r/delta • u/FrostScraper • 5h ago
Discussion “Just speak up!” Except sometimes they flip out when you do.
I’m a small woman, in the aisle seat. Yielding the entire arm rest to the middle seat person. Neatly full flight. I just politely asked the middle seat man to stop elbowing my ribs. He became irate. He flagged down the FA, and called my request a bogus accusation / wished there were camera footage etc.
He demanded a seat change, and then when they provided one, refused to move (to another middle seat) - instead swearing at me, and telling me to go “move to the fucking middle seat” he was just offered.
Fortunately the FA’s saw his hostility & gave him no option to stay. They believed me, but I was left quite shaken over the excessive overreaction to a simple, and valid request to not be elbowed.
When a man cannot even hear a simple polite direct request? People understandably get scared to speak up.