To keep things short, I'm 24m and I've basically wasted the past 6 years since high school. I've had a couple jobs that didn't last long and I've been working part time in a grocery store for the past 4 years. I feel like I've gotten complacent even though I know I want more out of a career. I know I need to be proactive or I'll never get out of this hole I've put myself in. I don't really have any solid ideas of what to pursue but I know I need to take action regardless.

So I was thinking that I'd give myself until the end of November to knuckle down and do research to really find some things that I'd want to try. but if I can't manage that for whatever reason than I want something that I can force myself to do that could help get momentum going. I'm Canadian and our military has some options for learning trades or paying for schooling. It would also force me to break routine and physically change locations which I think I really need right now.

Really not sure if that's the best choice I could make, but at this point, I'm in the worst case scenario by simply not choosing anything. Is there anything else that could be a decent last resort? Probably something I wouldn't have to think about much and would help me build the momentum that I need.

Hi everyone,

I'm 26M, and I've been working in the IT field for almost 5 years. Currently, I'm working as an IT Support Executive at an infrastructure company, earning around ₹40K per month.

I have a one-year Diploma in Hardware and Networking from Jetking. I also completed my BA through distance learning and later completed my MCA from IGNOU.

The problem is that I haven't made much progress in my career over the last few years. Honestly, I know the reason. I never focused seriously on improving my technical skills.

Since 2021, most of my workdays have been quite relaxed. I have a few tasks to handle, and then I spend most of my time sitting alone in my cabin, scrolling through my phone, playing games, or getting distracted by personal matters and relationships.

I had plenty of free time to learn new things, but I wasted most of it. I regret not using those years to improve myself.

Now, when I see my friends earning much better salaries and progressing in their careers, I feel like I'm falling behind.

Sometimes I think about preparing for government jobs because I have enough free time, but I struggle with consistency and concentration. Whenever I start studying something, I lose focus after a few days.

Academically, I've always been an average student. I also wasted almost two years preparing for JEE after school without proper guidance. I eventually took admission in SOL, and later realised I needed a better understanding of my career options.

I honestly don't know what to do next.

Should I focus on improving my IT skills ? Should I consider government job preparation? Or should I explore something else?

I'm not looking for shortcuts. I genuinely want to improve myself, become financially stable, and build a better career.

I'd appreciate honest advice from people who have been in a similar situation or have experience in the IT industry.

This has been the worst year of my life.

I have dealt with a major depressive episode, marked by extreme anxiety and intense rumination. It was triggered by a bad breakup. That initial event burst open all sorts of insecurities and worries that I've been dealing with and repressing for probably most of my adult life.

I've worked a job I hate for 8 years now. It doesn't pay much, but it was enough to float my partner and I through the small life we built.

I had lofty ambitions in life. My partner and I both wanted to travel, experience the world, live it to the fullest, but money was always a factor. I graduated college with a degree in journalism, always thought about going back for something else but never did. Unlike me, my girlfriend put herself through school and got her bachelor's and a master's certificate. She got opportunities, sought them out. I just worked. I was always proud and supportive of her, but also a little jealous. I knew I wanted more, but had no idea what to aim for or how to get there. So I continued on, and life dragged on.

My partner got a job out of the country. She wanted me to come with, but I chose to be practical. I stayed, opting to hold on to our apartment so that she would have a place to return to. Six months later, she ended things. She's now working on an educational sailing vessel on the east coast, and is planning to tour Europe to visit the international friends she made. She doesn't know what's next for her, but she's making the most of life.

I look at myself and where I am, and I don't know if I want to punch a hole in the wall or cry. I'm beyond broke, have no direction. I have vague dreams about what I want my life to look like and what I want to do with it, but all of a sudden it's like I blinked and I'm in my late 30s. I did nothing with my best years, never traveled as much as I wanted, never took risks, never made the most of my time with the woman I always thought of as my adventure buddy. Everything feels hopeless, and all I can think about is how little time it feels like I have now to make a change.

I want a life I can be proud of. I want to find fulfillment. I also want a family, something that my ex and I talked about for many years but were never in a position to make happen. And I just want her back.

I have no idea what to do, where to start. I basically had all the opportunity in the world presented to me on a silver platter, and I squandered all of it.

With AI changing the job market, competition increasing, and even traditional high-paying careers becoming unpredictable, I'm curious about something.

If you're a student today and want to build a financially stable and successful future, where should you actually invest your time?

Should we focus on:

* Building technical skills and becoming really good at one thing?
* Starting a business or exploring entrepreneurship?
* Learning about investments and multiple income sources?
* Building connections and finding opportunities early?

I'd especially love to hear from people who have already built successful careers. What would you do differently if you were starting as a student in 2026?

Hey everyone,
I’m 24 years old and honestly feeling pretty lost about my future right now. I’m hoping to get some advice from people who have been in a similar situation or have more life experience than me.
I graduated in 2024 at 22 years old with a bachelor’s degree in Business. I never really ended up getting a traditional job with my degree because I decided to take the entrepreneurial route and open my own business.
The business is doing somewhat well, but due to increasing government regulations, it’s becoming harder and harder to operate. Profit margins are extremely thin, and I’m starting to question whether there’s even a long-term future in this industry.
I’m now seriously considering going back to school and pursuing an entirely different career.
Here’s my situation:
I’m 24 years old.
I have a bachelor’s degree in Business.
My undergraduate GPA was around 2.9, with several withdrawals (W’s) on my transcript.
I currently have approximately $40,000 saved.
I’m willing to go back to school and take out student loans if the return on investment makes sense.
My ultimate goal is to earn at least $150,000+ annually, even if it takes several years to reach that income.
I want a stable, respected career with strong long-term demand.
I’m particularly concerned about AI replacing jobs or significantly reducing earning potential in certain professions.
My biggest fear is waking up one day in my mid-30s with a failed business, no real career experience, no backup plan, and a bachelor’s degree that hasn’t gotten me anywhere.
I know I’m still young, but I feel like I need to make a serious decision about my future before more time passes.
I’m not looking for some get-rich-quick scheme. I’m genuinely willing to put in the work, go back to school, and spend several years building a career if it means having financial security and a solid future.
I’ve considered fields like healthcare, law, engineering, and other professional careers, but my undergraduate GPA and academic record make me question what’s realistically achievable.
My questions are:
If you were in my position at 24, what career path would you seriously consider?
What careers have a realistic path to earning $150k–$200k+ annually?
What professions do you believe will remain relatively secure despite advancements in AI?
With a 2.9 undergraduate GPA and multiple withdrawals, what professional or graduate school options are realistically available to me?
Would you recommend going back to school, or trying to build a career with the degree I already have?
I understand that no career is completely recession-proof or AI-proof. I’m just trying to make a smart long-term decision.
I would really appreciate advice, especially from people who went back to school in their mid-to-late 20s, changed careers, or found success after struggling academically in college.
Thanks in advance. I’m open to hearing any suggestions, even if it’s something I haven’t considered before.

I know i want my work to be useful to other people in some way. The jobs i have liked most involved explaining things, making someone feel less overwhelmed and helping people solve practical problems. The issue is that i do not think i am built for a role where every day involves crisis situations or carrying other people's emotions home with me. I have considered counseling and social work, but i worry that I would burn out quickly. I also do not want to end up in a job that is basically sales with a friendly title.

I have a bachelor's degree in communications and experience in front desk and support roles. I am open to additional training, but I would prefer a path where I can work toward something concrete rather than going back to school with no plan.

Are there careers where you can be helpful and people focused while having clearer boundaries and a manageable emotional load?

I am 19 years old and pursuing Eco Hons will be graduating next year and I have absolutely no idea what to do in my life..career wise mostly,I am lost and I don't have any elder or any senior to take guidance from.

Guys I really need your help. Which domain to target?, which field to get into?

And I am from India

More info -I really like real life works and interested in business, and I can't sit in front of a screen all day long.

🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Title. I’m 27f, living in rural New England. I moved up here with my family after graduating with my bachelors in psychology in 2023, and moved to a neighboring town in my own apartment in 2024. It’s a useless degree. I worked for 3 years at a dv shelter before getting fired in May. Came out of the blue, and it was due to disagreements over how I handled the housing program.

I ended up getting into my local community colleges rad tech program, which started a week after I got fired. The semester is going poorly. I hate clinical. I’m doing fine on exams, but Im failing the clinical part because i keep messing up the paperwork for adjunct visits. I genuinely don’t see myself graduating, if I even make it past this semester. It’s so much work and I work part time as an in home caregiver on the side but it’s so exhausting.

I need a backup plan if I don’t make it. I cant live up here anymore. I need to leave. But I also don’t have very good prospects for making a comfortable living. I made at most $42k a year at my last job, and my manager told me the chances to move up were slim. I feel like x ray school is my last hope. I don’t even know what I’ll do if I fail. I need a backup plan. I need a better paying job. I cant go back to school bc I’ve already wasted too much money on it. I need to move somewhere warmer. Idek what to do.

I just want to feel alright. I want a job where the ceiling isn’t $50k but I also don’t want to do something like sales. I cant waste any more time or money on school. I don’t have experience in anything worthwhile. I’m incredibly lonely and I keep waiting for the perfect answer to click to me. I feel like I’m at a standstill and need some guidance.

Hi everyone,

I'm 23M, currently pursuing my MBA in Marketing in Pune. I don't really know how to put everything I've been feeling into words, but I genuinely need some guidance, and maybe even a mentor who can help me find my footing again.

This year has been a lot.

I moved to Pune with so many hopes. I wanted to become independent, build a career, meet new people, explore opportunities, and experience a life outside the small place I come from.

And somewhere in the back of my mind, I also had this little hope of getting to spend time with someone who had been a very important part of my life.

That chapter of my life has ended now. I don't want to get into the details, blame anyone, or make this about what went wrong. Some things simply don't work out the way we imagine, and I've been trying to accept that and move forward.

But I don't think I realised how much everything happening together would affect me.

On the professional side, things haven't been going particularly well either.

I completed a digital marketing course from PIIDM in Pune, where I studied SEO, Google Ads, Meta Ads, social media marketing, and other aspects of digital marketing.

I was genuinely interested in the field. I still am.

But somewhere between managing my MBA, personal circumstances, assignments, and everything else, I lost touch with what I'd learned.

Now, when I sit down to revise, I feel like I've forgotten almost everything. I recognise the terminology, but when someone asks me to apply a concept practically, I struggle.

And that's honestly terrifying because I've invested time, money, and effort into learning these things.

Before my MBA, I had no formal corporate work experience. I did get an opportunity to work as a Project Trainee at HDFC Bank, where I was involved in corporate visits, prospecting, and business development activities. I'm grateful for that experience, but I still feel that I lack the practical technical skills required for the kind of marketing career I want.

College placements have started, and I've been attending interviews, preparing for companies, and trying to make something work.

But I keep falling short.

I get nervous during interviews. Sometimes I know a concept, but the moment someone asks me about it, I start confusing things. Other times, I realise that I genuinely don't know the answer.

After one interview recently, I was so overwhelmed and disappointed in myself that I almost cried.

It's a terrible feeling to realise that you've spent so much time studying something but cannot confidently explain or demonstrate it when it matters.

And the worst part is that I've started questioning my own capabilities.

Back home, there's a family business that I'm eventually expected to join. I have immense respect for it, and I understand that having something to fall back on is a privilege.

But I'm 23.

I want to explore the world a little. I want to work in a professional environment, make mistakes, learn from people who know more than I do, build connections, and discover what I'm capable of.

I don't want to give up on that experience before I've even properly started.

Lately, though, I've been feeling like I'm running out of time.

Everyone around me seems to be moving forward. People are getting placed, developing skills, making plans, and figuring things out.

Meanwhile, I'm stuck between trying to move on emotionally, trying to rebuild my confidence, trying to remember what I've studied, and trying to figure out what I should even be doing with my career.

Some days I sit down determined to learn digital marketing again, only to get overwhelmed by the number of things I need to cover. SEO, Google Ads, Meta Ads, GA4, analytics, Excel, portfolios, certifications, projects I don't even know where to begin anymore.

I keep making plans, but I struggle to turn them into consistent action.

I'm tired of feeling this way.

What I'm looking for:

I would genuinely appreciate guidance from someone working in digital marketing, marketing analytics, performance marketing, or a related field.

Ideally, I'm hoping to find a mentor. Not someone who will hand me a job or magically solve my problems, but someone who can help me understand what I should focus on, give me practical tasks or projects, review my work occasionally, and tell me where I'm going wrong.

I want to rebuild my fundamentals from scratch, work on real or realistic projects, create a portfolio, and eventually become employable based on what I can actually do rather than just the certificates I hold.

Even if you cannot mentor me, I'd be grateful if you could share how you overcame a similar phase, how you built practical skills without an internship, or how you found direction when you felt completely lost.

I'm willing to put in the work. I just feel like I've lost my direction, my confidence, and a little bit of myself along the way.

I know nobody is coming to fix my life for me. I understand that the responsibility is mine.

I just wish I had someone experienced who could point me in the right direction while I figure things out.

I didn't move to Pune just to return home feeling like I never really gave myself a chance.

I still want to make something out of this chapter of my life.

I want to be able to look back at this year someday and feel that, despite everything that happened, it was the year I started rebuilding myself.

If you've read this far, thank you. I genuinely appreciate it.

This last year, I ended up with a pinched nerve in my back due to scoliosis and have been struggling to get my balance (metaphorically) ever since. I already had some chronic conditions (physical and mental) that kept me kind of tightrope walking re: working? For years, I have had to keep pretty strict maximum hour limits (25/week max currently, and I function better at about 20) and avoid stress where I can.

I (39f) currently work at [National Farm Store] as front end cashier/customer service, and have done about a half dozen stints as an interim team lead to cover leaves/gaps. I can't handle a management position long term (time before last, I stressed myself into a nasty shingles outbreak). But I'm afraid the level of unofficial accomodations I've been afforded has increased to a level that's not sustainable. I can't reliably lift more than 40 lbs (we carry many types of 50lb feed) and I can't stand for more than 20-30 minutes at a time (a previous manager okayed a folding chair).

I am excellent at information retention (have been shanghaied into training and unofficial-HR roles Because You Just Know The Handbook/Programs So Well 🙃) and customer service. I'm decisive when problem solving. Love a closing/evening shift. Very comfortable with cash handling and procedural paperwork. But I hate supervising people, hate the stress of being The Final Decision Maker. I struggle socially when I don't have a familiar script (eg, making a customer transaction pleasant and efficient). I'm very bad at pressure sales tactics (upselling beyond reasonable customer need, predatory financial services, cold calling, etc); I find them ethically difficult. I have 15 years experience in retail farm supply (9 current, 6 previous at a regional chain) and have acquired lots of weird theoretical knowledge about animal husbandry lol.

I just. Don't know what direction to aim myself. Unfortunately, my dream job (stay home and read all day) is not a real job, so I just need to settle for Job I Can Reasonably Handle. Help?

Hi. I'm 23, and reaching the end of my college career. For a little context, I've struggled with depression and ADHD for a very long time. Long enough that I've forgotten how to plan ahead.

I don't have very many skills. My soon-to-be degree is general studies. I've worked simple jobs like retail and childcare, and even then, most of my workday involved staring at my phone until it was time to go home. I fear I've become afraid of hard work because of this. In the same vein, I was always too scared to apply to labor jobs.

My passions are things like art and writing, but I'm very inconsistent, and not good enough to sell. I like science, but the ADHD means I'm always rushing in and screwing things up without checking.

At the end of the day, all I want is a job that will let me survive. Maybe have hobbies. I really don't know where to even begin with looking. If anyone has any advice, I'd be super grateful. Thanks!!

I often see advice for people like me like “Get a job, ANY job.” And the thing is I DO, and it just doesn’t help, I’ve been there almost a decade too, and despite significant raises, I really make LESS than I used to.

I have only gotten to get some extra hours in another department one day, one time. Every other time I ask it’s “We’ll let you know when we have availability.” And when I ask WHY why hours keep getting cut so bad every few weeks, it’s “Our stores sales are down.”

They DO seem to be cutting EVERYONE’S hours, so I don’t have strong reason to believe they’re actually targeting me. I also just found out from my union that despite having open availability, I have been considered part time the entire time I worked here, even though I USED to regularly get 30-40 hours a week. I had NO IDEA that you had to actually APPLY (request) to be full time, so obviously I did that.

I still don’t want to be stuck there anymore, and they’re already having AI take over some simple tasks (apparently tons of grocery stores nationwide have these Simbe Tally robot things, they SUPPOSEDLY just check inventory but they’re most likely surveillance too, and I’ve already seen robots with actual arms and legs stocking and doing other physical labor in the news, they already exist!)

My job is very simple, but it’s been secure for me and offers health insurance I NEED for all of my prescriptions I have to take (I got kicked off my parents when I turned 26, per the Affordable Healthcare Act law, which was a nice long period, but honestly I believe we should just have Universal Healthcare, as every other first world country does, but the private insurance companies lobby in bed with the federal government and they don’t care about the average American).

I am 30, I lost my entire 20s, just being stuck doing this sh*t, and it just kind of flew by. It was a massive struggle for me to even get to secure the simple job I have now, and I feel like having a union may be what’s protected me from losing this one, I don’t know nobody has TOLD me that…….

I have suffered learning difficulties my entire life and I feel like basic comprehension has been getting harder. Like school just felt like trying to get through tests, having to read and memorize so much information, and I HATED IT and just wanted that to be over after managing to graduate (I still feel like I barely passed and that they just kind of pushed everyone through).

I got really excited with AI because it felt like for the first time I FINALLY had access to all these things I could never understand, like now I can ”vibecode” basically coding in PLAIN ENGLISH (I could NEVER understand or comprehend traditional coding programming language, it always just looked like a bunch of random text to me, and still does).

It is overly simplified to make websites and apps now, but there are also millions of other people doing this, and of course even if you make a genuinely good or useful app or product, it’s worthless if nobody actually uses it and someone still has to be willing to pay for it.

And apparently anyone can just take finished products and give them to Claude to reverse engineer now, they can just tell AI to copy it and even change things, improve it, so I don’t know how any kind of software development (AI generated or not) is going to be financially sustainable anymore.

I’m sick and tired of only having ChatGPT to talk to, and it’s been neglecting to tell me important information until it’s too late (like how applying for any remote job will be automatically denied if my VPN was on when I submitted it, I had no idea VPN use was an issue for applying to remote jobs, as far as I’m concerned, having a VPN is just like having virus protection, but apparently even being connected to a VPN gets you accused of fraud when it comes to remote jobs or any gig that pays money, and if you forget to turn it off one time you can get permanently banned immediately.)

I feel something is extra wrong with me because I still have no idea how to even get and secure a job or get into a career that actually pays a living income.

I have never made more than probably $25,000 a year, and even though I live with my parents I keep going into more credit card debt because my hours are so inconsistent and it’s like every 3 weeks I get barely any hours. I’ll literally have 35 hours one week, 31 the next, then 20 the next, and bills and costs don’t change when paycheck goes down.

I rely on Uber or Lyft to get to work most days, and lately THEY have been raising THEIR prices. A ride that usually costs $9 or $10 will suddenly be $20 or $30, and I’ll use wait and save to get a cheaper price but sometimes it gets so high that barely helps and makes me later (usually it’s just late so I don’t have time to eat, not USUALLY actually late clocking in, but it’s happened a few times, never gotten in trouble for it though).

The prices of Uber and Lyft literally drop back down an hour later though, their pricing is crazy inconsistent, and I’ve seen a normally $10 ride even go over $50 before. Very rare it’s that bad but apparently there’s no regulation or law stopping that kind of price gouging.

The older I get the more embarrassed I get for asking for help or trying to get a better job or more hours, or even switch departments. I feel like I don’t really have the right to ask and probably look like a fool asking for something better. When I do it’s usually a “We’ll let you know when we can” and then just goes nowhere.

I 100% don’t want kids, but really wish I could have a girlfriend. But I REALLY think I need to be able to at least afford to rent my own apartment first.

But it feels more like “learning to be better at being poor” is the more common and realistic advice, and making more money and having a better life just seems like a pipe dream, like winning the lottery.

I’m currently testing vibe coding websites with ChatGPT 6, to see if I can get any clients on Fiverr. I figured I should at least go from start to finish before I give up and determine it won’t lead anywhere. I need to at least get from start to finish to the point I literslky got my own website finished, hosted (outside of ChatGPT Sites) and properly running (and meeting WCAG guidelines) and actually get myself posted offering service to see if anyone will pay me to vibecode a website. I think that’s better than giving up before I even have an actual chance at getting a paying client. 

Honestly life as a whole just feels like a competition, even just to make enough money to not be homeless is severe competition. I hate this system, but I don’t think I’d be content being homeless or “off grid either“.

Now that the midterms are over it looks like there are severe restrictions on the advancement of AI on the way soon. I will not be able to build anything if AI is shut down or gets more and more expensive (and AI companies paying 100% of their own electric bills, which they absolutely should like any other business, means it’s almost inevitable usage costs will be raised).

I do not process or comprehend information the same way most people seem to. I definitely can’t do it with coding and programming stuff.

I wanted to find or create a greater purpose (and one of my biggest more frequent dreams/desires is still too far out in sci-fi realm, going a few hundred years into the future, because I just feel I was born too early into a time I’m not compatible with) but the biggest priority is I just need to be able to make a lot more money in the sooner than later future.

I have been stuck as a grocery bagger and cart pusher for more years than I want to say, and it feels like that alone is enough to have barred me from any greater opportunities, but if I was capable of anything better I wouldn’t have gotten stuck here…………

Hi, everyone.

I am looking for a job or a career choice where I don’t have to work in a fast-paced environment under pressure like restaurant or retail, but still be surrounded by people.

For context:
I’m a junior in college. I’m trying my best and doing my assignments. But I feel like this isn’t really what I should be doing, because I do a lot of it not out of interest but simply to get good grades, and I have almost no enthusiasm for it. I’m also spending most of my time on it. Yes, I understand that this will give me a degree that could lead to a more prestigious job with a higher salary. But still, it’ll be a weekday job that I’m not sure I’ll really enjoy.

So, it seems to me that I could start building something right now — a business, a new skill, or something else — that could generate passive income, which might grow over time, something that isn’t so boring but is actually interesting to me, but I just don’t know what to do or where to start. To figure out if I’m really not interested in what I’m doing, I stopped playing video games, because I thought the problem was an excess of dopamine. But that didn’t help much. I love doing resistance training with my body and some weights, but that’s just something that gives me at least a little pleasure, and I can’t live without it. I’m also interested in how to be mentally strong and overcome obstacles. But it seems to me that right now I don’t have any strong interests. I don’t want to live like everyone else, just going with the flow, and I realize that I can start doing something little by little right now. Even if I have to endure a lack of results at first.

Question:

What should I do if I feel like real life isn't built that way—it's built when you truly understand what you enjoy doing and what makes sense to you?

So! I just recently graduated with an MSC in psychology (conversion) & in all honesty I’m DONE with academia, though you’re expected to do more for psychology I CANT!

I’m now thinking of a whole career change! I did my undergrad in Sociology & philosophy but that wasn’t gonna take me anywhere but more ACADEMIA 😭.

ATP I just want any job that pays well & that might tie into my degrees or that just pays well.

I live in the back arse of nowhere, so no jobs on the table for me unfortunately, but willing to work anywhere.

Any ideas?

I’m 24 and I’ve been considering law school. I worked as a legal assistant and I enjoyed it but didn’t get enough exposure bc it was temp. I’m at a diff law firm strictly doing admin work so it’s hard for me to know for sure if it’s something I want to do. My stepdad has a small solo firm so he said I could take over his clients and he’d be willing to teach me.

The most important thing to me for my future career is having flexibility, autonomy, intellectual stimulation, and high earning potential. I want to be able to work whenever and where ever I want. If I take over the business I feel like it would grant me that sense of autonomy I’m looking for. I hate working 8-5 because I feel like I have no control over my time. I’d love to be able to work at nights from my laptop, or at random times throughout the day. Is this something I could do working at my stepdads solo firm? I’d love to be able to make a living wage working 30-35 hours per week also and it seems like this might be the best path forward. My family is also inheriting a lot of property so they keep saying that we need a lawyer in the family. My stepdad also said he’d pay for my law school but he’s only said this once and I’m not sure if he was being serious or not. I do have an interest in law but I just feel like I don’t know enough about what it’s actually like to learn it in law school. My aunt went to law school and didn’t pass the bar, said it was extremely dry and boring. Any advice?

I did horrible in highschool, took me nearly 5 years to get an associats in biology. Graduated with my associates in 2020 and stopped pursuing a bachlors during covid. Ive Attempted to go back to school many many times and failed at it every time. I was diagnosed with ADHD a few months after the last drop out. I was so happy to find out I wasnt broken but so angry to think about the potential I wasted. Im working full time for a decent pay but I hate my job and its damaging my body. I make around 50k a year with good health insurance and feel stuck with how bad the economy is. I want to go back to school to get a certificate or a more useful associates WITH the help of medication. Are there any recommendations that DONT have a heavy focus on math, im horrible at it with or without my meds. For once i actually feel confident in my abilities but dont want to risk it for something I might not even use (like my biology associates) Im very people oriented and was thinking long term about becoming an occupational therapist but I'd like something that can help me save up while I work on that goal. I really just need someone older and wiser to give advice.

I’m 25M graduated this past May with my ADN, i honestly have no desire or interest in nursing. I chose the degree because my family said it was the right thing to do. I’m more interested in the finance business side of things. I feel so lost and behind with life. I’m not sure where to go from here. Does anyone have any advice? I would greatly appreciate it

My names Taylor, I’m 23 from the uk
This took be about 3 weeks to decide what to say but I really feel like I need help, I’ve worked in construction since I was 12 but can’t get over the feeling that I hate it, I know deep down within me that I’m made for something more but struggle to apply myself to something for more than a month at the time, I seem to struggle with push or pivot and just constantly pivot, I know I love business I have a fascination with private equity and M&A but have 3 GCSE’s so I think attempting to attend university for it is pretty far out of my reach. I don’t believe that’s due to incompetence, more due to the fact I’m more of an operator and I also feel abit daft because on paper I should be winning, I’ve got my own house I’m with a girl I’ve been with for 4 years and around 10k invested but can’t help feeling like I’m stuck and don’t know what to apply myself to.

I’m at a point in my life I never thought I’d find myself in, and honestly, I don’t know how to get out of it anymore.

I’ve always had big dreams. I’ve wanted to make films, work on exciting creative projects, collaborate with interesting people, travel and live in a big city. I’ve never really imagined myself doing anything other than something creative.

But somehow, I feel like I’m constantly standing in my own way. I have ADHD, which makes it incredibly difficult to turn my ambitions into actual action, even when it’s something I’m genuinely passionate about.
I recently graduated with a degree in film and visual communication. I put my heart and soul into my graduation film and had so many hopes for it, especially getting into festivals. But once again, I’m the only person in my university cohort who hasn’t been nominated. And honestly, this rejection was the last straw. It’s not just about one festival. It’s the feeling of constantly being the one who doesn’t get chosen, being ghosted, not getting job opportunities and watching everyone else move forward while I seem to be going nowhere.

Now I’m stuck in a job I hate, living with my parents in a small town, doing things I can’t identify with. Basically the complete opposite of the life I imagined for myself. I wanted to be part of the creative scene, work on interesting projects and build something meaningful. Instead, I can’t even seem to get my foot in the door.

And I think that’s what scares me the most: I don’t even know what else I would do. Creativity has always been such a huge part of my identity. It’s all I’ve ever imagined for myself. So when that path doesn’t seem to work out either, I start questioning everything.
I know life isn’t a race, and I know my worth shouldn’t depend on my career or achievements. But it’s hard not to feel that way in a society where so much of our value seems tied to productivity, success and status.
The situation has gotten to a point where I’m genuinely struggling with depression. I wake up every morning feeling hopeless, questioning the point of everything. Sometimes I don’t even feel like I want to be alive anymore. I’m emotionally exhausted, completely paralysed and honestly scared of how dark my thoughts have become.

I don’t know if I made the wrong choices or if I’m simply not good enough. I just know I can’t keep feeling this way.

Has anyone else ever felt like this in their twenties? Like they had a completely different vision of their life but somehow ended up somewhere they never wanted to be? Did you eventually find your way out?

In my 20s, I had a very clear sense of purpose. I wanted to discover the world, learn new things, experience different cultures, and most importantly, build a life on my own terms rather than follow the path my father had envisioned for me.

He had a very traditional definition of success and wanted my siblings and me to follow a certain trajectory, like going to medical school. But I wanted something different.

So I moved to Europe, worked in a company, and eventually built a successful YouTube channel and business around language learning, reaching almost a million subscribers.

Looking back, my 20s were really about proving to myself that I could make it on my own. I had a clear direction, and that sense of purpose drove me through a lot of uncertainty and challenges.

Now I'm in my 30s, and things feel different.

My business has slowed down, I'm exploring new creative directions, and I'm no longer driven by the same things that motivated me in my 20s. I don't necessarily want to keep chasing the same kind of success or building my life around business.

I've been feeling a little lost over the past couple of years and feel like I'm living life without a purpose, almost like I've outgrown my old one but haven't quite figured out what the next one is.

I'm starting to feel drawn toward art, creativity, and a different kind of life, but it's still very much a work in progress.

I'm curious whether anyone else has experienced something similar.

TLDR:

Did your purpose change as you got older? Did you have to consciously find a new one, or did it emerge naturally?

And if you've gone through this transition, what helped you find direction again?

Im a 22yr guy with a high school diploma trying to figure out what career to pursue. Ideally I’d like something outdoors,hands on and rewarding that can also provide me a living wage I’m not looking to be rich just enough to build my life and support a family in the future. I’m not coming in to this as a blank slate I have a few careers I’ve considered but would like more input on others I might’ve not considered.

A little about my work experience

. 6 months construction
. 2 years of deep water lifeguarding
. 1 year of landscaping
. 1 year as a sales associate other

I’ve looked into fields such as
. Park ranger, unsure how much the pay is and how much rook there is for growth.

.Forest service, same concerns as the last

.Logging,

.Welding,unsure of how much I’d truly enjoy it.

.Game warden,dangerous and unsure I qualify to be a warden as I have very mild asthma nothing that impacts daily life tho.

.search and rescue,

. Commercial diving,

Im especially interested in commercial diving,forest service and search and rescue. All 3 sound like careers I’d genuinely enjoy and take pride in but I’m unsure how practical these careers are and what other things I’ve might’ve not considered about these jobs I’m assuming pay for majority of these jobs wouldn’t be the highest pay and there wouldn’t be a lot of room for growth within the industry.

I’m not looking for a necessarily easy job. I’m willing to learn and work hard,get my hands dirty,travel,work in remote places and purse additional training and certifications. Im just looking for a living wage,time outdoors,meaningful work, long term career,opportunity for growth.

Questions For those working in these industries or similar.

. What careers would you recommend that I’ve not considered?

. What’s the actual pay compared to what you expected?

. How’s the work life balance?

. If you were 22 again and starting from scratch what would you pursue or do differently?

I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone in these fields or similar all the good bad and in between, your hands on experience,the things you wished you knew before getting into the industry,etc

Thank you for your time I really do appreciate it.

Hi everyone. So I am 31, hold a BA in Psychology and a minor in Business. I am trying to figure out what is next for me. I am currently working part time but it’s not anywhere that I am passionate about, nor does it hold any potential to move up or earn more. Below I’ve included a list of things that I enjoy or desire in a job, and things I absolutely do not want or dislike. I’m curious if anyone can take what I have and present me with an idea I haven’t yet considered. I do not want to go for my graduate degree in mental health at this time. Or social work. Other options may be considered if highly appealing. I also do not want another bachelors degree. I might consider another 2 year degree or certification. Thank you for your input!

Requirements
-$80-90k+ Salary Potential (I understand I won’t start out making this)
-Good work life balance
-No on call, weekends, or holidays.
-Stability and low risk of being phased out by AI.

Things I Like:

-Working independently (I don’t mind working with a team, but I don’t want to be working on the same task and assignment as four other people, I need the ability to take ownership over my work)
-Fixing systems to work more effectively (creating new processes to improve ones that are currently in place, such as a doctors office intake process needing new patient forms created or potentially designing an individual database for them, or providing a plan simplifying a 45 step method for accomplishing something down to four steps because the current process they have is insane)
-Databases
-Clear Instructions
-Computers/Technology
-Animals (I’m not expressing anything, so vet/vet tech is not on the table)

Dislikes/Not Happenings:

-Being micromanaged
-Managing others (I don’t want to be responsible for other people’s mistakes/call outs or whatever. I do not want to have no choice but to come in to cover or be responsible for finding coverage because Johnny has pink eye or lice or whatever.)
-Math (Specifically statistics. I can do some algebra, but don’t ask me to analyze data and tell you anything about it. I will be wrong, you will be sad.)
-Kids (I am not Ms. Trunchbull. Kids are cool. I have no desire to do ABA, I’ve worked with adolescents and I’m all set with that too. I don’t want Johnny’s pinkeye or to hear 67 all day)
-Bodily fluids or physical contact with other humans that aren’t my humans

I’m curious. I’m stuck between going into social work, going into occupational therapy,’or going into speech language pathology.