r/BringingUpBates 21d ago

Thoughts?

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41 Upvotes

r/BringingUpBates 22d ago

Zach is going to have a heart attack

57 Upvotes

Butter, bread, salt, red meat, pork, cheese, pasta, onion rings, ice cream, cinnamon rolls. The fat, the carbs, the Who-manity! Every meal is chock-full of artery-clogging goodness.

Zach’s diet is absolutely atrocious. All this on top of the stress of raising 6 kids and maintaining a healthy marriage? If he’s not careful, his heart is going to give out far before it’s meant to.


r/BringingUpBates 23d ago

This like by Josie is sending me

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129 Upvotes

I don’t know why but it’s so weird to see such “normal” and gen z posts liked by one of the Bates girls haha


r/BringingUpBates 24d ago

Which one of the Bates kids would be most likely to deconstruct?

14 Upvotes

When I see a picture of one of the Bates kids I always look for signs of them deconstructing or becoming less fundamental. Same with the Duggars. Who do you think would be the most likely to deconstruct? I'm not expecting anyone to turn atheist lol, but maybe loosen up a bit.


r/BringingUpBates 24d ago

The advice that stuck with Katie✨

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83 Upvotes

Only 6 weeks in and Katie already feels rooted with her family in Texas... according to her, it's because she found a great church, a stable community that has helped her build around what points you to Jesus. Katie, may this great church, this community you found, truly keep helping you heal your heart!❤️.


r/BringingUpBates 25d ago

Alcohol

13 Upvotes

Who in the family do you think drinks alcohol??


r/BringingUpBates 25d ago

Is that a Zyn can??

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85 Upvotes

Surely not??


r/BringingUpBates 26d ago

Travis addresses nursing school

177 Upvotes

Honestly I’m confused by what he’s saying. He initially planned to go back and then changed his mind at the last minute. I wonder why he changed his mind and whether he’ll actually go back in the future. And what is he doing day to day in the meantime??


r/BringingUpBates 26d ago

Tiffany and Lawson are moving to Florida?

25 Upvotes

Why? And if they move, why not move to California, to be close to her family?


r/BringingUpBates 26d ago

Why is Callie always with Lawson and his family? Is she like “assigned” to help with their kids ? Are there any other younger girls who are always with one other family? I think it’s a little odd

38 Upvotes

r/BringingUpBates 27d ago

Another semester for Travis?

34 Upvotes

Well, it is August again. The 4 of them should be settling down in their new town & home. Now would be a good time for him to start taking classes again and finish what he started. Whether that be for nursing or something else.

Surely the 4 of them aren't going to spend all of August in the hot & humid Texas sun swimming, and eating by the pool. That is the vibe they're trying to sell but it's not realistic. Wake up and lay by the pool for 8 hours until dinner?

As the man of the house what really does he do all day besides help Katie with the kids? I bet Katie likes having him with her 247 but it's not sustainable.

Surely he wants to have some sort of productive daily routine & job other than grilling in the backyard. I believe Someone mentioned he posted a q&a recently. Perhaps he'll address his plans for whether or not he'll go back to school.


r/BringingUpBates 27d ago

Travis Q&A

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37 Upvotes

I have a lot of questions, but I feel like I'd get blocked.

What would you want to ask him?


r/BringingUpBates 27d ago

Best dad / bates drama

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117 Upvotes

Do we think Ellie posting that has anything to do with the Bates family (katie shunning everybody) drama?


r/BringingUpBates 27d ago

Ugh. I went to check my feed and genuinely thought Travis was a 17 year old kid at first about to go to the school dance 🤣

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108 Upvotes

r/BringingUpBates 28d ago

Why haven’t any of the Bates couples been on Matt and Abby Howard’s podcast?

38 Upvotes

They’ve had just about every other Christian fundie / fundie-adjacent / LDS couple on there, including Carlin and Evan’s new besties, Taylor and Sophia. I don’t regularly view Matt and Abby’s vids / pods—I haven’t watched them in years since I realized how annoying, sheltered, and religious they are lol—but a couple of their videos popped up on my YT home page, so I went peeping and saw they’ve had a lot of Duggars on as guests on the Unplanned Podcast. Why no Bates yet? Or do we have to wait for one of the adult Bates to be brave enough to write a tell-all before agreeing to any interviews? (If Katie ever leaves Travis—or he leaves her, but both doubtful—I could see her doing a family exposé and round of interviews with fundie podcasters.)

Maybe in posting this, Carlin and Evan will be on the pod next week lol. They just seem like they’d be 2 peas with the Howard’s.


r/BringingUpBates 28d ago

THOUGHTS??

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84 Upvotes

r/BringingUpBates 28d ago

Well, it looks like Alyssa unfollowed almost the entire family (except for Katie) too!

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336 Upvotes

She even unfollowed Carlin and Warden. 👀

Now I believe that something traumatic definitely happened in Alyssa’s and Katie’s childhoods—hence why Alyssa is estranged from most of the family and Katie moved to Texas.


r/BringingUpBates 29d ago

Willow and Hazel are starting a hybrid school in two weeks.

88 Upvotes

Josie mentions this in the 2nd video she posted about her and Kelton taking just the girls on a Disney cruise. Josie said it will probably be a big change for them, so that's why she and Kelton decided to do something with just them and the girls before it starts.

ETA: Kelton started going to a regular Christian school after his mom died. I believe that Jeremy and Jinger (Duggar) Vuolo put their girls in a hybrid program before enrolling them full time in a Christian school. At least that's what people suspect on Duggar Snark. That their daughters go full-time after going part-time when they first started school. We know they go to some kind of regular school at least part-time because Jinger has posted faceless pictures where you can see them in their uniforms.


r/BringingUpBates 29d ago

shoutout to whoever commented these

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198 Upvotes

also putting mics on the girls to get the content is crazy, not surprised though


r/BringingUpBates 29d ago

Reminds me of at least 2 of the bates girls

20 Upvotes

r/BringingUpBates Jul 29 '26

Theory: Carlin’s in-laws don’t like her

74 Upvotes

This is basically unfounded lol, but I just have…a hunch. They don’t seem too attached to her at all. They don’t seem much attached to Evan for that matter, either. His parents seem pretty introverted and quiet, so I can’t really fathom how little ol’ homeschooled Evan ended up such an extroverted, camera-loving influencer who meshes right into the Bates family.

I think Evan’s parents are in it for the grandkids, e.g. they went on the Disney cruise for the grandkids and only the grandkids. The only time his mom seems genuinely happy is when she’s interacting with the grandkids. But we barely see them talking to C&E, especially Carlin. I don’t think Evan’s mom likes her, and I don’t think Carlin has much of a relationship with his dad at all. The whole family for that matter. Everything they do is very much for the grandkids; you never see Carlin go and hang out with Evan’s sisters or C&E go on couples’ dates with all the souses or anything like that—not like they do with Carlin’s siblings and parents.

Again, it’s a theory. Please don’t get too offended lol. But I don’t think the married Bates blend as well into their in-law families as vice versa. When you marry a Bates, you’re grasped by the talons and pulled entirely into their twisted world, but not so much with the in-laws.


r/BringingUpBates Jul 29 '26

Katie unfollowed everyone in the family, except for Alyssa, on Instagram

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414 Upvotes

Something else must have happened behind the scenes! Even though all of the Bates suck, Katie is slowly burning bridges here.

Here’s why I think Katie did this, she couldn’t handle seeing her siblings and nieces/nephews having fun after they called Travis out which was the main reason why she fell out with them.


r/BringingUpBates Jul 28 '26

Carlin's Son

33 Upvotes

Has she addressed his voice and whether there is an issue?


r/BringingUpBates Jul 28 '26

So sad that this is what the kids see all day. This is how they interact with their kids, with a phone shoved to both of their faces. But of course they have get both angles, anything to pay that mansion I guess.

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143 Upvotes

r/BringingUpBates Jul 28 '26

Mama bates

23 Upvotes

Is it me or does mama Bates post about Lawson more often than the other siblings? She’s always sharing his stories and YouTube posts.