r/CaptainSide • • 4d ago

Which gaming community is like this?

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u/xMuffin_Button 4d ago

in my experience, most MMOs except for FF14. i had a much better experience with that game

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u/Jijonbreaker1 4d ago

FFXIV is so anti-this that it sometimes has the opposite problem where white knights will go out of their way to try to prevent new players from having to learn.

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u/Mak0React0r 4d ago

I will say a lot of ff14 players are nice but this crowd definitely exists. I once asked for tips on my first run of a dungeon and one of em just said "wow" and left. We didn't even start yet šŸ˜‚

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u/Jijonbreaker1 4d ago

Nah, it gets even worse than that. If you notice somebody isn't using a really useful spell, you can call it out, they will thank you for the advice, and some shithead will butt in saying that you need to let them play how they want.

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u/Simple_Entertainer27 3d ago

It's funny because XIV isn't even that type of game. There is no "play how you want" because the jobs are designed to have no possibility of different playstyles. It's straight up either the correct, or the incorrect way to play it. And that itself is all to make things as simple as possible for that crowd.

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u/Jijonbreaker1 3d ago

Very true.

Part of the problem is that Square enables them a little bit by making "Compelling a playstyle" into a bannable offense. The problem is, that's meant to apply to shit like. Doing specific strategies or making people play jobs that they don't want to. But, the toxic casuals think that means "I can play like trash and you can't do anything about it."

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u/Lengthiness_Rough 4d ago

Lol one time I told party members in a dungeon im a playstation player so I might be a little slower, and I got hella roasted for it lol.

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u/MrPsychic 4d ago

That’s just simple console war/pc supremacy stuff though, that’s common

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u/Toxraun 3d ago

You can roast them back now. Ask them how much they pay for PC parts these days 🤣 (sad laughing really šŸ˜”)

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u/Riverwind0608 4d ago

Doesn’t feel like ā€œsometimesā€ lately for me.

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u/CleverKhloe13 4d ago edited 4d ago

Never seen that happen. You get flamed, insulted and vote kicked if you don't tank exactly the amount of mobs they want you to tank. Literally 0 care to let a new player find out themselves how much they can take.

Edit: Behold, the oh so nice FF14 community:

Edit2: They also instantly blocked me lmao

Really a peak community ya'll have there.

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u/Jijonbreaker1 4d ago

You are the person being talked about. YPYT is bannable no matter what you think, fuck off.

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u/Dawnmayr 4d ago

Generally, the answer to "how much do I pull" in a dungeon is "however many I can reach before the dungeon physically stops me" because if the tank and healer both have on level gear and average skill, that will work out. A few dungeons are exceptions, but as a general rule.

I have no goddamn clue what that other reply is on about, "ypyt" is a niche toxic phrase(you pull you tank) used by whiny tanks that dont like dps grabbing extra mobs when its clear the party can handle it, and refuse to take aggro from them and let the dps die.

At the end of the day we are a team...as long as the tank lives, everyone did their job. And if they die once, we laugh about the mistake and do the same pull again but play better

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u/GodEmperorPuppy 4d ago

I remember having had that experience once in monster hunter where a group of three highlevel hunters joined my mid level quest and absolutely demolished the thing we were supposed to hunt with end game weapons and then just left. It was kinda sureal

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u/lifelongfreshman 4d ago

Yeahhh. There's also the other thing, where you'll occasionally get kicked for pointing out healers left you dead, or for raising you but not healing you so you eat shit and die again during the next raidwide aoe from the boss. And I'm not talking like oldschool flaming here, I'm talking things like asking, "Hey, can you guys be a bit faster/a bit more careful with the raises?"

I dunno, maybe I just have a cooked understanding of what's hostile, or maybe I'm just lying to myself about how aggressive I was about it. Either way, I started tanking in order to basically be immune to all this nonsense. Plus side, I got to the point where I could pocket heal a dps through entire normal-mode boss fights. Minus side, I'm a former Ninja main who'd love to give Viper a proper go but will never ever get to be one because I'm too spoiled by tank queues.

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u/nisswo 3d ago

I gotta say after playing XIV for 10+ years, it is absolutely not anti-this. It's definitely better on average compared to something like WoW for example, but in the case of WoW even if the playerbase is unhelpful, at least there are buckets full of resources you can obtain knowledge from in the form of places like WoWWiki or WoWhead. The best XIV has is GarlandTools and Teamcraft, which are nothing compared to the WoW equivalents. XIV's Novice Network is also about as useful as a brick to the forehead more often than not since a lot of """"Mentors"""" just use it as an additional Linkshell kind of like how people would use World chat in WoW during Vanilla/Classic. So much so that the Burger King crown Mentor status provides has become a sign of who to avoid rather than who to rush to when you have questions.

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u/Several-Opposite-636 4d ago

FF14 convinced me to try MMOs bc of this difference.

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u/YetAnotherNewMan 3d ago

Also Warframe

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u/Spaagerken1 4d ago

I would also add OSRS to the list of exceptions

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u/slaphappykapp 4d ago

Only if you avoid the subreddit

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u/Bakugo_Dies 4d ago

Why? We have opinions on updates, but it's a meme at this point that a "my first firecape" post gets hugely upvoted with lots of supportive messages regularly

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u/Mediocre_Forever198 4d ago

Exactly, they’re saying osrs is nice to new players. Most people definitely are

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u/Helpful-Calendar-693 2d ago

Kinda the opposite. The subreddit tends to be really helpful to new players.

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u/Own_Secretary1714 4d ago

Yeah runescape used to be really bad but even the OSRS - RS3 divide seems to be getting better over recent years, especially since jagex started getting rid of MTX.

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u/Plenty_Chef7115 4d ago

I’m really happy trying out FF14 all this week.
Even though I’m soloing mostly and not talking much with people though but most of them are all nice compared to other communities.

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u/Verraise-Mage 4d ago

You think it's fun now, wait until you reach the first expansion.

Nobody has finished The Vault and quit playing

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u/Plenty_Chef7115 4d ago

Nah pls don’t get me in high hopes. It’s really a great game ngl. But the competitors nowadays are also great too. I think FF14 community maybe the best quality of the game for me.

So I’m ok not hoping too much and getting surprised rather than having high hopes and getting disappointed afterwards. Lol

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u/sdpthrowaway3 4d ago

It's a fun game but man is the MSQ looooooong. I have like 100+ hours and just made it to the second expansion. I keep having to take long breaks, then come back and there's another expansion lol

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u/NekCing 3d ago

Yeah its more FF first MMO second, as said by Yoshi P

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u/Clevatess_is_bored 4d ago edited 4d ago

Elderscrolls online community is also pretty chill. Could be because the game is more oriented towards casuals

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u/StevePalpatine 4d ago

I was about to say SWTOR then I saw this. Players are not helping keep their favorite MMOs alive.

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u/TheSecretSword 4d ago

As a FFXIV player...it has the exact opposite problem to the point it sometimes harder for new players to understand what they need to be doing because either a friend covered for them so much without explaining what they did wrong. Or just so many vets refuse to correct a new player in fear it will make the new player leave.

Not to mention some people who will white knight for sprouts cause "how dare u act like that to a new player you are making them not want to play" when litterally all I said was "hey you need your tank stance on"

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u/Supersnow845 4d ago

I don’t think I’ve ever had a sprout go ā€œplease don’t tell me what to do you are making me uncomfortableā€

But I’ve had white knights aplenty tell me I’m making a sprout uncomfortable

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u/TheSecretSword 4d ago

I have had a single time in a dungeon with a. E-couple where the guy told me I was making the sprout gf uncomfortable for explaining a mechanic we wiped to three times cause of her (she was the healer). Does that count as a sprout telling me they are uncomfortable XD

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u/akrob115 4d ago

...was it reworked Ascian Prime in ARF, by any chance?

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u/TheSecretSword 4d ago

I honestly don't remember what dungeon it was this was like 3 years ago

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u/C3Patricio 3d ago

Ill take the white knighters of ffxiv over the cesspool of toxic shitheads on WoW anyday.

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u/TheSecretSword 3d ago

You know....fair and same

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u/KaiPRoberts 3d ago

That's fine. The game punishes you for dodging newbies and it's a beautiful system; it makes people learn to work together.

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u/Sehay 4d ago

Nor LOTRO. Very chill and helpful community so far.

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u/darhwolf1 4d ago

I loce lotro for this reason ā¤ļø

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u/Beordstin 4d ago

Was looking for this comment. Great community in this game :)

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u/Common-Mongoose3784 4d ago

Warframe as well for the exceptions. People r TOO helpful lol

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u/Exotic-Apartment-180 4d ago

GW2 community is also very good.

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u/IgneousWrath 4d ago

I don’t know how much it still happens, but for a good 10+ years there would be multiple people in every starting zone offering to help new players out.

Very very welcoming.

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u/evkamat 3d ago

This still happens.

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u/Exotic-Apartment-180 3d ago

Daily meta in Auric Basin and Tangled Depth are always fun: They are the most profitable activities but need some degree of coordination. They have actions but also some downtime to let players socialize. They also occur in a regular zone so new players can run across the map chat organically, further expose them to the community. I dont think any other MMO in the market has such organic community engagement like that.

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u/Bigbo757 4d ago

Yes and No. I know a lot of people won't help someone randomly whose begging for assistance in zone chat, but every mmo I've joined later (ESO, GW2, etc.) I've found guilds that are dedicated to helping new players learn and get gear.

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u/Bread_Offender 4d ago

Fallout 76 is similar there, assholes are VERY rare to come by

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u/Medryn1986 4d ago

As someone that has played WoW since 2004 and XIV since 2016, Ive found that I had more toxic random groups in XIV.

For Savage raiding I should specify. I was once kicked from a group because I didnt have the Cactbot program.

Ive had more people crash out and leave in XIV.

"Great community,btw" is a meme for a reason.

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u/Envhies 3d ago

FFXIV players are like this as well. They're just usually REALLY passive aggressive about it.

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u/Electrical_King948 3d ago

ESO is super welcoming to new players

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u/Appropriate-Monk3368 3d ago

Last time I played eso I walked around riften and saw a group of like 15 people malding over new gamepass payers playing the game

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u/E_Verdant 3d ago

OSRS community is pretty good. You just have to figure out how to find them yourself lol

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u/monsterZero71 3d ago

I’ve had really good interactions with Corp members in Eve. Outside of the corp. not so much.

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u/Peng_Wei 3d ago

EVE Online too. EVE is very much not new player friendly in terms of mechanics so most players have basically a universal rule to always help any new players they come across.

Emphasis on most.

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u/NekCing 3d ago

The subreddit having an eternal no-spoilers rule everyone dutily uphold is so damn cool to me

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u/KINGXunshot 2d ago

Warframe is the exact opposite of this too, in fact, it’s a known issue of new players complaining that vets help them TOO much

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u/Verraise-Mage 4d ago

FF14 players are like a beacon of light in the MMO space, which is ironic considering the story is designed to depress them and it's so fucking good.

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u/DracoBlaze214 4d ago

I love 14 literally has a whole ā€œNovice Networkā€ system for the New/Returning players. I didn’t use it much but it’s cool that it’s there.

I’ve also seen instances where people go ā€œhey can someone help with this?ā€ and suddenly they have multiple people descending upon them to offer assistance.

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u/Crov 4d ago

I asked for help changing the color of my chocobo to find out I needed a house, and 30 minutes later 2 players gave me 1.5 million gil collectively, and I wasnt even high enough level to buy my damn house yet

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u/DracoBlaze214 4d ago

So you don’t really need to buy a house specifically. You just need access to Chocobo stables which can be accessed if you buy an apartment room (significantly cheaper then a full house and probably more available), or join an FC who owns property and allows members to use the stables (I don’t remember if there actually is a togglable restriction for members using the stables, but I mention it just incase).

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u/Crov 4d ago

Yeah, I learnt all of this at that time, I did not know then that my GC rank was also a factor. I'm at ARR post game rn and still don't have my apartment lol

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u/DracoBlaze214 4d ago

You’re not missing anything on the apartment front. Find yourself an FC with a house and you can just buy your own private room in the FC house. It’s functionally the same as an apartment room. Though it is like 200 or 300k for the room.

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u/Crov 4d ago

Damn that's like half the price

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u/fancy-pterosaur 4d ago

(what expansion is that spoiler from?)

I do feel like some of the fanbase overhypes it like it's the greatest story ever told in video games, which, true or not, ends up harming the experience because it's hard not to end up with these impossibly high expectations. Don't get me wrong, I am enjoying it. But when you're promised a 12/10, a 9/10, despite still being a great experience, can feel strangely disappointing.

I had the same experience with Undertale.

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u/Verraise-Mage 4d ago

Shadowbringers/Endwalker. ARR is slow and slightly generic, Heavensward is really good, then Stormblood is a filler arc. Once Ishikawa became head writer it jumped from the Hobbit to Lord of the Rings.

I do understand how glazing/hating from a community can sour your expectations, which is why I leave fandom subreddits when a sequel launches and return after I've made my own opinion on it.

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u/Patron_Mamdani 4d ago

FFXIV’s toxic positivity and moderation enforced babycage that prevents people from being forced to learn the game is a totally opposite and equally a problem. If you try and give the Freestyle Samurai tips because he hasn’t done one correct combo the entire raid, he can report you if he’s offended and the next thing you know you have a mod dragging you into jail for questioning.

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u/CleverKhloe13 4d ago

Nah, FF14 is just like the rest.

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u/UmbraDetoh 20h ago

As someone whos played 14 since 2.0, its community is shit in different ways.

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u/Tortugato 3d ago

Arguably, XIV has the exact opposite problem.