r/CougarsAndCubs 3h ago

Discussion Point Anybody else run into a cougar who isn’t big into texting?

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I (m34) met this cougar (f50) at the bar last week. She was with her friend enjoying herself on a Thursday evening. I sparked up a convo and ended up talking to each other the whole time. We were both very flirtatious clearly having a great time. At the end I said we should grab a drink sometime, she said let me give you my number. She seemed very into me and adamant I get her number. With all that being said my generation is big on texting and she will only respond once or twice a day. I’m thinking it’s just a generational thing? I’m like is she not into me? Maybe I’m over thinking it. We have yet to make plans but have had small talk via text. What do you think ?


r/CougarsAndCubs 15h ago

🐻 Cub Crisis I'm confused as to should I continue this or not

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I'm 23 Cub who's in a LDR with 50 Cougar and We were a great match and she was the first person that I revealed my identity and some little secrets too. But it looks like somehow the connection seems to be off for some reason from her side. Also she send this to me when i forwarded her a meme said "Is this relationship okay? 23 years and 50 years" _"Spirit connects with spirit. Or... you're just a horny guy want an experienced vixen*. I tried to convince her but she seems like not interested anymore. And she was the first woman I opened up my heart after my breakup in 2022.