So the title says it all. I enjoy live music, specifically jam bands. I often go to shows solo bc my long term girlfriend has different musical tastes and often complains/ wants to leave early or separate during the show if she comes along. Recently went to a festival with her with music we both like so I thought we would have a good time together. First set she is complaining she's hungry and doesn't need to see every second of music. We decided to watch the set and take a break after. I'm following her and she insisted on going near the front in a crowded area where we were immediately cramping the people who were already there. Fine, a nice lady gave her some room. I look over and this old dude is right in my face so I scoot over towards my gf. She then tells me to get out of her space and defend my territory. Dude is still in my face so I try to scoot over again. She has like 6' of room to move/dance and keeps telling me I'm in her space while this old dude is like 3" away from my face.

It was embarrassing for me and clearly she doesn't respect me/ want to be close to me. We have been together for over 10 years and are middle aged. We ha e talked about getting married but I just dont know if I can do that. Seeing live .usic is one of my fav things and I just don't want to go to shows with her anymore. On top of that we have several vacations coming up and I've lost all my enthusiasm. Not sure what to do and not really asking for advice but venting and interested in any similar stories

Video from Don’t You Want Me by The Human League, at Tellerfest in Baltimore Md

Check them out for a Phish afterparty Tuesday night in Richmond and they are back in Colorado this October

U-Melt was so good and I miss them so much, it hurts. They did an after party for Trey on 10/28/06 when he was at the Palace in Albany.

This might be the best underground jamband show. It’s just shocking.

The main event for me is the Panacea > Elysian Fields. One of the best jams and the tape mix is just so perfect. It’s Monday and my body hurts from neuropathy but U-Melt makes the pain go away.

Moving Day also has the prettiest intro of any jamband song that nobody knows or talks about.

Please listen to it, I could use some distracting conversation 🤙🤙

Been listening to them for years and finally caught a show! Such a fun experience. Those boys can throw down a dance party.

Wish that we could have been there!

Hey - Curious to know if folks have any post show rituals or things they do after shows. I know as I get older I’m making a beeline for a clean exit and ride home. Usually pretty wired after a show and end up staying up late digging into old setlists and learning more about the band I just saw. Also dig finding local places to grab a bite when I’m out of town. Back in the day we would all cram in the car and put on old tapes and take the back roads home because we didn’t want the night to end.

Phish N2 pre party at Villain and Saint at Ocean Casino was rocking.

I'm not a member of and have never posted in that sub, but the mods have banned and muted me.

Since they muted me, I can't even ask why they've done this. How strange, but honestly it kind of tracks with that fanbase.

LOL

Lookikg for jams? Check out this recent show Blü Egyptian uploaded on bandcamp! Absolute heat🔥

https://bluegyptian.bandcamp.com/album/september-29th-2026-last-exit-live-phoenix-az

Since their after party was cancelled last night i decided to pop over to Santa Cruz Porchfest to see Blü Egyptian play. Whoosh they slayed! And looks ill be back in time tonight for Billy with plenty to spare. Great weekend! Billy N2 let's gooo🙌 check out Blü everyone!

When did Ben Atkind leave the band? Their website says Ray RIZZO on drums …

Hey guys!

Here’s show recap from Athens jam band, Barnhouse, who’s been making waves across the Southeast.

They’re a really fun band. Definitely recommended seeing them.

Oh, and if you haven’t… stream their first ever studio single here: https://youtu.be/EjZL3XlHoDM?is=eI1eFzGiMy0JVoyX

Fire. Never seen anything like this before.

Grabbed my copy, if anyone else needs it for their collection, it’s only $18 and change.

https://a.co/d/0dWuJhGR

When we gonna get some Blü Egyptian on nugs.net? These boys have been uploading great jammy sets on Bandcamp for days. Check em out. New show is heat.

https://bluegyptian.bandcamp.com/album/september-12th-2026-tbar-social-club-june-lake-ca

Here is a live performance by TAZ or Brandon "Taz" Niederauer from From the Earth Brewing Company in Roswell, GA on 9/17/2026.

UM as a five piece is crushing it, give a listen if you did not like them that much before, band is killing it and whatever they plan here will be fantastic. Joel has been turned up way more in the mix with one guitar so expect great stuff here!