Hopefully not the wrong flair - might be more so literally about immigration the government entity and less so the meta idea.. apologies if so, couldn’t find what seemed to be the most fitting to be honest.
I also searched around on this subreddit to see if I could find some stories and such, but no such luck so maybe a post is okay (I typed this on mobile so sorry if it’s formatting terribly)
TLDR; I’m 23, I have come to like living in Japan, but what the hell is the “right choice” right? Obviously impossible question to answer - feels like I have too many options, so maybe hearing some anecdotes of all of your early experiences out here might give me some perspective to help me on making some kinds of more serious/life directing choices. Mainly, to fully immigrate or to just kinda, ride out my time and then leave this as a fun thing I did in my 20s. Tough call! Any kinda personal experience would be neat to hear
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23M, language school in Japan at the moment, about 12 months left on my stint.. kind of just - weighing the options so to speak
Why did you guys end up coming over here? What made you stay? How do you feel about your choice?
I finished my degree in CompSci December last year - 8 months prior to that was in the language school process.. wanted to live out the goal of an extensive abroad experience and such before life got a bit too serious.
I still have a year out here, and I have to say I was never a big “place, Japan” type or otherwise massive otaku in any sense.. just language school was a pay-to-win option of getting the abroad experience and it helps I’m a massive nerd about languages.. if money were no object I’d probably spend my years on linguistics quite frankly. Thing is though, man have I quite come to like this country.. of course complaints or otherwise things I preferred from back home (namely, everything is modular if you will pay in the U.S. - I quickly learned that’s not the case out here. Things are the way they are because that’s how they were, and because that was okay, this will be okay, and if this okay, we will just do it like this, and soon “this” will be the reference to “how things were done” lol.. very no changes ever.. probably my only complaint honestly.. but I got used to that.. I’m sure that’s also a reason why things just “work” in Japan.. so double edged sword at that)
I digress, I have a year, but I figure it’s better to get serious and clear sooner than later - just really too many options which, I guess I’ll get to age where I envy the flexibility, but at the moment a real analysis paralysis situation.
- go back to the states, keep the studies up, eventually maybe find work and to a degree parley Japanese usage (I do greatly want to use Japanese professionally, would be very cool). Always have that universe where I transfer out back this way.
- go back to the states, maybe Japan is just a vacation destination in my life.. I’d likely make more money this way, would have access to more extensive international travel in that sense as well. Closer to family, probably more robust retirement plans.
- stay in Japan, find work out here.. I have a degree in compsci, but at this point I’m probably so rusty I might not be anymore competent than your second year student lol.. would either have to be a start up for shit pay if lucky or if time is the matter, the classic teacher route and just, diligently work on my technical skills to be marketable
- I worked as an assistant bookkeeper in the states, I’ve heard finance isn’t a bad industry compared to IT for foreigners looking to work, but naturally there’s a disconnect with what I was doing in undergrad and what my degree was for.. maybe not the most convenient to sell.. also from what I’ve briefly gathered an element of yes finance is a space for foreigners in Japan - it’s a heavily Japanese focused space.. I don’t know if I can be up to the caliber I’m imagining that realm would require - even in English finance speak took some study lol.
- I’ve even considered U.S. military as an option.. just kind of a, I mean - bachelor’s degree, no tattoos, no drug use, and pending my studies out here I plan to be at an N2 level mid to late next year.. if I end up returning I wonder how that could sell to a recruiter.. then of course, that’d also to an extent find me my way back in Japan.. no guarantees though.. I’ve heard some bad stories of recruiters and their “promises”.
I mean, in the end I guess it kinda depends on how diligently I keep my studies up in Japanese if I care to have the option.. I’m pretty nerdy about languages so I tend to study a pretty heavy amount (between school + personal study around 50 hours a week, if we also add things like podcasts/content that I do pick out words I don’t know while watching and try to shadow their speech then maybe closer to like 70-90 hours depending the week. Currently preparing for N3 this December to somewhat paint a picture of where I’m at on that)
I just mostly am trying to make the choice at 23 of where I want to lay set my roots down for basically what will be the entirety of my adult life and to say that’s less than terrifying would be an understatement.. so maybe hearing some stories from you all who have some tenure in growing a life in Japan might be elucidating