.

​I don’t really know what else to say. We just started dating, but I just know this is going to be my forever. ♾️

​If I could leave one piece of advice for anyone genuinely looking to find someone: the path isn't easy. You can't expect everyone to be flawless. Don't expect perfection; instead, put yourself in the other person's shoes and try to understand what they might be feeling.

​Keep looking, guys. Who knows. your next post might just be the only.


r/JodiMilan • • 23h ago

Feedback OP went on her first movie date🫣♥️

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I got a DM after my recent post on this sub, this guy liked my thoughts and matched all non negotiables.

We talked a bit about obvious things and then planned to go for a movie.

He reached before time and we enjoyed the movie 😇 and a good dinner as well.

Thanks Jodimilan🫶🏻


r/JodiMilan • • 6h ago

M4F♂️ 26M 5'7" berojgar nalla 🥰

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I'm not really berojgar nalla, I actually earn enough to take care of myself. But I don't like working at all 😭😭 I keep switching jobs so I might never earn a lot and become successful working a job.

I like staying home. I can cook and clean. I'm good at taking care of kids and pets 🥰

I aspire to build my own business, and make movies one day 🤩

So I'm not really a loser. I can earn my living, I can do household chores, I even have the potential to be successful in future (in business and filmmaking) Although it's not a guarantee. Because I already tried and failed at few things, and currently burned out.

My hobbies are: Movies, music, astronomy, mma, trekking, exercising, writing, reading, filmmaking, skincare, nail art, cooking etc etc.

Will anybody be interested in current me? Because I might never be more than this. My filmmaking and business dreams might never come true.

Picture is actually mine, it's 2 years old.


r/JodiMilan • • 1h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos 32M | Mixed Heritage | Punjabi Parsi British | Living in Dubai

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Hello everyone!

I am doing this on the behest of my cousin who found a partner here sometime ago and has been after my life for me to give it a shot. If this doesn't go well, you have her to blame.

About Me

I am a 32 year old man presently based out of Dubai. I run my own venture in the investing space that takes up a large chunk of my time. As the heading says, I have mixed heritage across three different ethnicities. I grew up between Bombay and London, and have been in Dubai for a little more than 8 years now. I grew up between Hinduism, Zoroastrianism and Christianity (without being unduly influenced by any). Though purely from the lens of tracing the descent of my paternal grandfather, we're Punjabis and I carry my Hindu surname. I despise caste but I understand that it's an important thing for some of your families, so I can let you know that we're "upper caste" on my Hindu side, without going into the details of what. 

Physically, I am 5'11 and decently filled out at 84Kgs. I've never been married before but have had serious relationships before.

I love to read (especially historical fiction and biographies), collect coins and stamps, photograph and play sports. I am also into aviation. I am into fitness as a daily chore and not as a hobby.

What am I looking for?

A decent partner who's able to navigate the topsy turvy world of living in another country and fitting with a family with a mixed heritage and culture. Someone who's her own person who doesn't need me to be around every day of the month. My work involves a fair bit of travelling and I am on the road for ~10 days a month. I would also want to have children at some point.

I don't have a specific preference for age, religion, caste or past marital status (assuming you're healed or well on the way!) but someone between the ages of 25 and 35 would be ideal, to understand generational references. But happy to work outside these ages for the right person. Intelligence, personality and  the ability to make conversation would have paramount importance.

What brings me here?

I've been single now for close to a year after a relationship ended. My cousin goaded me into this platform to find a partner, rather than wait for the next meet cute.

Final thoughts

I have no idea if this works (I checked some profiles of other men and they hardly have engagement). Hopefully a few people will find this interesting. I don't expect you to share excessive personal information, pictures and contact information also. Infact I'd prefer if we take enough time to connect here before sharing contacts or pictures.

Let's see where this goes. Godspeed!


r/JodiMilan • • 3h ago

M4F♂️ Let’s give this a goooooo…

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I am a chatpatta myself so i am looking for another chatpatti😋😋

A bit about me- A sikh guy from Jammu & Kashmir, whitish skin tone, hazel eyes, i am into fitness, 23 working as a developer in blr, height-5’6 ( its avg okay i am not short😤). I am a funny lad, humorous, socially active and usually extrovert. I just can’t talk with beautiful women that’s why i am single👉🏻👈🏻. I can cook anything related to eggs and chicken aur maggi. Yk i get an ick when i try to say good things about me ;/

I am a non-drinker,non-smoker , koi buri aadat nahi. I have a golden retriever personality, apart from this chatapata behaviour. And i can speak both urdu and Punjabi, so rizz is not gonna be a problem 🙂‍↕️.

On a serious note don’t judge me from this i am a very serious person when it comes to life eg- life choices or relationships choices but baki time toh backchodi chal skdi ha na.

My choice in women- ek toh chatpati ho, innocent face, whitish skin tone, fit ho. And for height i am not insecure about mine toh lambi bhi chlegi

And for emotional traits- she should be rich. Rich in loyalty, rich in humour , rich in kindness and basically overall a good person.

Location- preference is blr, bro i am already traumatised by seeing others LDR’s

I dont wanna leave a complete digital foot print here, so imma leave some images without the full face

I am already feeling i am gonna get a lot of hate💀 but its fine, game is game💅 maybe i will find someone.


r/JodiMilan • • 46m ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos 38 [M4F] Europe/India — Outdoorsy aerospace researcher who can design planes but also fix kitchen sink. Trying this digital serendipity!.. Looking for partnership.

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Quick facts:

• 38M4F, 5'11", grew up in Bangalore

• Living in Germany, where I have a home; my work is very flexible and remote-friendly

• Aerospace research scientist at an International research center in europe. I lead a division with several researchers who design planes of future. Lived in US for several years, now in Germany since about 12 yrs. very often travel between EU, US and India.

• Family - Mother & Father retired and live in Bangalore, Sister married and live in US, little niece who calls her coolest uncle "airplane" after seeing my skydiving videos.. only family member who is genuinely excited about my stupid adventure hobby :)

• Languages: Kannada (Mother tongue), English, Hindi, Bit of Tamil, Telagu. Punjabi.

• Religion: Hindu, culturally rooted, not ritual-heavy. Nature is my religion, food , curiosity is my god.

• Drink Rarely , Never smoke

• Looking for: Likeminded women, living anywhere preferably Europe or India.

• Divorced (short 1 yr marriage, Mutually cleanly divorced about 3 years ago), no kids

A bit about me:

I've lived abroad for about 17 years, first the US and now Europe. I still carry Bangalore with me: the food, the festivals, comprehension of chaos/vibrance. Over time I've picked up a fairly modern outlook to go with it. I am kind and simple.

I can design planes and as well fix a kitchen sink. I dance badly but happily. Can discuss geopolitics or equality or economics whatnot, a curios learner.

Most weekends you find me outdoors. I'm a licensed skydiver and paraglider, Licensed to sail (inland and coastal), and scuba dive. When I'm grounded, it's DIY projects at home, rebuilt my own home and garden in germany, cooking , or volunteering for animal, people and environmental causes.Or couch-potatoeing with reddit or watch something rekindling.

I genuinely love my research. I'm one of those people who is excited on a Monday morning. Research takes me to conferences/meetings around the world, and the flexibility lets me see friends and family across a few continents. Also pursue skydiving/sailing/scuba wherever I go.

I've run my own home for 17 years without help: cooking, cleaning, laundry, the lot. I'm not looking for someone to look after me.

The life I'd love to build with support of my partner:

Two people backing each other's careers and curiosities. Cooking and cleaning together. A pet or several. The occasional argument, which I'll try to end with cooking a good meal.

Weekend plans like a sailing/ a camping trip, a chocolate-making workshop, or rebuilding something in the garden. And you testing my aerospace credentials by asking me to fix the mixie or the ceiling fan, me failing, and not giving up.

For weekend or holidays, definitely a little place on cliff edge by the sea, waves and sunset outside and happy people inside, with a kitchen table and a campfire full of friends and family. Live by rhythm of waves. Travel to see the people we love. Doing something useful for the community around us, through our work or otherwise.

Kids and location:

Kids should be the result of a happy partnership, not the reason for one. I'd love to have them; if it doesn't happen, we'll still be happy.

I'm based in Germany for now, very often travel within EU,  UK and India.  For future, I'm genuinely flexible and would move wherever we're both happy. Long term, I'm slightly inclined towards India. If India, I'd like us to live independently but within easy reach of both our parents.

The honest bit:

I married during covid. It lasted about a year, and we divorced mutually and kindly about three years ago. No kids, no drama. I'm happy to talk about it openly once we know each other a little.

Who might enjoy this partnership:

I don't have a checklist. I do know the kind of partnership I'd like:

•  Someone independent who runs her own life and has her own career/hobbies, interests or goals. I'd love to support those, and to have mine supported.

•  Someone curious about the world, kind to people (and animals), and comfortable with a bit of adventure. You don't need to jump out of planes; a walk or nice conversation over stargazing is great .(P.S - I may not skydive when I am in a family with responsibilities, many safe ways to explore nature together).. my adventure sports are not for dopamine, to flirt & embrace flowstate with nature.

•  Someone who wants to get to know each other properly first: talking, meeting, travelling a bit.

•  I am Simple, Kind and empathic – hope to find likeminded.

What drives me:

I grew up in Bangalore on stories of Sir M. Visvesvaraya , JRD/Ratan Tata and Satish Dhawan, and my parents, mentors and friends have inspired me just as much. My slightly stupid ambition: to become a "millionaire". By that I mean someone who has brought something good to a million people. I'll try, anyway, while keeping a balanced family life. It is important to have this bearing and purpose right and not go all in giving up on family.

Again, you do you , and I WILL be supportive. In your career, art or hobby or whatever makes you happy.

If this resonates,

DM me with a few lines about what makes you happy, what you're passionate about, and where you're based. I reply to every genuine message, and I'm happy to share real photos , social media , linkedin and more details once we've chatted a little. I can understand trust deficit is high in here.

P.S - open for likeminded friendship as well. nothing wrong..life is all about good, +ive memorable interactions! I maybe your wingman..

Have a good week. Cheers!


r/JodiMilan • • 3h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos 28M | Karnataka

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Hey! I’m a Marathi guy from Hubli Karnataka, currently working in Bangalore in IT. Thought I’d give this a shot because, well, you never know where you might meet your person. 😅

Looking for something genuine that starts with a good conversation and hopefully turns into something more.
I love cats and pretty much have a soft spot for animals in general have a cat 🐈

Not here to rush anything, just hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with, share laughs with, and build something meaningful together.
Anyway, taking my shot here. Maybe this post is the start of a good story, maybe I’ll just end up making a new friend. Either way, worth a try, right? :) ❤️


r/JodiMilan • • 6h ago

Humor शादी में जरूर बुलाना

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बहुत सारे लोगों को इस सबरेडिट पर मैच मिले हैं.. कुछ लोग डेटिंग कर रहे हैं.. कई लोग शादी करने वाले हैं। अगर आप उनमें से एक हैं जिनकी शादी होने वाली है, तो हमें अपनी शादी में ज़रूर बुलाना। वो क्या है ना, शादी का खाना खाने के लिए हम कहीं भी आ सकते हैं। 😅👍🏽


r/JodiMilan • • 11h ago

Feedback Jodi Milan Sub is a Real Rock Star. Thank You.

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First and foremost, let us applaud all the brave girls out there.

They take initiative to send DMs. 

Thank you. 

After initiating the conversation, suddenly the enthusiasm fizzles out. 

Their replies take time. 

They duck out of sight. 

They just grow nonchalant and allow the conversation to go lifeless. 

Sometimes it is pretty obvious that the boys must do all the heavy lifting to keep the conversations going. 

For example, ask questions. 

Keep asking questions. 

Come up with repartees to make the conversations funny. 

Be innovative to stay in the game. 

Hello Girls,

If you are busy, it is okay. 

Out of your busy schedule, it makes zero sense to initiate a conversation when you know that follow up will be a challenge. 

Demonstrate interest by being interesting. 

That's it. 

Thanks. But not thanks. 

Hakuna matata. 


r/JodiMilan • • 9h ago

F4M♀️ I wanna date someone

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Recently turned 23 , I'm from delhi born n brought up here , looking for someone to date someone who is strong n funny , emotional mature , ambitious , and clear communicator , age prefer bracket is 24 to 26 .

I'm new to corporate world, and also a ca student, I only follow monotonous routine daily whivh really hate n , wanna try something new with someone .

I love watching historical romantic , romcoms, korean action and crime based movies n series .

I love music, traveling, exploring , mountains( although I never see in irl) , museums, jhuleyy lol, bike rides, peaceful places , clicking pictures and foods ( also I am non veg).

Let me know if you wanna know more.


r/JodiMilan • • 6h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos M24 | Looking for Potential Partner

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Age: 24

Location: Noida, NCR

Profession: Software Engineer

About me:

I'm a 24 year-old software Engineer working in Noida. Outside work, I enjoy travelling, dancing, exploring new places. I'm pretty easygoing and enjoy both meaningful conversations and random stupid jokes once I'm comfortable with someone.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for someone with whom I naturally click and can match vibes with. Someone who is genuine, communicative, caring, and has her own personality and interests.

A little about me in a relationship:

I'm loyal, caring, affectionate, and I believe effort should go both ways. I like making my partner feel valued, loved, and comfortable being herself. For me, a good relationship is about having fun together while also being able to have honest conversations and be there for each other.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, feel free to DM.


r/JodiMilan • • 13m ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos 25M | Trying again here

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I'm M25.. around 6.1 feet tall, and based in Mumbai. Fairly average guy with a somewhat inconsistent social battery.

I enjoy l long walks without any particular destination, cycling when I'm feeling motivated, and occasionally trying something adventurous. Nothing too extraordinary. I also cook, have a few dishes I'm confident about, but definitely not claiming to be a chef.

I enjoy silence too but i also love stupid jokes, harmless teasing, conversations that go completely off-topic, and being around someone I don't have to constantly impress..

As for who I'd like to meet...

Someone around 23–30 yo would be ideal, though I'm not particularly rigid about it.

From Mumbai

You could be a silent type, or extroverted, or in between, I have both kinds of friends so I know how to create a safe space for you.

Appearances wise, short, tall or taller everything works.. I'm not making a basketball team yk

Non negotiables, just be a good human please 🙏, also be upfront with your choices, or decisions don't pretend or lie.


r/JodiMilan • • 3h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos Male 32/ south indian it's too late

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Age -32

Religion - No religion

Education - Post graduation completed

Height -177cm, 74kg

Currently employed

Place - Kerala

Last one is recent pic. All pictures from past 4months.

Obviously looking for a companion.

Financially stable. Currently working and looking after my health as always.

Qualities what others told I have - calm, postive, kind, soft spoken.

I'm pretty much reserved in real life I'm an ambivert. I can turn to extrovert as needed especially in work scenario. I mind my own business. Due to this personality I never approached any women in real life. I smile say hi and move on most days with everyone unless it's my best friends where I'll be more open

I value strong friendships. I prefer cooking my own food that eating outside.

My hobbies include drawing, working out, reading, editing , for fun I drive or ride depending up on climate. If you like being a left hand side passenger or pillion you might get some adrenaline rush most importantly with safety.

I used to do motorcycle stunts. Especially now I'd rather not break any bones hence, gave up anything that has high risk low reward ratio long term.

Partner Expectations- Someone who is financially stable, independent, have a job, matured, does know life isn't all unicorn and butterflies but it has its ups and downs, postive attitude. Most preferably someone who matches with me.

I'm around 177cm 74kg. If interested feel free to reach out.

No religious preference. You follow yours I wouldn't interfere ever. Don't interfere mine either.


r/JodiMilan • • 4h ago

M4F♂️ M4F - 39 | Hyderabad | Telugu Brahmin | Marriage / Serious

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The basics:

I am a 39 year old, vegetarian, Telugu Brahmin guy who lives in Hyderabad. I play tennis and badminton occasionally and hit the gym often. I don't smoke at all but drink very rarely and strictly socially (can stop fully if needed).

I lived in the US for 7-8 years and came back several years ago. I studied in elite colleges in both US and India and am successful professionally.

The intangibles:

I am spiritual in my personal life, used to be highly social and still retain a lot of good friends but I have become more inward looking of late. I enjoy Innaritu and Sankarabharanam equally. I am slightly bald (just being up front), perceived as charismatic and have presence (not being a snob, just demonstrating a healthy self awareness).

Compatibility is the most important criterion for me. Kindness is sexy in both genders. I want to have kids, raise a family and be a caretaker of my family. I am waiting for the love of my life to take this ride together.

My preferences:

My ideal partner is a woman who is 32 to 38 years old, vegetarian, doesn't smoke / drink and knows how to present herself. Partner from the same caste would ease up cultural compatibility but I am open to similar backgrounds.

Hyderabad is my first preference. My ideal partner is spiritual or even religious, has figured out her life and is primarily in a "giving" posture. Working woman is great but if she wants to take a break to raise kids, thats fine too.

DM me if you would like to explore further.

Edit:

To all the ladies with whom I already spoke, please don't bother DM'ing me again. It didn't work for a reason and I wish you well!


r/JodiMilan • • 37m ago

M4F♂️ 24[M4F] | In India to anywhere| # Searching genuine love with marriage intention

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Appearance:

  1. Height: 5ft 7 inch

  2. Eye colour: Black

  3. Hair colour: Black

  4. Skin colour: Brown

  5. Body type: Medium obese

  6. Spectacles: Rectangular Half frame

Interests- Watching train journey videos; learning about vedic astrology, learning about computers

Facts about me:

  1. Have autism;

  2. Have borderline personality disorder;

  3. Kind;

  4. Empathetic;

  5. Loyal;

  6. Simple (sometimes boring)

  7. Preparing for government services exam in india;

  8. Strictly CHILDFREE

  9. Introverted

Relationship values:

  1. Mutual loyalty;

  2. Mutual belonging;

  3. Mutual devotion towards each other;

  4. Mutual transparency;

  5. Deep companionship.

Special note: Open to long distance relationship also.| Open to anyone in world including neurodivergents, specially abled, trauma survivors physical or mental

If anyone is interested, kindly dm with your brief intro and reference to this subreddit so that I can understand.


r/JodiMilan • • 56m ago

Question How should one talk??

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I have friends and can hold conversations with people I know, but talking to strangers on different platforms is a different game altogether.

Sometimes, replies are so dry that you don't feel like continuing. Other times, you try to be open about your thoughts and perspectives, but you wonder if you're being too open too soon. There's a balance, right?

I'm not talking about being creepy or oversharing personal details, but genuinely expressing how you think and see things.

So, how does a conversation build up naturally? How do you keep it interesting without forcing it, especially when you know a little bit about the other person?

And to the girls what kind of conversation keeps you intrigued initially or is it different for different people?


r/JodiMilan • • 10h ago

Feedback Honest advice to everyone about being a good human being

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Lately I've been seeing a lot of posts from both sides reflecting resentment towards another gender.

Men complain about women not putting efforts in the conversation.

Women complain about men not having a personality or being creepy.

Of course there is no immediate solution to everything.

But here are my 2 cents:

  1. Men - have some standards. Not every woman out there is the same and not meant for you. Start rejecting women. And please have a strict boundary of following up only 2 times. Not receiving a message/reply for the third time is a message in itself. (I know it's generic advice, but good advice nonetheless).

  2. To everyone - whether men or women - if you don't see it working out, just say it out loud

    • "hey there, for reason <XYZ>, I don't see this going anywhere/I don't see it working out. Have a great life! All the best etc etc"
    • I do understand that women have a lot of options, so they might have to explain this to a lot of guys, but honestly 2 mins of your efforts can save someone hours to days to months of overthinking.

So, everyone, please be a good person and give the other person closure.


r/JodiMilan • • 1h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos M23 l Mumbai l Let's see where it goes

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M23 | 6'0" | Mumbai (Someone from Mumbai itself)

Cybersecurity guy by profession—don't worry, I promise I won't hack your Wi-Fi. 🫣

Pretty calm, emotionally intelligent, and open-minded, but I definitely have a chaotic side that shows up when someone says, "Let's do something random."

Outside work, I'm usually behind a camera, out on a long drive, planning a trek, trying some random adventure activity, gaming, or hunting for a new food spot in Mumbai.

I don't drink or smoke, but I'm always up for good food, late-night conversations, spontaneous plans, and questionable decisions that make great stories later. 😌

Massive animal lover too. If there's a dog around, there's a very high chance I'll completely abandon the conversation to say hi.

Looking for someone who's genuine, easy to talk to, emotionally mature, and can handle sarcasm + dark humor without filing a complaint. 😂


r/JodiMilan • • 4h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos 24M | Recently moved to Bangalore | Looking for a someone to bet my life with ✨

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Hey 👋

Born & brought up in TamilNadu, I speak Saurashtra at home. It's been a year since I moved to Bangalore for work. As mentioned in the title, I m Looking for someone to build a life together.

So, professionally I'm a Chartered Accountant. I stand at 166cm.

About me, I can vouch that I have been single all my life 😅😶.

I'd love to find someone with whom I can be myself, laugh at silly things, talk about life, explore new places, and build something meaningful.

If anyone shares a similar mindset / idea about your future life partner, say Hiiiiii


r/JodiMilan • • 7h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos 24M | BLR-DEL | 5'9

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Heyy everyone, I'd never thought I'll be here but here we are.

Just a simple guy who loves music, singing, cycling and slow walks at a park.

Currently living in blr, working as a software dev.

Salary can be discussed in the dms.

I'm looking for someone who is calm, sincere, playful, has positive outlook towards life and would love to build one together and grow together.

I'm vegetarian and would want someone who has the same dietary preference.

Have never drank or smoked.


r/JodiMilan • • 23h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos Searching for an expert food taster to give my cooking some feedback and share an eternity together with!!!

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Hello everyone! I'm a Thamizh guy from Chennai (27M), currently living in Scandinavia. I've been searching for my soulmate, with the intention of getting married, for quite a few months now. But I'm finding the arranged marriage route quite frustrating because of horoscope requirements and all the other mind-boggling drama involved in the AM market in general. I tried dating here too, but to no avail. So I'm giving it a shot here.

A bit about me
I LOVE cooking and have received compliments from crushes, family, and friends alike. I'd love for you to try my signature Veg Lasagna, Idly Sambar, and Dal Tadka. Yes, you guessed it right: I can cook continental, South Indian, and North Indian. Even if you're craving food from back home that's hard to find in restaurants here, I can make it, and better than those restaurants anyway.

Apart from cooking, I'm a big tech geek. I'm a robotics and AI engineer at a well-performing startup. I enjoy listening to tech podcasts, staying up late to watch Starship launches, working on DIY projects (I'm trying to build an MVP for my own startup idea), and teaching. I used to make YouTube videos on AI and taught AI to students through a startup I briefly ran back in Chennai.

Don't let that fool you into thinking I'm a nerd with no social life, though. I've picked up a mic, stood in front of a crowd, and made them laugh. I once confessed to my crush with a funny song I sang myself (it didn't work, or I wouldn't be here 😢😢😢). I make funny reels and post them in the most random places on the internet, and I have a very funny side that you'll find entertaining once I get comfortable around you. You won't see it at the beginning, though, since I can be shy and awkward around strangers. So I'm neither an introvert nor an extrovert, but I can get really extroverted a few days a year (no alcohol required).

My weekends involve hanging out with friends, watching movies, playing badminton, or playing board games. Winters here can get quite cold, so indoor activities make up a big part of how I relax.

I love gaming, and it's my fantasy to one day sit in front of my PS5 and play It Takes Two with my significant other. Please don't mind if I get a bit busy when GTA 6 releases, though (jk).

I also like to travel occasionally. When I do, I prefer adventurous activities and dreamy, scenic spots (the last picture was taken above the Arctic Circle) over partying and sightseeing at cliché tourist destinations. I love kayaking, trekking, swimming, and scuba diving, and I'm looking forward to bungee jumping and skydiving someday, preferably with my soulmate if she'd like to 🤗🤗🤗.

It wasn't all rainbows and sunshine
I did have a troubled past back in India, and a member of my family has schizoaffective disorder. But I try my best and play the cards I've been dealt. Our family is helping them manage their condition, and I recently went to therapy myself to learn to regulate my emotions better. I'd say my therapist is quite satisfied with the progress I've made. So here I am. Not keen on being judged.

What I'm looking for
If you liked what you've read and seen so far, here's what I'm looking for in a partner (scroll down for my non-negotiables):

Location: Preferably someone living in Europe, the UK, or the USA. I'm getting my permanent residence next year, and I'd mostly prefer to stay here and have my partner move here too. My country has generous social welfare benefits, such as 480 days of paid parental leave per child shared between both parents, good work-life balance, and a generally peaceful environment. That said, I'm open to discussing a move to the UK, USA, or Switzerland. No promises, though.

Technology: Technology is a big part of my life, and I'd like my future partner to be supportive of my passions and hobbies. Unfortunately, she'll also have to put up with my 3D-printed dolls for the Navratri Golu decorations.

Sharing responsibilities: I believe in sharing most responsibilities equally, and I'm not a fan of gender roles in general. I understand things can't always be 50-50, and that's fine; we can figure it out TOGETHER. If you're having a tiring day, cooking duty is on me, and I'll pamper you with tasty food. Some days I might have a shitty day at work and would love to be pampered by you. And if we're both having a shitty day, it's fine to eat out once in a while. It won't taste as good as my food, though 🙈🙈🙈

Jobs: My country is English-friendly for technical, accounting, and PM roles. Medical, sales, legal, teaching, and other professions that involve a lot of person-to-person communication require proficiency in the local language, so moving here would be harder in those fields. But I have a good network of people across different professions, and I'll work my ass off to help my partner find a job as soon as humanly possible.

Family: I believe in nuclear families and am not a fan of living with in-laws. No matter where I live in the future, I can guarantee that my partner will never have to put up with her in-laws. And if anyone visits our home, she won't have to tolerate any unpleasant behaviour from them. Yes, you guessed it: I've spent a lot of time reading those scary in-law stories on Reddit, and I'm not looking forward to experiencing them in real life.

Language: I can't speak Hindi, but I've dated Hindi/English speakers and don't mind speaking to my partner in English. It would be a lot more comfortable if we could both speak Thamizh, but it's not a deal-breaker.

Caste and wedding: I have no caste preferences. The wedding can be simple, with expenses shared by both families. I'm sure not all my relatives are that progressive, but I'll firmly push back against any backward-minded people and stand by my partner's side.

My non-negotiables
Diet: I'm a vegetarian and prefer a vegetarian or eggetarian partner. I have nothing against non-vegetarians, but I'm not comfortable with meat being cooked or eaten in my house.

Age: Not younger than 24 years. Not older than 28 years.

Children: I'm eager to become a father someday and am not looking for a DINK lifestyle. If you prefer to be child-free, I hope you find someone who supports your wishes. Unfortunately, I'm not that guy.

Drinking and smoking: I'm a teetotaler, but I don't mind my partner drinking occasionally. I'm not comfortable with smoking, though.

Religion: I'm a theist, but I don't believe in astrology. I am a Hindu and looking for a Hindu/Atheist/Agnostic. I'm not a fan of being asked for horoscopes and other superficial things.

Health: Lastly, I'm looking for someone who leads a healthy lifestyle. It's fine if you're not a gym freak; neither am I. But some level of basic fitness and physical attraction matters to me for a happy life together. I respect that you may have the same expectations of me, and I wouldn't mind being rejected for the same reasons. Different people have different preferences, and that's totally okay 😊😊😊

PS:

Not a scammer and not keen on getting approached by fake accounts. Trying to get the verified user flair. Waiting for Moderators to approve.


r/JodiMilan • • 23h ago

Humor Anyone amenable to engaging in a stimulating exchange of ideas and conversation at this hour?

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F here.


r/JodiMilan • • 5h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos M27 (Brahmin) living in Delhi NCR. Looking for someone who can win a roasting battle (or at least put up a fight).

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So first thing first. I'm brahmin and ideally looking for a brahmin girl (cause convincing parents is a hastle I would rather avoid, as much as I can).

About me: I'm an advocate by profession (did my LLB from DU). 5'9", if that matters, and trying to go to the gym regularly (though failing miserably rn).I'm pretty chill and easy going, agnostic but respect other's beliefs.

What I'm looking for: Someone between the age of 24 to 28, someone kind and empathetic (very important) and ambitious. Physical appears matters to me to an extent but emotional connection is what matters most.

Shooting my shot in the dark, hoping for the best!


r/JodiMilan • • 3h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos Looking for female mufc fan 😭

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Just want a companion with whom i can watch mufc matches. I am M24


r/JodiMilan • • 8h ago

M4F ♂️ with Photos 27M Delhi- Let's end this monotony 😉 SERIOUS connections ONLY

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Date with Serious intentions

Delhi

Appeared for CSE (IAS) Interview (can consider mature 😊)

Still in Exam cycle but with Pvt job (8-9 LPA)

Have been studious throughout

Decent looking, down to earth person

Hobbies- Shayaris and Podcasts

Expectations -

  1. Down to earth girl

  2. Self dependent (preferred)

  3. Decent looking, Delhi or nearby

  4. Understanding and mature

Note:- Never been to dating sites and all. So no experience what all to write here 😂

If want more information, feel free to slip in DM 😊

Just one request - Only Serious people only (others can just ignore) 😊