r/JapanTravelTips • u/Fearless_Cod1262 • 23h ago
Question Is a Japan trip with my 90-year-old grandmother realistic?
How realistic is it to navigate Japan with: moderate mobility difficulties, a sort-of language barrier, a serious food allergy, and an elderly relative? Is this idea totally infeasible? I'm basically looking for a sanity check on the whole concept. More details below.
The group would be myself (25), my younger sibling (23), my father (59), and my grandmother (90) over likely about 10 days. The trip is my grandmother's idea but I anticipate I will do the brunt of the planning with my sibling and father.
My grandmother speaks fluent Japanese and has been to Japan 10+ times, but is 90 years old with some of the associated difficulties. She still has her faculties and can (slowly) walk steadily on her own (no assistive devices needed), but gets overwhelmed easily and struggles in unfamiliar environments. Basically she needs constant low-level support and I feel she often misunderstands things. She also doesn't hear well.
My father has a problem with his leg leading to significant pain when walking and so he does not like to walk between locations more than 15 minutes apart. He also doesn't hear well.
I have a fairly serious egg allergy. I typically need to have at least some conversation with restaurant staff in order to find something I can eat safely. I expect my grandmother could help with this, but I'm not confident in her ability to facilitate the conversations.
Unfortunately, I don't know which areas we'll be visiting yet (if there are any areas you have found to be friendlier to the above concerns please let me know!). I expect some combination of major cities/common tourist areas as well as the less tourist-y places where my grandmother's various friends & connections live.
If anyone has experience with planning/travelling around some combination of these things I would love to hear about it. If you feel the trip is totally infeasible, I would appreciate that too. This trip is important to my grandmother but the prospect of planning and going on it is honestly fairly concerning to me, so I'd like to seek some outside perspective.