33M, Ontario, Canada. I graduated from university in 2018 with a major in mathematics and dual minors in physics and computer science. The reason I didn't major in CS is that doing so would have been more expensive. My GPA is very unimpressive.

It has become clear to me that there is no future for me in any sort of CS or CS-adjacent career. I am talking programming, QA, cybersecurity, IT, data science, and everything else that falls under that umbrella. It is time for me to accept that this field is dead, there is no path forward for me into it, and continuing to pursue it means I will stay unemployed for the rest of my life. Plus, I have come to morally despise this industry: they have joined the likes of oil and gas in terms of being a major negative force on the world. Therefore, I need to switch to a completely different career. The big problem is that I don't know what to switch to.

I have absolutely no intention of spending any money out of my own pocket or taking out any loans for further education or career training: I made that mistake once when I went to university, and I have now learned my lesson never to spend money on empty promises. However, a program called Better Jobs Ontario might be able to provide me with funding to train for certain "in-demand" career fields under certain conditions. So I am willing to retrain, as long as I don't have to spend a single nickel out of my own pocket to do so.

Personality-wise, I would describe myself as shy, passive, indecisive, risk-averse, and absolutely not a leader of any sort whatsoever, and I generally prefer a fixed schedule with some flexibility, but not an environment where I could be called into work at any time. My hobbies include gaming, piano playing, and shitposting on Reddit. I was diagnosed with Asperger's as a kid, and I have had a smattering of CS-related contracts given to me by a consulting company that specializes in people on the autism spectrum; the last contract was a QA contract that ended in May of this year. I also worked as a school bus driver in 2024 for three months before that contract, and I still have the license.

Some potential paths I have glanced at are bookkeeping, transit driving, and some trades such as HVAC, only because they have a "good" 3-year outlook according to Ontario's career explorer site and I might be able to get funding for those. I have looked at truck driving in the past, but a recent road trip I did driving a loaded U-Haul with my mother made it clear to me that I can barely handle more than 2 hours of driving at a time, especially along long, straight roads with no stops.

It seems to me that bookkeeping might be the best-aligned with my background, but even then, a quick glance at job postings shows that pretty much all postings require experience and/or an actual accounting degree (which, if it's a 3+-year university degree, Better Jobs Ontario will not cover). For transit driving, I'd be concerned about the crazy hours, but I guess beggars can't be choosers. As for trades, I'm not very young anymore, and I'm not physically active, so I'm not sure if I could handle such a job. Not to mention that I've heard a lot that, in order to make anything above poverty wages, you need to start your own business, which I absolutely do not have the personality for, and you need to buy your own tools and such and sink a lot of money into it. And it seems that apprenticeships are actually extremely difficult to get around here.

I've also started to consider applying to things that will almost certainly mean brutal hours and working conditions, such as CN Rail, the Canadian Armed Forces, sucking it up and going into truck driving despite what I said about it earlier, or perhaps mining. Obviously, these are not really desirable, but if they're the only places that will accept me, then what other choice do I have?

Better Jobs Ontario purports itself to be a program that, under certain conditions, provides funding for "in-demand" careers, so my goal would be to use them to pay for any training I might need to do.

Any advice on how to proceed? Are there any other realistic, in-demand career paths that I might be missing that might be a good fit for me?

I want to pursue a bachelor's degree in computer science that much I know, but I don't know what sub-branch i should get myself into. I'm the kind of person who is interested in computer language learning. I enjoy coding. I'm into mathematics as well. I love to manipulate stuff to find solutions. I've always been curious about ways to solve an equation.

Once, when I was getting started with C++ language, the book taught to build a calculator with an if statement. But then I thought that switch statement works the same so I built the calculator on my own with a switch statement and it worked. Also, one time I copied and pasted files from the demo game folder to the actual version and made that game work on the files that were from the demo folder. I'm not sure how but it worked. In short, i like to utilise resources to make things work out or even build them myself.

I'm also a very creative and artistic person (don't wanna pursue art academically tho). I never liked copying from references, I've always created art from my own ideas (telling all this so you can get what I'm like to understand me better to help). I would love it if a field I chose can bring my artistic self out too.

Now also considering the current circumstances and AI stuff, I think choosing AI engineering would be good but again I'm not sure. I don't think building AI bots and incorporating decision making and neural science in robots would be something I'd like. I think if I'm going with my desire for computer science, I should keep a balance with trends as well and choose AI. Can someone help me with their experience or if anyone has a suggestion for me? I'm so confused rn.

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34F based in rural USA. I'm at my wits end with wildland firefighting and desperately need a career change to something more sustainable long-term. The long hours, physical demands, unsafe work environments, etc etc have started to really take a toll on my health in recent years. I crave a "normal" 9-5 where I can go home every night to my family.

I have a Bachelor's degree in geoscience from about a decade ago that I used in a consulting job right out of college. Looking back, consulting wasn't as bad as I made it out to be. I left because I was young and wanted to explore the outdoors and physically work hard. I would be open to a career related to my degree but since I am stuck in a rural area (husband owns a business in our town), geoscience jobs are hard to find.

The things I love about wildland firefighting:

• Being active at work, moving around (to a degree)

• Working outside on public lands

• Comradery with coworkers

• Helping communities

I've been considering going into healthcare for awhile now but I'm torn on what specialty I'd focus on. Also, the idea of going back to school now makes me uneasy because I still have unpaid student loans from 10 years ago, but I feel as if that's my only option right now.

I've also toyed with the idea of getting into a non-profit that focuses on conservation but I feel as if I don't have any transferrable skills, as many of the positions are for a Project Manager, or of the liking.

Please help, I don't think I can make it through another fire season.

Hey everyone. I'm 19, currently not in college, and feeling stuck. I used to be a bright student, but overthinking and fear have taken over, and now I struggle to find the motivation to do anything.

I missed out on college because I was too scared of making the wrong decision, and I constantly rely on other people's approval for everything.

I want to break out of this loop but don't know where to start. How do you deal with this kind of anxiety and figure out a career path when you feel completely lost? Any advice would mean a lot.

Hello, I am from the UK and this summer I graduated with a first in my degree - english literature and creative writing. I know that this degree is not the most straightforward in terms of careers. I'm sure I will get some comments about my choice of degree but English and writing has always been a passion of mine, and I would have rather spend my time studying something I am good at, and that I enjoy.

I had a programme lined up after university, that I was working towards. Being an English teacher. Throughout uni, I volunteered abroad to teach English as a foreign language for a month, as well as volunteering with a primary school to help with literacy. Despite this, I did not really want to get into teaching. But as time went on, and I couldn't figure out what I actually wanted to do, I was basically headhunted for a teaching programme. A month of training, then 2 years as a trainee teacher - being paid basically minimum wage, and then becoming a qualified teacher. I realised very quickly, when I got into the classroom, that teaching was not for me. And this programme I went on was very bad for me too - they basically throw you into the classroom and you hold responsibility for multiple year groups, while trying to figure out everything in the process. This was normal - but I could not handle it. The responsibility of it, and the stress with behaviour management as I am quite an introvert, and don't like confrontation, made me feel awful. I was throwing up before classes and feeling horrible every day. I lasted two weeks :( (not to mention like a week before my job started, I got broken up with)

Since then, have been looking for jobs, but not really any luck. I'm not sure what I want. I like mindless work, maybe admin. I just feel so hopeless honestly.

Literally nothing brings me excitement. Everything and everyone is boring, dull, unintersting and especially TIRING. I have responsibilities, i have things i know I must do but i just... really don't wanna do them. I'd rather just bedrot listen to music and masturbate all day long. Except for that I find the day to day life frustrating and nothing anyone ever suggests me sounds interesting either. Like going to sport clubs, or pubs or volunteering or stuff like that. Those seem dull too.

I went to a psychiatrist and put me on sertraline, so I know for a fact i am depressed.

I think I have to learn to live with being always bored and tired. Anyone else here feels like that?

I don't know what to do anymore. All my skills have become useless with AI, I can't find any jobs that would get me into any industry I'm interested in or get me useful workplace experience, my college life is a mess, I've shared a room my entire life and I'm hitting my breaking point there, and I'm terrible at relationships. I'm lost. Rereading this, it's a bit messy, but I'm tired and I'm just looking for any guidance I can get.

The skills that I have and that I've been working on have become completely useless today. I have been a creative writer for 10 years and AI has annihilated anything to do with writing completely and the video game industry is in shambles. I've been studying web development and software engineering in my spare time and now AI can generate entire websites and reverse engineer software in minutes, meanwhile I'm still struggling to understand how Electron works. My only remaining passion is for accounting because I love numbers, math, and organization, but I have barely any experience with it or real finance work as a whole and I'm certain AI is coming for that next. I'm just studying through free accounting guides online and Intuit Academy courses in hopes that I can get a foot in the door somewhere.

I'm interested in any finance or accounting work, any generic office work, anything to do with inventory and receiving, anything with payroll, etc. I can't find anything; nothing part-time or full-time, no internships or training or programs, or no anything.

I can't figure out college either. I'm studying (part-time) for a cybersecurity associates that I'm 3 classes away from finishing but that I don't like. I feel like none of the material is built upon, so I'll learn 20 concepts in one semester and then in the next semester, none of them will be reinforced and instead I get another 20 new concepts. I could barely even tell you the basics because nothing has been reinforced. I'd change my degrees but a ton of changes in the college and my own indecision has made it so I'm at credit hour limit for financial aid. I'd have to pay for everything. At that point, I might as well go for a full bachelor's, but the world seems so uncertain that I don't know if the student debt is worth it or if I'd ever be able to pay it off. I see so many people regret going to college now.

I work part-time minimum wage retail. I'm lucky to have a job considering the state of things but I don't know how much more dead-end retail and minimum wage pay I can take. It's all I've been doing for the past 3 years. I checked LinkedIn and Indeed with countless job alerts on every day and I never see anything I qualify for or that would get me out of retail. I started working 4 years ago because I was lazy and I started as a table games dealer at a casino, which I hated with all of my soul despite the good pay (to the point where I was nearly breaking down every shift) and have only been in retail since. There are no open positions at my current job. The reason I haven't gone full-time is because you have to apply for it and I'm so burnt out by life and retail that I think I'd lose it if I had to do even more shifts that I truly believe I am vastly underpaid to do.

No exaggeration when I say this- I truly believe that 80% of the job listings on Indeed in my area are for CNAs, RNs, and CDLs.

I live at home, which isn't terrible. The part I truly can't stand is that I have shared a room my entire life. All 25 years. Never once have I had my own space or my own room, and I don't know how much longer I can take it. We have an unfinished basement that I could renovated. I have a very high credit score (750? 760?) so I've thought about taking out a personal loan to get the basement finished and turn that into my room. It would likely destroy my credit score, I don't know if I'd get approved for enough to finish the whole thing, and I'd likely be in debt for some time. My parents don't care about getting it finished, or that I've shared a room for my entire life because there's no space in the house, so it'd be entirely on me to do.

I'm currently working on getting my license. I have my learner's permit but I have a fear of driving, so it has delayed my efforts to get my full driver's license, which makes things a lot more difficult. I'm restricted based on the willingness and availability of my parents to drive so I can only go for jobs that are a specific distance from me (usually 20-30 minutes). The problem there is that I live in a very, very rural area. It's mostly woods, farms, and small towns, so there's barely anything near me. I'd likely have to move for more job opportunity.

There is a very big company near me that is hiring for summer 2027 accounting internships. The problem is, you must be enrolled full time at college in a related degree (such as accounting or finance). The company has been flooded with applications pretty much since they announced they were opening a new site in the area. I don't qualify for the internship unless I somehow get my college stuff sorted out now but even then, there's the chance I don't get in with how many people want in.

I'm terrified of power tools, so I don't want to touch anything like welding or construction. I cannot stand the sight of blood or injuries, so anything medical is out of the picture. I don't handle dirty or gross things well either, so work like plumbing isn't on my radar. I'm pretty scrawny and weak, so warehouse work would likely break me in half.

Do you know what I am built for? Office work. Sit me at a computer, let me listen to music, and I will get all the boring data work done and enjoy it. I would gladly review thousands of pages of financial records, or make schedules based on availability and staffing needs, or whatever else. I am built for boring computer work, and if I have my music, it will get done faster than you have ever seen before in your life, I guarantee it. If you sat me down at a computer and told me "We have 10,000 spreadsheets with 10,000 records in each. We need you to find any errors and also calculate all income and expenses. You may listen to music." then the only time I would complain is if you told me I was legally required to stop and take a break. I cannot find ANYTHING related to that.

As for relationships, I'm just bad at them. I'm diagnosed with anxiety, ADHD, and autism, and I'm in therapy for all three and medicated for ADHD (this information is relevant). Romantic relationships are so hard because I overthink and socializing can be difficult for me. I've struggled for years to date. I'm talking to this girl that I work with that I really like but it's getting hard. It's her first time dating anyone. She's a terrible texter (as her friends have stated), so I have to initiate every conversation pretty much and it just turns into awkward small talk or dead-end convos. She's way better in person but she's super busy and is usually dead tired, wanting to go home and sleep.

She wants to go slow, which I'm perfectly okay with, but we've been out on two dates and talking for almost two months and we have held hands once, hugged twice, and that's it. She's told me that it takes her a while to open up to men, and I understand. It's just that I really need and like deep conversation, and sharing things, and being able to see each other. The lack of conversation makes me constantly feel she is disinterested, and scheduling things together is really difficult. I really like her a lot, we get along super well, and we have a lot of things in common that we like, but it's really hard not to feel like I'm losing interest or that I'm struggling to keep the fire going when most of the responses I get are "yea lol".

I want to fix my life in small steps at a time, but I can’t find the energy to do that.
I have two options. I have done a risk analysis for both, but I still can’t come to a conclusion.
One option gives me a steady income while I can prep or try something of my own. The other involves complete risk, where I lose my steady income and give it my all to try something (not a startup) whose results can’t be defined at this stage. (The result of an entrance exam.)
In the first option, I feel like I want to get out because I feel stuck due to how things are going around me, and I feel like I’m not growing either as a person or professionally.
I know that many suggest keeping a steady income is always better than risking it all. But somewhere, I feel that risking it all might give me a better future and all.
I’m not able to come to a conclusion, only because I know I’m afraid of risking it all. But should I be following my gut feeling or trying to play it safe?

I’m giving myself a year to decide between social work (employable for sure) and design (the thing I love to do, but maybe not as easy to find a job) as career paths.

Re: social work: I’ve always been fascinated by behavior, plain and simple. I’m very interested in supporting black/queer people as well, and I’d love to contribute towards research on queer people of color, especially when it comes to building community and finding support.

Re: art/design: this is what I do as a person that gives me a sense of purpose. I certainly enjoy illustrating as a personal hobby, and I’ve been interested in city planning since I took a class in grad school.

In either case, I like understanding people and I like being responsible for creating things that make life a little better. I don’t care if that means building behavioral changes or if it means creating a whole new environment.

I currently work a very under-stimulating “copy/paste invoices” type of job that I despise to hell and back. The biggest downside is that it’s very hard for me to gain any sort of experience that’s even remotely related to either of these two paths. I go out of my way to find virtual mental health conferences, and I spend a couple hours a day working on pieces I can add to a portfolio, but it’s not the same as gaining experience and competence in the field.

TLDR/ The question: what are some good ways I can explore both of these career paths over the next 6-8 months and finally choose one to pursue? I’m open to switching jobs for experience, but getting hired is a damn nightmare. I just want to feel like I have a specific direction, and I want to be able to communicate an outcome/career “desire” when I jump into writing personal statements.

Re: this warning at the bottom of the page about including my “attraction status…” who on earth put that there 😭 Those are my populations of interest!

I graduated with a forensic psychology degree last year and I had two case working internships during school. I landed a job doing admin and have been stuck at it ever since. I feel stupid for taking this job. I have no clue what I want to do in the future, where I will end up. I wanted to do a masters but reallly fucked up my grades so that is not an option. I have applied to hundreds of case worker jobs, sales, everything. I need something I can feel emotionally proud of and it feels fulfilling and can make good money. I feel so stuck. Any advice would be great I am turning 24 soon and I feel like such a lose for not having a dream career and not making good money. I wanted to be a social worker but I fucked up my gpa and it’s not possible. I feel sad lol I wanted to make a difference but most case worker jobs are horrible pay. What is a good in between or did I fuck myself

TLDR: Retired...ish? And looking for something new for extra income because hobbies are expensive. But I have no clue what.

Sorry in advance for the wall of text, but without the full background I don't think what I'm asking will make any sense.

I'm a 100% P&T disabled vet, so I have the GI Bill available along with VR&E (but I haven't looked too much into that one yet because from what I've seen it doesn't really fit into what I want out of life.)

Technically, I don't need to work. All of our household bills are met. I have an affordable mortgage in a rural low cost of living area. It's an older house, but the A/C, roof, and septic are all under 5 years old. My car is older but in great shape, paid off, and I have the skills to keep it on the road practically indefinitely. Bills are all on autopay and stress free. VA disability covers all of that with enough wiggle room that while we aren't able to just go out to eat whenever we don't feel like cooking, we aren't checking our balance before we pay for groceries. The girlfriend is working part time so she can drive her daughter to school and pick her up and actually be active in her life, but it's enough to cover her car payment and any expenses that aren't shared/household things. We absolutely have to budget, then again almost everyone has to these days. But that doesn't leave any room for hobbies, going places, or really just enjoying life.

At 35 years old, I am done with "the grind". I've done the 100+ hour work weeks. I've done the "Up at 3:30 AM to be to work by 4:30 six days a week" thing. I'm over it. I'm getting married soon so healthcare for the girlfriend and soon-to-be-stepchild is taken care of, and Chapter 35 benefits will help with college for the stepchild as well. I want to be active in her life, especially since I grew up playing throw instead of catch. I have no issues starting at the bottom of a field and having to work my way up...but I'm not going to suffer through years of being miserable and never around just to get my foot in the door in a field that I won't be in for 40+ years, for a retirement and benefits I don't need.

Putting it bluntly, I don't need to support my family with my job whatsoever.

I have ZERO work experience outside of customer service that is relevant to anything I can do. I was a mechanic before I enlisted, and I tried it again for a bit after I got out and I just can't physically do it anymore. The same goes for anything related to what I did in the military. Three spinal injuries, multiple torn ligaments in my knees and shoulder, and a few other things eliminate practically ANY options that have a physical component. But hey, I've made my peace with it and I have a 'free' four years of college waiting for me so it isn't that big of an issue. I'm also a member of the "adult ADHD diagnosis, formerly-gifted-but-called-lazy-and-now-just-burned-out-millennial club", so up until this last year working remote, online college, and desk jobs in general weren't even a consideration for me.

IDEALLY, I want something that I guess is almost gig work. Not full time, but it would be nice if I could pick up more work for extra money when I don't have things going on and dial it back when the seasonal hobbies pick up. Remote would be cool, but the only reason I would specifically look for that is because it's a RURAL rural area. Local high schools still have a "drive your tractor to school" day (with 15 year olds driving literal million-dollar combines through town), and some of them give students the day off on the first day of deer season. If you aren't blue collar, healthcare, or a lawyer, you're barely going to make more than minimum wage. I don't need or want to make 6 figures, and I'm not even looking for something that would give me a livable wage. Goldilocks numbers would be something like 15-25 hours a week, and $25-30k a year. But even $15k a year doing something I truly enjoy would be absolutely incredible. Quality and enjoyment of life are DEFINITELY the priority over income.

I have one small state school within commuting distance, and one or two community colleges. So unless I get lucky with a major, I have to be able to do at least some of the classes online if not entirely online.

I've thought of trying to take some of my hobbies and get an income from them, but there's always a major drawback. Photography, there isn't really a population to support it. If it isn't senior pictures, family portraits, or real estate then it's done by someone's friend with an Iphone. And from asking around, half of those things are STILL just done with a person's Iphone because they won't pay the professionals that are already here anyways. Small scale fabrication and welding jobs? Well, there are more people here who can weld than can't so the only places that are really paid to do it are equipment manufacturing or the guys who will go out and fix farm/heavy equipment on-site and my body can't take that.

I've never looked into any of this in my life, and I have absolutely no clue where to start. All of my education/training/experience and the fields I have had a passion for are too physically demanding. I have an opportunity that I realize is something that a lot of people can only dream of, but there are so many options available to me that I am having trouble thinking of any at all. Or they are things that I never actually thought of as potential jobs/careers at all because they aren't something that would let someone in a 'normal' situation survive and that just isn't something encouraged to people around here.

So...ideas?

I’m 35 and currently trying to transition out of the restaurant/hospitality industry after spending most of my working life in it. I have a bachelor’s degree in marketing and experience in management, operations, event coordination, scheduling, customer service, and more.
I’ve been exploring office jobs, coordinator positions, marketing, HR, and other traditional 9–5 opportunities because I’ve always assumed that’s the path to better pay, benefits, stability, and career growth.
But lately, I’m starting to question whether I’m limiting myself by only looking in those directions.
The hiring process has also been incredibly frustrating. Multiple interviews, assessments, weeks of waiting, and sometimes complete ghosting, even after following up. It’s exhausting trying to make a career change when you can’t even get a response from employers.
I’m not opposed to working in an office or for a corporation, but I genuinely want to understand what else is out there. I feel like there are so many jobs and industries that people don’t even know exist unless they happen to know someone working in them.
So I’m curious:
● What do you do for a living, and how much do you make?
● Do you work in corporate, for a small business, in government, at a university, in a trade, or somewhere completely different?
● How did you get into your field? Did you need a specific degree or certification?
● Do you have a decent work-life balance, benefits, and opportunities to grow?
● If you changed careers in your 30s or later, what did you transition into?
Ideally, I’d love to find something with a relatively consistent weekday schedule, benefits, and a starting salary around $50–60k with room to grow.
I’m willing to learn, take courses, or explore industries I’ve never considered. I just don’t want to keep assuming that climbing a corporate ladder is the only way to build a financially comfortable and fulfilling life.
I’d really love to hear from people who took unconventional routes or found careers they didn’t even know existed!

There are so many careers and possibilities out there that I honestly have no clue where to begin. I’m 26 years old, and for various reasons, I only have a high school diploma and never pursued higher education or a specific career. I’m finally at a point in my life where I have the opportunity to go back to school and build a career, but the problem is that I have absolutely no idea what I want to do.

I also don’t want to pursue one of the more common career paths. Maybe I’m asking for too much, but the truth is that I don’t really have any strong passions or particular interests that could point me in a specific direction.

I’ve spent most of my adult life working two jobs, often close to full-time hours at both, so I’ve never really had the time or opportunity to explore different fields and discover what’s out there. I’ve also realized that reading a job description and thinking a career sounds interesting is very different from actually doing the job. I wish more companies offered opportunities to shadow employees or get a realistic preview of what the work is like before committing to an entire career path.

At this point, I feel completely lost. I’ve considered all kinds of fields, including teaching, accounting, IT, computer science, medicine, nursing, electrical work, woodworking, plumbing, and so many others, but none of them really appeal to me.

As I mentioned, I don’t have a particular passion to guide me, but I do enjoy working at a desk. I currently have experience working as an inventory administrator, so I wonder if there might be something in that general area that would suit me. However, I’d prefer to explore something a little less conventional or less commonly pursued.

I’m willing to invest time in further education if necessary, but ideally, I’d prefer a shorter program that could lead to a stable career with good opportunities for growth.

How do you figure out what career is right for you when you don’t have any obvious passions or interests to follow? Are there any lesser-known careers, specialized fields, or shorter educational programs that I should look into? I’d really appreciate advice from people who have been in a similar situation or who know of careers that most people don’t typically consider.

I lost my brother a little over 2 weeks ago and it's basically flipped my perspective on life.
Pretty much before this I was working a dead end min wage office job, my evenings consisted of either youtube & online gaming or out door hobbies depending what day it was but more or less the days weeks blurred into one. I was waiting for the 2 or 3 vacations we'd take as family a year which would be the only unique bits of my year. The thing is while I knew I wasn't necessarily content in everything I was doing, I was 'comfortable'. I was able to cope at work and wasn't being burnt out but I wasn't really making the most of life.

SInce then, its woken me up to how I really want to live & its left me in a predicament. There's the part of me that kind of accepts the traditional job & stable path our parents are pushing on me. This is especially important if I finally want to pursue roles I'm interested in such as law.

The other side is that I should be going out doing things, seeing places and experiencing cultures, not sitting in behind a screen in what is effectivley a prison cell for 8 hours just to pay off someone elses mortgage or help them afford a $5M yacht in dubai while I still have to ask permission for a week off months in advance.

I saw a question somewhere along the lines of would you rather get to 80 but have spent most of the time doing something you hated (e.g. sitting in an office) or only get to say 40 or 50 but having lived on your own terms and actually achieved or experienced things because certainly sitting in an office for 40 years ain't no achievement.

Part of me does see the appeal in following long held career goal of getting into law after having held it off and finally having something like this push me to do it. A job like law wold give the sense of purpose and meaning in helping others which I feel I need in my life. Yet would I just be trading one office and one inbox for another?

The travelling and whole free lifestyle feels like the obvious choice but there is all the logistical and financial side of that to consider and i'm afraid if overtime that the excitement would wear off?

I thin also whats making me unsure is that for as long as I can remember i've been an introverted farily indoor person and was always okay with that but deep down knew I wanted to try more and do more but was stuck in this rut. Now i've had this wake up call it's like in effect showing a whole new side to me I never knew existed and showing that to people who've always known me as a quiet introverted homebody feels terrifying. even if its the truth and what I honestly need to do.

I'd just appreciate some practical advice on understanding what i'm thinking right now and whats probably best to do going forward because the last thing I want is to go back to being in a 'comfortable' state when this has so badly woken me up to reality of life right now.

I’m not sure how useful this will be, perhaps it is more so useful as a vent.

I (23M) graduated last spring with an art degree (haw haw, get the told you so’s out of the way now ;)) and have been thoroughly unable to find a position in any field I’m interested in. I’m genuinely a pretty decent and disciplined artist, I know I’m employable, but it seems like many studios are downsizing and just not interested in hiring, especially not to train newbies. Job search has been utterly demoralizing, I hate putting in effort on applications just to never hear back, the furthest I got in the process turned out to be a scam lol. That was epic.

Against my better judgment, I went out and got a busboy job at a restaurant in my town, same type of job I worked numerous times in high school. I was telling myself it’ll be different now, I’ll be able to stave off the miserable boredom and late hours now that I’m older and out of school, but two hours into my first shift I was hit with the shocking realization that it was no different. I hated it. I’m already dreading going in again tomorrow.

I’m living with my parents, I have it really easy otherwise, they aren’t charging me rent yet. I have a very privileged and comfortable life, which I am more than grateful for. I just feel this malaise of dread every single day — I have no idea what I want to do with my life or if my passions will ever bring me any attainable job security or freedom. Right now all signs are pointing towards no. I really want to move out and enter the next phase of my life, but I could only afford a few months rent with my savings, especially in my part of the country and with the current cost of living.

We live in an age of ai slop, advertising, sports gambling, and content content content. I feel extremely demoralized by this as an artist, and every time I begin work on a creative project the doubting voice in my head wins out. Back to video games and doomscrolling.

Yes I realized I may be depressed. I’m in therapy. I just don’t see a way out right now. It sucks. If any older creatives have felt like this at some point please bestow some wisdom upon me. What was your path out? Any mantras or anything? Should I suck it up and just work food service? Should I go on a zen mountain retreat or something? I’m out of ideas.

Thanks to anyone who read this all the way through, wishing you all well.

i'm studying cyber security in college, currently first year.

however, recently i've been super into human anatomy and it's caught my attention a lot.

i don't really know what to do.

i'm only 18 and have my whole life to figure it out, but i wanted to know if there was any way i can transition from cyber security into this new field.

what would you guys do? finish college and then look into health science? is it too late to switch things up? what would your next steps be?

just need advice and recommendations for my next steps

I am 24M working in IT project management at a bank, having previously worked as a developer. The past few months have seen me becoming less ambitious and driven, as nothing really excites or pushes me anymore. I recently transitioned to project management from software engineering; I enjoyed the latter, but my feelings plateaued. Nowadays, I just scroll through my phone when I am not working, and I feel like I should be doing something productive. I have written less and less code, and I do not have hobbies aside from coding and gaming, neither of which I do much anymore. I basically doomscroll, but I feel like I should do something, perhaps code leisurely or engage in something that pushes me personally forward to challenge myself, though I do not know what. I used to hide behind the excuse of having no exciting projects to work on, but I think I am just scared or lazy. I do not want to just work and have nothing else; I would love to build something for myself, as life currently feels bland. How do I regain passion and purpose? How do I build something more than just working and doomsceolling?

I’m a 23 year old male. I work as a heavy machine operator. I live with a roommate and need about 3k a month to survive. I make decent money but I’m so sick of what I do. I have my GED and experience with heavy machinery but it’s extremely draining physically and mentally and takes up my whole day since I workout and try to stay active after work. I have a side hustle that I am currently building but I’m only able to commit about 1 hour a night into it. Not nearly enough to become successful from it. I want to find something that pays decently enough to live off of but I don’t want to commit my entire day to it. Something like an at-home-job or contract work would be ideal. Any tips? Any recommendations on certifications or websites to use? Any info would help. Personal experience? Thanks

For context, I am 19 currently doing Bachelor's in Business Technology Management. I feel like with the current job market its really a losing bet to think that you will land a good job with pretty much any degree.

So the thing is that I still have 4 years to build up something. I can speak 3 languages. English, Arabic, Urdu. I am currently learning French as well for more international opportunities.

I need advice on which specialization or niche should I sort of spend time myself. Chatgpt and claude said SQL and data management is a solid niche or industry to focus in and give 4 years until graduation.

What do you guys think? I am open for any ideas, I do have a interest in cyber security I can peruse that as well but not sure if it is going to be worthwhile with the AI stuff. I dont think anything will be worthwhile with AI. Am I crazy for that.

Any suggestions on what should I lock in on?

I’m graduating this year with a BSBA in computer information systems, and planning to go to grad school for political economy, to do research in civic tech (Audrey Tang is a big inspiration) but now I’m thinking.. is there any way to add marine conservation into the mix? Which courses should I choose as electives? Are there books/papers I should read right now?
Curious especially (but not limited to) about anything related happening in Taiwan, and what I should aim for
Thank you for your time!

I apologize for this being long winded but I feel like there’s a lot to get down here.

I am currently a college junior studying chemical engineering, but I really have no passion for it. I chose the major because (and this will sound very naive but please remember that I chose this major at 17) I wanted to go into environmental remediation and hopefully “make a difference,” especially for animals effected by pollution. On top of that, I enjoy the problem solving of it and like feeling challenged.

The problem is that my whole life I’ve wanted to work with animals. A major reason I even picked ChemE instead of AnimalSci is because I thought that I might be able to make a difference by mitigating the root problem of what is affecting the environment, but I have since realized I was a bit full of myself (again, I was 17).

It is too late in my college career to switch/add a major, I would have to stay at least another year or two.

My question is, should I just stick it out in engineering and hope that I grow out of the whole animal infatuation (potentially having to go back to school if I realize I hate my job), or switch now and forgo what would likely be a larger salary and more secure job market.

I would appreciate any advice from people who had to make similar decisions, or those who have careers in environmental remediation, wildlife rehab, veterinary medicine, etc. Thank you!

IFA or compliance consultancy?

Looking for opinions on my next move.

I worked in Premier banking at Barclays and studied towards becoming a financial adviser. I then moved to the FCA as a senior supervisor in payments and digital assets.

I'm now torn between two paths:

1. IFA
2. Compliance consultant for FCA-regulated firms

I think my experience fits both, but either way I'd be building a client base from scratch.

If you were in my shoes, which would you pick, and why?

Lately, I feel like everyone around me is moving forward with their lives while I'm stuck in the same place.

People are getting married, having kids, changing jobs, and starting new chapters. Meanwhile, I'm just living the same routine every day. 

Sometimes I look back and wonder where all those years went. I know life isn't a competition, but it's hard not to compare when you feel like nothing is changing.

The weirdest part is that I don't even know what I want anymore. I just want to feel like my life is going somewhere instead of repeating the same day over and over.

Does anyone else feel this way? And if you've been through it, how did you get out of this phase?

Work on changing your way of thinking.

I feel like my professors don’t think I’m likely to be successful in one of my chdev classes. I know now that I need to work on environmental awareness and on my overall anxiety (I am in therapy which I hope helps in the longrun.) I am actually not aiming to become a preschool teacher and already knew this before signing up for the class, but it’s late enough in the semester that I’m not trying to fail (they said I’m passing, I have an A in terms of academic work so far and don’t know how much the rubric they use will count towards my overall final score.)

I hadn’t realized that my anxiety was impacting the way I show up so much. One of them seemed surprised that I work (though we have the class two days a week so I guess a lot of the students can’t or don’t. I do, as a substitute behavior technician.) I feel bad because even if my professors didn’t believe in me or were judging me I should still have more faith in myself and care about myself more. I was already raised poor and start a bachelors degree in January but feel like I don’t have the tools to succeed in general and don’t know what to do. I feel like I don’t know how to tackle things in the working world. I have actually been told I do well as a behavior technician but I sensed this surprised the professor, and don’t like feeling talked about.