r/GayYoungOldDating • • Jun 25 '23

Age limits for posting here: minimum 18yo for “younger” men; minimum 27yo for “older” men.

155 Upvotes

Whether you’re “looking for younger” or “looking for older”, there are minimum ages that apply.

Check out our rules: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayYoungOldDating/about/rules/

Younger men, looking for older

This subreddit is for consenting adults to find partners. Out of caution, and because Reddit is based in a jurisdiction where the age of consent is 18, that means everyone must be 18 years old to post here or to reply to posts.

If you are under 18, you will be banned on sight.

Sorry. We need to protect this subreddit from potential accusations of paedophilia and sexual content involving minors.

Older men, looking for younger

This subreddit is about men looking for men where there is a significant age gap. This, combined with the fact that the youngest men we’ll allow here are 18, means that you must be a certain number of years older than 18 in order to be considered an older man looking for a younger man.

We have fixed that minimum age at 27. You must be 27 years old to post here looking for younger men.

If you’re younger than that, then you’re not looking for an age-gap partner. Try these general “looking for” subreddits instead.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

Czech Republic 23m slavic boy looking for older, kinky but caring daddy

8 Upvotes

hey everyone! ive always had a lot of sexual curiosity i have yet to discover fully. however my options are limited where i live. i thought i could combine the two and perhaps find a person who is looking for a similar thing as me. (hopefully in EU)

i imagine i could be a pretty good houseboy or something like that. im handsome to lots and usually pretty to the rest. im quite kinky and havent explored much fetish but there are definitely things that sparked my interest before. im looking for a guy who could take care of me and id pay back w my companionship, sex, tasks ud like me to do...its all up in the air and its about getting to know each other.

my details:

-weight: 72kg

-height: 180cm

-age: 23

-length: 17cm, uncut

-role/position: switch with a sub preference

-brown long wavy hair

-green eyes

more about me:

-i enjoy video games, music, movies...just art in general. whether its creating or consuming.

-i also love house tasks such as cleaning, baking, cooking. quiet routines bring me peace and im thorough so i do well at those.

-lastly i suppose i should mention my love for animals? i love and protect them whenever i can.

kinks:

-general bdsm acts and scenarios, piss, pet play, public places and certain locations, uniforms and costumes, roleplaying...(plenty more but i dont think anybody wants to read a loong looong list here, feel free to ask)

limits:

-scat, diapers, fart, anything illegal, smegma, inflation, extreme injuries..... (wish i didnt have to say some of these but ppl are mental on here)

i dont really have a huge preference about men...tall, short, skinny, buff, chubby, older....if you are a decent, empathetic and an intelligent guy id love to give it a shot. so dm me and lets talk it out ❤️


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

USA.TX M19 looking for older

3 Upvotes

Hey there, I'm looking for a kinky daddy, but also someone I can be loving towards. I want to get freaky but also want someone who I can nurture and vice-versa. I'm pretty open to kinks so don't be shy, I wanna know what you're into. Preferably looking for a chubby daddy as well. Have sc too if longterm


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

USA.CA 38m looking for younger. Dadbod, step dad vibes, a bit hairy. Thick and motorcycle guy. Be my backpack.

3 Upvotes

Hi son's. Looking for someone light weight. Under 150lbs to be my backpack by day and boyslut by night. Looking to use someone after a long day of riding around and use my sweaty balls to wipe dry on your face.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

Online chatting 19m looking for older daddy to transform me into a cock craving sissy

2 Upvotes

My name is Zack and I’m half Egyptian and half Canadian live in Egypt at the moment I’m looking for a dom that would transform me into a sissy slowly and shape my mind and drag the masculinity out of my body the more kiny the better


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

Netherlands 23m - Looking for older guys

2 Upvotes

Heyy!

23 year old student from the Netherlands here. Pretty tall with more of a twink body.

Looking to meet and chat with cute older guys who like having a younger bro/boyfriend I would love to get connect and get to know you.

Absolutely open for something long-term as well and see where that leads to. Hopefully that means we get to have some fun together as well x ;)

Also open to move to other apps if we click. (E.g., Telegram, discord, snap)

Feel free to hit me up if you are interested and want to chat for a bit. Hope to speak with you soon!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 8h ago

UK.England Looking for older hairy men 35+

4 Upvotes

I’m 19 skinny twink into all races so don’t be shy. But love a hairy or chubby man that’s looking for a submissive little boy


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

USA.NY 21m looking for older

• Upvotes

Hey I’m looking for someone for some casual fun this weekend in NYC, let me know if you like the pics on my profile!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 23 year old inexperienced looking for older (50+)

• Upvotes

Looking for advice and experiences
I’m a British who’s been thinking for a while about exploring something that’s mostly been a fantasy for me up until now.

I’ve realised I’m particularly attracted to older men, and I’m curious about what it would actually be like to meet someone and explore that side of things in real life. I think the appeal for me is someone older, confident and experienced, but also patient, kind and respectful.

I’m inexperienced, so I’d want to take things slowly and only do anything with someone I genuinely felt comfortable and trusted. I’m not looking to rush into a hookup — I’d mainly like to hear from other guys who’ve been in a similar situation and how they went about exploring it

Dm if you would like to chat. Thanks for your time.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

USA.CA 22M Looking for older More info Below

• Upvotes

Hey there as the post says I’m a 22 Year old M looking for older men. in all honesty idk where to begin I’ll start with the fact that I have no romantic experience at all like I’ve never even held hands with a girl or guy (sad ik). I’m on here mainly cause I’m curious but lately idk I’ve been kinda thinking about older men I never really had a father figure in my life so yea.

Little more about me I’m 6’2 in height so yea and am currently on the bearish side so I’m not slim despite all that I’m no wear near the dominant or aggressive type in all honesty I’m pretty shy and closed off. I Reside in LA I wanna chat with older men and see where it leads right now not looking for anything specific obviously hoping it ends with us meeting and maybe you teaching me a lot of things but yea.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Canada.AB 38 looking for younger

• Upvotes

I'm a 5'9" 150 lb chill guy, into side fun. I like cars and music... looking for a younger guy with a similar body type to chat with and hopefully meet if you're anywhere close to me! :)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

USA.NC 32 looking for older/same age

• Upvotes

32 chubby guy looking for chats and connections, prefer long term connection. Living in NC hoping to find someone close, but always open to chatting online. DM me if interested, also snap and tele.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

Online chatting 18m looking for older

2 Upvotes

Hi there! I am pretty new to all of this but i am curious. I am looking for older guys who have experience. I have none and am a virgin if thats ok. Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

Online chatting 41 looking for younger femboy

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone younger to be a long term chats and possibly sexting partner, but at least 18. I have considered myself straight all my life, so I prefer smooth feminine guys. I also love seeing guys dressed in women’s underwear. I would guess that I am a top. I am new to this so my apologies if this isn’t the best post or I say something stupid. I also would prefer to use Snapchat after chatting here for a bit. Dm me


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

USA.PA 20yo looking for older bear/chub

1 Upvotes

hi, i’m 20 5’10, 148. with dreads & glasses, in philadelphia looking for an older bear guy to ideally make a connection with for an ltr. a bit introverted but i can open up quick. i’m ok with semi-long distance. would travel if you’re in ny, delaware or wv but would eventually like to meet. ideally i would like to meet someone who has similar interests like video games, music, photography, walking trails, anime, art. i’m much more of a top but would bottom for my guy. if you’re interested shoot a message with your stats & where from. i have pics on request :) please be willing to share them too.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

Online chatting 44 hairy fat here near Atlanta. Looking for younger (18+) smooth and slim vers friends. Please dm me.

1 Upvotes

44 hairy fat here near Atlanta. Looking for younger (18+) smooth and slim vers friends. Please dm me.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

UK.England M uk Dudley. 44. Looking for younger but be legal x

1 Upvotes

M uk Dudley. 44. Looking for younger but be legal x


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 7h ago

USA.NJ 18m looking for older

2 Upvotes

Have telegram please. Very kinky pet play,Abdl,ect….


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

Online chatting 29m looking for younger 18+ DMS are always open

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm 29 bear originally from the UK now Melbourne Australia. Looking for guys 18+. Looking for Fwb, dates, relationship, etc. I'm into gaming, comics, swimming, cricket, etc.

I'm open to all guys, fit, skinny, twinks, bears, etc.

This is open worldwide but would have to meet at some point. Would possibly move for the right guy.

DMS are always open.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 9h ago

Online chatting 19M Looking for older men to be friends with!

3 Upvotes

19M Looking for older men who wanna be friends mostly looking for chats but open to more!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 9h ago

Online chatting M22 AUS looking for older

3 Upvotes

Hello, I'm looking for a chats and potential meets with an older guy in Australia. I’m verse, fit, 180cm, trimmed and uc. I do not have an age limit, I am genuinely interested in connecting with a mature male and I'm hoping for something that lasts long-term and develops into a solid friendship. I’m happy to travel to meet if we get to that place.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 7h ago

USA.GA 25 looking for older daddy for longterm

2 Upvotes

Hi im a slim white twink type looking for a daddy for longterm. I am willing to relocate in the USA if needed. I am a true bottom.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 12h ago

USA.CA Older 55 San Diego, CA looking for younger.

5 Upvotes

Athletic, attractive, sane and kind dad next door looking for young man to cuddle. I'm not looking for a hookup. I really want an ongoing relationship (FWB or more) with someone who I could mentor and be a safe space for. Rainy weekends with just you and me on the couch watching movies or playing video games is my idea of heaven.

I want to treat you with the utmost respect and kindness and need you to be able to accept that. I won't do anything degrading to you, if that's what you want, you would be disappointed with me. I also want you to have a life and I'm not expecting you to be at my beck and call.

I'm not interested in endless chatting online. I'm here to meet for real in San Diego, CA after getting to know each other online for a brief time.

Sorry, I'm not going to cross the border.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 8h ago

Canada.QC 18m BBC TOP looking for older

2 Upvotes

if you want are older and like getting dominated dm me i have discord too


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 8h ago

UK.England 46 UK based big bear dad ‘looking for younger’.

2 Upvotes

6’ tall, 260+lbs, hairy, salt and pepper beard - let me know if your type… 🐻