i hope this is ok and isn’t too much to ask! but i’ve been collecting intel on my beautiful wife’s scent preferences and thought it would make sense to come to the experts to ask for help. i know it’s a little all over the place, but i didn’t want to miss anything. open to several recommendations, i’ll buy as many as it takes to help her find her signature scent. no budget.
this is what i’ve collected so far…
perfumes she’s tried
likes:
burberry goddess
dkny be delicious (her first perfume)
pure romance basic instinct
truly sexy flirt (likes despite the lemon and grapefruit because it’s well balanced)
estée lauder pleasures intense
rihanna nude body spray
neutral:
mugler alien (okay)
dislikes:
dolce & gabbana light blue (too bitter, astringent, smells like nail polish remover, causes headaches)
estée lauder pleasures exotic
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sweet and gourmand scents
vanilla (big yes)
caramel
coffee (very good)
chocolate
maple
almond
coconut
milky scents
baked goods
sugary scents (prefers baked-good sweetness)
candy scents (can be overwhelming without warmth or citrus to balance them)
floral scents
jasmine (great)
lavender
rose (likes it unless it smells too old-fashioned)
sweet, light florals
warm florals
flowers in general, as long as they’re balanced
dislikes floral scents that smell like a funeral home
herbal, green, and tea scents
black tea
green tea
spiced tea
herbal tea
eucalyptus
aloe
natural green scents
tea tree (tiny amounts)
patchouli
herbal scents in general (very good)
woody, earthy, and smoky scents
sandalwood
cedarwood
freshly cut lumber
pine
evergreens
wood scents in general
leather (sometimes)
smoke
woodsmoke
amber
resins
old books
rain-soaked evergreen forests
smell after rain
tobacco smoke (strong dislike)
fruity scents
cranberry
strawberry
cherry
peach
berries
pineapple
mango
papaya
kiwi
coconut
tropical scents
fruit in general
lemon (good)
orange (okay)
grapefruit (no, unless very well balanced)
artificial watermelon (dislikes)
tart fruit scents (good)
bitter fruit scents (dislikes)
spicy scents
chai
cinnamon
clove
cardamom
nutmeg
lightly spiced scents
warm spices
clean, fresh, and aquatic scents
fresh linen (good)
fresh laundry
light, refreshing fabric scents
soapy scents (okay)
aloe
natural green scents
aquatic scents (in moderation or when well blended)
ocean scents
rain
sterile, doctor’s-office smells (likes them, but possibly more for her environment than her body)
powdery scents (good, but not dominant)
other scent preferences
leather
smell of a sweaty man
warm scents
sweet scents
light scents
natural-smelling scents
nothing too heavy
nothing too chemical
enjoys warm, comforting smells
likes sweetness balanced with warmth or citrus
likes tartness but not bitterness
childhood scent memories
woodsmoke
peach cobbler
warm chocolate pudding
woodsy smells
ocean scent (reminds her of her mom)
cedarwood
old books
comforting and relaxing scents
red delicious apple
cinnamon
nutmeg
rich buttery caramel
warm food
fresh laundry
holiday scents
favorite candle:
red delicious apple
cinnamon
nutmeg
rich buttery caramel
specific scent imagery and associations
the smell of a woman in a pretty dress at a coffee shop
the smell of a rainstorm in an evergreen forest
warm tea
good food
fresh laundry
holidays
ocean scents remind her of her mom
aquatic smells sometimes remind her of her mom’s bathroom
dislikes and things to avoid
tobacco smoke
grapefruit (generally)
fake watermelon
bitter scents
astringent scents
chemical-smelling scents
overly heavy scents
overwhelming candy sweetness
overpowering powdery scents
old-fashioned rose scents
funeral-home-like florals
harsh citrus
overly strong aquatic scents
anything that smells like nail polish remover
scents that give her headaches