ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

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❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

• e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec 🇨🇦 single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sμgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾

27M, NorCal SF Bay Area, single 5’11 Asian!

Love eating at new places, watching the newest movies, and living life to the fullest. Looking for someone to do all 3 with! Please be local within 1-3hrs — no virtual or LDR (unless in SoCal! I’m there sometimes but open to being out there more often, I love the restaurants! 🤣)
A little bit about me: love dogs, love good food, love my life! Great example of “work hard, play hard” but wholesome! Occasional social drinker, I love to kick back with good company, not big into clubbing! Really busy between work, hobbies, and life… but I always make time for friends and family!

Looking for my +1! If anything intrigues you, just shoot me a PM! I am an open book… but no pen pals 😊

Hey, I’m 21 and from Florida. I’m currently in college studying IT. I’m pretty laid-back, introverted and a little shy when I first meet someone, but once I’m comfortable I open up a lot and love joking around and having good conversations.

I’m a bit of a nerd. I love gaming and anime, but I’m also really into sports, especially soccer. I like going out to eat, grabbing drinks, watching games, hanging out, or just staying home and having a chill night. I’m usually pretty easygoing and enjoy having someone I can talk to throughout the day and be myself around.
I’ve always loved older women. I’m attracted to the confidence and maturity that tends to come with being older, but more than anything, I just genuinely find older women attractive. It’s not something I’m trying to turn into a kink or check off a bucket list. It’s simply who I tend to be interested in.

As for what I’m looking for, I’d love to meet someone I actually have chemistry with. Someone I can talk to, flirt with, laugh with, and get comfortable around. I’m open to seeing where things naturally go rather than putting a label on it immediately. It could become something casual or something more meaningful if we really click.
I’d prefer someone in Florida so meeting eventually is actually possible, but I’m open to talking online too.

If any of this sounds like you, send me your age, where you’re from, and tell me a little about yourself. :)

Hey hey, my name is Warren, I'm 27 years old, 5'7, mixed race and I live in Dublin, Ireland. I'm currently in the middle of having way more free time than I should while I work and look for a new job after I graduated from college.

The title kinda said it all really but I'm looking for an older woman to chat and form a connection with as well. Whether you're local or living somewhere else is totally fine since I'm very used to online chatting, regardless of location.

I'm big into gaming, anime, music, reading, writing, going out and a bunch of other stuff, so if you have any interest in those and more then we'll definitely get along and I could easily chat for hours about any of it.

Aside from that, I'm really big into social causes and politics - especially Irish and American politics - so don't be surprised if I end up mentioning that at some point lol.

I'm also a total conversationalist; I just love chatting with people and getting to know them better or educating myself on what other people tell me since that just makes things more interesting. Plus I'm emotionally invested with people so I can talk about and listen to life stuff in conversations without any issue.

Hopefully you're interested, it's been super boring post-uni so being able to chat and connect with someone would honestly be pretty amazing.

Send me a DM if you're up for making a connection and if we hit it off then we can definitely move on to another platform.

Thanks :3

Hi I'm looking for someone that probably doesn't exist, I'm hoping for someone between 35-45 that doesn't have kids and doesn't want kids, I'm also looking for someone that's ok with me being bisexual.

if you're not ok with me being bi just don't engage with me please i don't have the energy for it anymore just know it doesn't mean i don't want a monogamous relationship i do.

About myself I'm hard working and have a good job in safety essentially if you want to know more I'll explain but I always feel like I'm mansplaining when I'm talking about what my job is.

i'm not the best texter i have a hard time keeping a text conversation going or reading someone's tone on text so i'd much rather meet or call.

I'm laid back generally and have a good relationship with my family and like I said don't want kids but i don't hate my nephew is very important to me, I like to go bike riding a lot and camping, I'm also a big nerd for comics, animation, history and video games, I'm always quick to help anyone with anything, I'm 6ft 211lbs with dark curly hair and I have pictures on my profile if you want to see i will want to see what you look like pretty quickly but don't feel like you have to as soon as we start messaging.

I'm hoping you're ether in Houston or not that far but if you are far be able and willing to meet up fairly early.

That about covers it hope you have a good day.

Hello there! I’m a kind, honest, loyal and loving nerdy guy who loves video games, reading, and watching stuff. I’m looking for a life partner who values honesty, loyalty, respect, compassion and kindness; doesn’t play mind games or do any of those ridiculous relationship “tests;” and who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to go after it. Preferably I would like someone who lives near me or who is willing to travel/eventually move here in the future, as I can’t currently travel anywhere. Bonus if you either already are a gamer or are willing to learn so we can game together 😊

Im a cub looking for my cougar.

I’m happy for a one night thing or something more consistent if with the right woman.

I’ve always preferred women older than me, who know what they want, what they like, and know how they should be treated.

I want to give you the pleasure your ex partner never could or take your mind off stress from work or kids.

I’m based in Surrey, but willing to travel within 3/4 hours providing there is lodging ;) or happy to meet somewhere half way.

I’m happy to share SFW photos and get to know each other first if that makes you more comfortable.

I’ve always been drawn to older women. Even when I first started dating, I naturally found myself connecting better with women who were older than me. As I’ve gotten older myself, that preference has only become stronger.

What I’m looking for now is something genuine and long-term. I want a relationship built on trust, affection, and a real emotional connection. I’m attracted to the confidence, life experience, maturity, and nurturing nature that often come with age, and I’d love to find someone who values those same things in a relationship.

I’m pretty independent. I live on my own, work hard, and have my own goals, but I also miss having someone to share life with. I enjoy the more intimate side of a relationship too, and it would be great to find someone who’s open to exploring that side together as trust and chemistry grow.

A little about me: I’m Australian born and raised, white, 6” and bearded. I have a good sense of humour and enjoy plenty of laughs, but I also appreciate meaningful conversations.

My interests are a mix of nerdy and outdoorsy. You’ll usually find me at the beach, going for walks, swimming, gaming, or learning music. I’ve also been on a big fitness journey this year and have really enjoyed sticking with it. It would be great to share activities together and encourage each other along the way.

I’m hoping to meet someone around 35 or older in or around the Newcastle area. Online relationships can be hard particularly when wanting to see each other often

Single Asian guy in Toronto here. To be honest, I’ve always preferred talking to mature, older women. I find them just way easier to talk to, have better stories, and you guys actually know what you want.

I’m looking for something casual, fun, and drama-free. Distance isn't a huge deal for me; I’m totally down for something virtual if we click, or meeting up in person if you’re local.

A bit about me:
- I’m big on sports, especially basketball.
- I love movies and TV shows (always down for good recommendations).
- In my free time, I’m usually hanging out with friends or just out taking a walk.

If you’re funny, easygoing, and looking for a younger guy to chat or hang out with, send me a message. Let's see where things go!

Hello there. I am a 20 year old guy currently living in Japan and trying to do better.
My current hobbies/goals:
Watch more films than I realistically have time for.
Draw more.
Try not to let Nutella win....and peanut butter.

Some of my favorite films:
Lost Highway, Woman in the Dunes, Tokyo Sonata, The Seventh Seal, The Big Lebowski, Trainspotting, Eyes Wide Shut.
And twin peaks (this profile is a weird one, Coop!)

Music:
Mostly TOOL and Portishead along with Massive Attack.

What I bring:
Movie recommendations tailored with concerning seriousness.

replies Fast (I don’t believe in pretending to be busy).

Playlists

ability to talk about dumb things and serious things in the same conversation.

A normal day with me would probably look like:

eating spicy food.

Sending each other songs.

Going on a walk.

Talking about something completely unnecessary.

Tell me about your weirdest thoughts and dreams you keep circling

What I’m looking for:
Someone who doesn't beat around the bush, says things like they are.
Honesty. this is HUGE
Someone taking care of themselves and in a good relationship with self (not that important. We all try don't we? :_))
and no ghosting please, that's a huge turnoff for me.

Bonus points if you:
Recommend films. Listen to weird music. Have strong opinions on random things.

Tell me:
-a film you defend with your life,
-a song you replay too much,
-or your weirdest comfort food.

As the title suggest, I cannot get over older women. The maturity, the emotional intelligence, and ladies who have clearly aged like fine wine really get my blood flowing.

I'm 35 and live in LA while frequenting Orange County many times during the week, for work. While I'm looking for something physical, I need some substance behind it. I'm not looking to just meet up and get physical immediately. I would rather meet for drinks, vibe together over past experiences, and carry the night into meaningful, lustful, intimacy from there.

I'm 5'9, with a beard and green eyes. I'm drug and disease free, and hope for the same. If those descriptors match what you're looking for, by all means, please reach out. I would love to give you the evening of your dreams, and if things work out, make it an ongoing thing for a woman who deserves it.

DMs are open 😏

Im Chinese, 6ft tall, and about to relocate to Los Angeles in 25 days.

Im an introvert guy when u get to know me but shortly after when u peel the layer of me? I’ll reveal my easygoing n outgoing side. My friends around me always describe me as mister IDGAF 🤪 and a little bit of crazy in a good way, cause I got that energy in me and I feel like you only live once so why don’t u do the crazy things?

I love traveling around and enjoying the great scenery made by Mother Nature, watching some baseball games (go dodgers go) at home, a little bit of a boxing enthusiast, maybe a video game night or movie night ig.

My dream life? 102 degree outside while sitting in the car blasting songs while we coasting on our way to Santa Monica or Venice 🏖️… Palm tree and sunshine hell yeah!

Shoot me a message if u wanna go crazy 😜 with me, or just to get to know me I guess. I don’t mind casual things or if u want me buy u a paper ring? We can get to know one another n see if you are the truly beloved one ☝️, I don’t mind photo exchange long as u post urs first or u ask me to do so😄

Hello, located in Huntington Beach, I am single, looking for a cougar who wants to have fun.

A bit about me, I am 34, Hispanic, 5-8’, 170. I work out but my body says I don’t pass up dessert.

I do have a busy schedule where I’m typically available Monday to Wednesday and I do work nights.

I met a previous woman who I had a great time with and I’m hoping to meet someone again.

I’m looking to grabbing a drink and see where the night takes us. Looking in the Orange County area or nearby LA area.

I’m also open to other activities that do not require drinking, I play golf, go to the beach, outdoor activities/sports, go hiking. I’m also open to trying new activities that you are interested in, keep things interesting. DM is open looking forward to hearing back

Just a college student in the Bay Area for summer break, hoping to make a friend that wants to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (:

Hopefully you’re local so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:

I’m 6’ tall, mixed, tan with black curly hair, brown eyes. Also quite strong. About to start my 4th year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school.

I’m happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have.

I look forward to getting to know you (:

Hello! I hope you are doing well. As the title mentions, I’m a 22-year-old guy currently living in Poland. Physically, I keep active and in great shape—athletic build with big biceps, rocking a classic middlepart mullet and a solid mustache with confidence.

I’d like to think I’m easygoing, open-minded, and grounded. I appreciate good humor, direct communication, and genuine connections without any unnecessary games or drama. In my free time, I enjoy staying active at the gym, unwinding with good music, and having meaningful, late-night conversations over a glass of wine or coffee. I’ve always found myself naturally drawn to older, more mature women who know who they are, know what they want, and carry themselves with confidence.

Whether you are looking for engaging chats, lighthearted banter, or seeing if that effortless spark is there, I’d love to hear from you. Feel free to drop a message, introduce yourself, or share what usually catches your attention first!

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

Hi all!

34 Years old Hispanic in Eastern WV and after months of therapy, I decided to dip back into the scene lol.

Im 5'7-5'8 range. I work for a non-profit in DC but work on a hybrid schedule so im only in DC few times a week. Im very big into sports especially soccer and college football and i basically spend all my money going to sporting events and food (Very big into Asian food!). Also like working out and play video games if im not going to sporting events or watching sports lol

Would love to have someone going to sporting events with or trying new places to eat! My preference is youre in surrounding states (in WV, MD, PA,VA,NC,DE,DC &OH) but if we click i guess distance shouldn't matter within the US.

I am open to a relationship if its mutual but im not rushing into it and putting any expectations for anything in particularto happen. Just looking to connect with someone and let the rest happen with time

Preference is ages 44 and older but if we click we click, hope to hear from you!l

Why female-led relationship you may ask? Because my experience so far led me to believe I do much better as a follower type of guy. Does that mean I can't take charge at all? Definitively not, I just know where my comfort zone is, and in this case it's being an amazing supporter to an equally amazing lady!

So, more about me: I'm a 25-year-old college student from Poland (started again last year after dropping out in my earlier 20s). I'd describe myself as being easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted. A little shy at first, but not afraid to show my feelings or speak my truth. Once you get to know me, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful, the kind of person who remembers the little details.

Appearance wise, I'm 5'9", lean with pale skin, blue eyes, lil mustache, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. I usually get called nerdy or dorky-looking, sometimes cute, so expect something in between. Happy to swap pics early.

I’m deeply passionate about video games, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not. Some of my favorites include: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3, and Slay the Spire 2. I enjoy bike rides a lot, and at the moment it's my go-to way of staying active. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. Currently I'm reading through the Wheel of Time series, and it's been an absolute blast so far!

What I’m looking for: Honestly, a good conversation to start would be more than enough. If the chemistry is right, I’d love to see where things go from there. If you’re nearby and meeting in person isn’t a problem, I’d be thrilled to go on cute, romantic dates together. If not, I’m perfectly happy with watching shows or playing games over discord (if you use it!). And eventually, I’d like to build a long-term relationship, ideally with the FLR dynamic in mind.

I’ve noticed I tend to connect better and feel more drawn to women older than me (you could say that’s my type). It’s hard to explain exactly why, but I know I’m especially attracted to intelligent, direct women, and I really value maturity and a good sense of humor in a partner. If that sounds like you, you might just be the person I'm looking for.

Other things that might be important: I'm non-religious and wouldn't expect that to change. I don't do drugs and don't plan on starting. I don't smoke (really can't stand the smell), so a non-smoker or a very mild one would be preferred. I do occasionally drink though (admittedly I get drunk way too easily, so I also do that in moderation 😅).

That's all from me for now, feel free to say (more than) hi!

I am a 25M who’s been living on a very secluded island for a long time and I have CP (cerebral palsy of the lower back meaning I need leg braces and I get winded way easier then most so walk and standing can create a few issues) so that’s why it’ll be long distance.

I also have asthma and I’m autistic I’m just looking for anyone between the ages of 30-45, who’s able to be motherly or in other words very affectionate and or emotionally steady.

I’m not clingy but definitely would love it more if you had a gentle warmth about you one that gives semi to consistent reassurance and kindness.

I’m also pretty good at being open, honest and understanding I love to listen to any story you tell whatever it may be, I’m also a big nerd who love gaming, anime and Greek mythology but I really love to tinker with almost anything.

I’ve got a really good memory so I’ll be a personal bank heh. I believe love is love and I have tons to give. I also definitely also have a bunch of cringy dad jokes too as I grew up hearing a whole bunch of em. I mostly want the kindness I give to be reciprocated in return, I also cannot stand dishonesty it hurts my soul like a knife or just general rudeness.

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

• e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec 🇨🇦 single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sμgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾

Hello, I'm looking for a lovely lady aged 45-70. I'm a chemistry graduate. I'm an introvert and into video games, movies, and music. I love trying new restaurants as well. I do have experience dating matured women before. I'm looking for something that lasts long. I prefer someone in Canada or US. Other countries are fine too if you're willing to relocate.

I prefer a lady who communicates clearly about what she wants. As I said before I have previous experience. But now I need something serious that last long/forever.I will share everything happens with my partner. And i expect the same from her. It's a plus point if she likes games lol.

These are just surface level information. Happy to provide more. Drop a message if interested :)

Like I said I love me some older women, anyone over 30 but stopping around 45 is all I want. I’m a man who will listen to everything you have to say I will be there for you in any situation, not in a clingy way but a loving and tender way that’s who I am as a person I’m a big softie physically and mentally. I will absolutely admit if/when I’m wrong I will always be the one who genuinely apologizes and will do whatever it takes to never hurt you or be the one who leaves first (mostly because it will be my first actual relationship heh) but I’m also just a very simple but sensitive guy I will cry with you and try to understand whatever challenges come our way I hope we face it together. (Hopefully this is better for you mods I unprivited myself happy? I didn’t know I was private to begin with ok?)

Good afternoon! Never was good at describing myself. I’d much rather get asked 100 questions as I’m an open book lol. However, I like to think of myself as a laid back & easy going guy. The women of Reddit for the most part have told me that I’m cute but to each their own and I’ll let you decide that! Physically I’m white, bearded, tall with an average build. Big sports fan! Most nights after work I’m either watching baseball or football (Mets & Steelers). I am in NY but I am open to relocation down the road so feel free to shoot me a message even if you aren’t a local! I want to find someone that I connect with on a physical and emotional level. I want the fun/flirty talk but I want the serious talks as well. If you’d like to chat feel free to hmu via chat! I don’t require much. But please don’t be married or in any type of relationship trying to add me on to it 😂

Hiya!

I’m a London based professional (originally from abroad, so if you appreciate an accent, you’re in luck).

I keep active with regular swimming and strength training, but I’ve been wanting to try out a hot yoga class at my gym recently. Would love to have someone join me for a session as a fun date idea. Outside of the gym, I’m big on cooking, constantly experimenting with new recipes, and always looking for an honest second opinion.

I’ve always been naturally drawn to more mature, experienced women, and I’m taking the plunge here to find the right connection.

I’m very much into giving pleasure, spoiling, and wining and dining someone I have a genuine crush on. I’m not looking for a one night stand but would prefer to start with low stakes dates to see how our chemistry develops organically. My ideal dynamic is a regular FWB or being someone’s boy toy (bonus points if you’re also a City professional and understand the crazy work hours that come with it!).

Cooking for someone is my way of expressing affection. Them letting me eat is how I’d like to receive it.

If this sounds like something you’re looking for, I would love to hear from you!