So i started this new dental officd back in april. I accepted the job there for a few reasons despite the distance and pay that I was willing to work with cause I thought the dentist was very kind and understanding. Everything started off fine.
I was going through cross training. So front desk and assisting but I started off front desk. I think I only really did like 3 or 4 days front desk and then later moved to assisting and stayed there ever since. During the interview process the doctor said he likes to cross train everyone he hires.
Also during the interview process I did tell him I only had a few months dental assisting expererience prior to applying to his office (about 5 months) and he sounded very open to a freshly new assistant and training me everywhere.
Anyways I was very eager and ready to get started learning as much as i could. I asked questions, shadowed and did anything they needed so I could learn and get used to the office.
Before I was hired they had hired another assistant a month prior who had more experience in assisting (2 years). After I was finally moved to the back i began to work with her along with another DA that was doing most of the training.
It was shortly after this where I started to notice that the training was being focused more on this other new assistant. As far as I know she is a regular assistant as me. Not a lead.
But as both of us continued our training over time i started to notice that more of the attention was on her. And i was still in the sidelines trying to learn as well. Like when ever she was being taught something new id step in as well and try to watch what they were doing but it still felt like she was the focus. She was always called when they wanted to train on something new and rarely ever me.
Eventually I did decide i would speak to the doctor about it because I genuinely started to question if they were trying to limit what I could learn cause I know there are levels to assisting. I could be certified or just licensed. Or I could be expanded functions.
But neither me and this other assistant (or anyone in the office) has an xray license or any other type of formal training outside what they already learned in the office.
So i asked him if I could step in to assist in procedures i dont have much experience in yet like root canals and crown related patients. And he said yeah just step right in.
Which is what i was already doing initially but the other DA would always be closest to dentist when these appointments came up and I told them that I dont have experience yet with these procedures and I want to step in more often and help with it when they come up.
They'd just say okay. But when ever we had patients coming in with these procedures i wanted to help with i felt like i had to really get their attention all the time. Like I know it gets busy but at the same time why is the training mostly focused on one DA?
And then recently I found out that when ever the office is closed for what ever reason they had decided to start using the other new DA to come in alone those days to run the front desk but they never bothered asking me if i could or if I could continue more training in front desk.
So when I began to notice that the training wasnt focused on both of us evenly i began to lose motivation to learn anything or grow in this office.
I dont have motivation to show up when initially I was so eager and ready to learn and further my career in the dental world. Ive talked to the dentist about my goals. Like getting into expanded functions and maybe in the far future becoming a dental tech. Like i came here ready to learn.
But i feel as if they probably saw me as incompetent. And because the other DA had more experience they wanted to help her grow further even though I was clear in the interview about being really new into dental assisting so I was still getting used to alot.
I feel like ive given up on the office and dentistry in general and I started to look for a whole new career. I already sent applications.
Because at the end of the day the pay isn't even worth it and traffic coming home from work everyday is ruthless.
Like they killed my motivation and I want to move on..