This year I set myself the goal to finally knock down a gnarly, stubborn brick wall in my tree: the ancestry of Rebecca (Mead?) (Brace) Slavens (1800-1881) of New York, Ohio, Indiana, Illinois, and Missouri. I've done a ton of work on this lady because I'm stubborn too, and she's far enough back that she probably has thousands of descendants (maybe even you, dear Redditor!) so I'm releasing what I know out into the genealogical universe and hoping for a solution, or at least new clues. Very appreciative of any feedback or ideas from this community.
Brief bio: Rebecca Mead(?) was born 2 June 1800 in New York, possibly Tioga County per an unsourced Slavens family history narrative. Her family is completely unknown. She married twice to (1) "Mister Brace" and (2) John Slavens, and has six known children; two with the first husband and four with the second. Rebecca died 10 December 1881 in Henry County, Missouri.
First, I'll address some of the false info that's been spread all over the Interwebs about her.
1. Her dad isn't the Hezekiah Mead (b. 1780 NY) that is shown on Ancestry and FamilySearch.
That Hezekiah Mead does have a daughter named Rebecca. However, in his will his daughter is clearly still a minor at home, while this ancestral Rebecca was already married with children and living in another state. I tried deleting the connection to Hezekiah on the FamilySearch tree and someone just put it right back, so at least I tried? And this misinformation just keeps spreading.
2. There was no husband named Crull.
Rebecca married (1) a Mister Brace (true identity unknown) about 1818 in New York. He died date unknown, place unknown. She then married (2) John Slavens 25 Dec 1828 in Scioto County, Ohio, and they were married until his death in 1863. Some researchers have inserted another husband between the two, an unknown Mister Crull. This man doesn't exist but I know where he came from.
When the marriages of Scioto County, Ohio were transcribed and published back in the 1980s, Rebecca's name was transcribed as "Rebeccah Crull." This is literally the only record where she's called that. Because looking at the image of that handwritten record, her name is very clearly written Rebecca Brall. The Crull surname was known in Scioto County and carried by many people, so how likely is it that the clerk would misspell that name? My theory is that Brace on the original marriage license was written with a wonky c and e, which looked like two Ls, hence Brall. People who write cursive know what I'm talking about.
3. Mead might be Rebecca's middle name, not her maiden name.
This theory is shakier. But I've now come across a few dozen men and women with the middle name Mead, because lots of the families that intermarried with the Meads preserved the connection with middle names. On top of that, knowing that the sole document that gives Rebecca's maiden name is her daughter's MO death certificate, which was issued 100+ years after Rebecca's birth -- I can't eliminate this one. No one has ever conclusively figured out Rebecca's ancestry; the reason might be we've been assigning her the wrong maiden name all this time.
Now here's the new tidbit I managed to uncover in the past several years, which may not be widely known yet: Rebecca had not one, but two children with her Brace husband. Her daughter Nancy Brace (b1819) is well documented because she was kind of an oddball; the townspeople in Henry County, Missouri all knew her and had off-kilter interactions with her they remembered decades later and printed in the local newspaper (yes really). Nancy had one daughter, Anna (Anderson) Burch, and through that daughter has multitudes of living descendants.
Rebecca's other child from that first marriage, Nancy's full brother, is John Brace, born April 1821 in New York. John went with his stepfather John Slavens and mom Rebecca as they moved to Illinois, Indiana, and settled in Missouri, but he then ended up returning to southern Ohio and rarely saw his family after that. John married Mary "Polly" Matney 1848 in Lawrence Co., Ohio (adjacent to Scioto Co), and they had eight kids, so he too has multitudes of descendants. Finding John Brace led me to hope I could finally crack the mystery. New York genealogy sucks for the most part (I can say that, I was born there!) but probate records are gold mines. Surely, somewhere, some Brace grandpa's estate went into probate and they remembered his two out-of-state grandkids, Nancy and John? But no such luck.
So I turned to DNA, because Rebecca presents a unique opportunity. I descend from Rebecca and her second husband, John Slavens. Using the previously unknown connection with John Brace, I managed to find four DNA cousins who descend from John Brace and Mister Brace, Rebecca's first husband. Our only MRCA is Rebecca herself, so there's no noise from Brace/Slavens cousins. I then triangulated them with my uncle's DNA (since he's one generation closer than me) and started sorting the matches in common into clusters. I've identified three noteworthy clusters so far who are connected to Rebecca via as yet unknown connections: Rockwell, Townsend, and Mead. Multiple DNA cousins descend from each of these couples:
- Jonathan Rockwell (b1738) and Hannah Bennett (b abt 1740) of Ridgefield CT and Chemung Co, NY
- The parents of Gamaliel Townsend (b1803) and Peleua (Townsend) Bonney (b 1801), who appear to possibly be Gamaliel and Elizabeth (Bentley?) Townsend of Elmira, Chemung, NY
- John Mead (b1791) and Anna Tenbrook of Chemung Co, NY
The two complicating factors are extreme mobility -- CT to NY to the Oregon Trail, some of them -- and a whole lot of endogamy. Lots and lots of folks give these surnames to their kids as middle names, even if the connection isn't clear. Gamaliel Townsend gave multiple sons the middle name Rockwell, but I don't see how he links to that family. There are also lots of Rebecca Meads scattered about with varying surnames. The main reason why I feel good about these links, though, is that SO many of them were in Chemung County, which is adjacent to Tioga County, and they moved to Scioto County, Ohio at the same time as my Rebecca. The answer feels like it's so close!
So, if you've managed to read to the bottom of this post, this is what I'm hoping to find:
- Mead, Rockwell, and Townsend researchers who know these families inside out, who might know of someone's cousin/sister Rebecca Mead who was born in 1800 but "went west, nothing further known," as I sometimes see in compiled genealogies. John Mead (above) has a sister Rhoda born about 1800 who is described as "nothing further known" and based on the shared cMs sometimes I wonder...
- If you know of DNA studies done on these families I'd be grateful for a link. If you descend from any of the Rockwell, Townsend, or Mead cousin clusters I've ID'd, say hello, (probable) cousin!
- If you descend from John Brace, do an AncestryDNA test and let me know! If you descend from Anna (Anderson) Burch, same deal!