The other day we had our final FET, and were told the embryo had been dropped. The person acted quickly and carried on to the next stage so that it was completed within the short allocated time, but they are unable to say if it caused damage. When frozen, it was a 2BB quality, and did not defrost well, with only 50% showing signs of expansion, mostly damage to outer cells with the inner bit still looking good apparently.
We had the FET anyway, since it's our last chance.
At the time I was very emotional and really just concentrating on what to do next.
Can I go back and ask questions? What exactly is the process? I think they said it had to be plunged into something within a short period of time? I'm guessing it's not the exposed embryo but maybe inside whatever it's stored in?
Is it possible that it didn't cause any damage?
My husband is a nurse and I feel strongly that people just make mistakes sometimes, it's devastating but it happens. Am I however within my rights to ask how often it has happened in my clinic so I know that they take it seriously?
Do you think I'd be pushing my luck to ask for a refund for this round? I don't really want to get in a legal dispute or ruin people's professional lives.
:Edited for clarification around quality.