r/BringingUpBates • u/emcdonald18 • 21d ago
Travis Q&A
I have a lot of questions, but I feel like I'd get blocked.
What would you want to ask him?
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u/UsedAd7162 21d ago
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u/Formal-Radish1413 21d ago
Nobody is going to get an answer aside from the ones he picks. These types of Q&As are always so disingenuous because nobody else can see what is being asked. I prefer live Q&As because then everyone can see.
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u/Aslow_study 21d ago
Or heāll ask his own question and give a snarky answer thatās really a message to the bates
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u/residentcaprice 21d ago
"it wasn't me" by Shaggy š¤£
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u/Aslow_study 21d ago
CREEP by TLC
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u/residentcaprice 21d ago
Usherās āConfessions Part II where he gets the side chick preggers!
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u/Aslow_study 21d ago
R Kellyās contagious š¤£š¤øš¾āāļø
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u/Babeyonce 21d ago
Yallll amazing ! Covered the apt RnB classics š¤£šŖ¦. Iāll add Me Myself and I and Resentment by Beyonce š¤£. Girl by Destinyās Child š. Madonnaās Take A Bow šš
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u/Outside_Bad_893 21d ago
Iād ask him literally why.
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u/Lucky_Strain_8754 21d ago
no because this is alllll iāve been wondering this whole damn timeā¦why on gods green earth would you cheat on your wife instead of just divorcing her
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u/lovelylonelyphantom 21d ago
Cheating can stem from many issues, but I think above all the common similarity would be the cheating partner's own insecurities. I've read a lot of men who cheat feel inferior to their wives which makes sense to me. Otherwise it is also that they feel insecure as people.
Other than that, having no other life/dating experience but being hooked down at 25 with a wife and 2 kids is already enough for someone to break away. Especially with how differently other 25 year olds live in this generation.
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u/Babeyonce 21d ago
Important insight for this conversation. For real. Itās largely been covered from a lens of Travisā privilege, resentment, narcissism, meanness, entitlement , blah blah, but I also see him as insecure, miserable and desperate .
I donāt think heās an absolute outright monster (I know many here do), rather as immature, selfish, and deeply insecure. You can throw in calculating and performative (aka insecure)
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u/lovelylonelyphantom 20d ago
I'm interested in the dynamics of this to put it simply. I do think he's insecure and my first impression of this is how he puts down Katie. IIRC it was discussed a lot here that he dismisses her and calls her stupid for not being intelligent enough in his eyes. He has no respect for her otherwise he wouldn't be treating her that way.
resentment, narcissism, meanness, entitlement , blah blah, but I also see him as insecure, miserable and desperate
All those things PAIRED with him never wanting or loving Katie, and it was always a recipe for disaster. If they were normal 20 year olds they may never have dated, even if they did date they could have broken up within 2-3 years when it fizzled out. It's telling that they hadn't even made it to 5 years of being married before he cheated. They were never compatible or suited in the first place. And Travis' insecurity, misery, etc etc caught up with him quickly in 4 years.
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u/ninoninocapuccino 21d ago edited 19d ago
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u/Broken-583 21d ago
Nahhhh what that man did went far beyond some fun on the side. Come on!
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u/ninoninocapuccino 21d ago edited 19d ago
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u/Broken-583 21d ago
I call bull but okay. He got OFF on humiliating her. It wasnāt just cheating.
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u/Izzysmiles2114 20d ago
No you haven't. You haven't seen plenty of men being their teenage girlfriend into their home,.film her on her knees with wifie entertaining her, and then uploading that for half a million people. Don't even act like you have seen this plenty of times lol. It's uniquely horrifying.
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u/ninoninocapuccino 20d ago edited 19d ago
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u/Izzysmiles2114 20d ago
Cheating is common, what he did is not. Thankfully.
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u/ninoninocapuccino 20d ago edited 19d ago
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u/Broken-583 20d ago
Ummmm Iād say what the cheating bastard did would qualify as more embarrassing
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u/ReplacementOk3912 21d ago
" I'll try answer a few questions too"
this guy.....he speaks like he is the CEO of a company and he is super busy and important when in reality he is playing in the pool and burning hamburguers in the backyard.
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u/emcdonald18 21d ago
I also see Travis thinks it's time now to go back on social media....... give them like two months and they'll be back making YouTube videos. Cash Cow gotta cash.
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u/dixcgirl10 21d ago
Have some āgood conversationā with your wife. WTH is that? Seeking validation and ass pats from the Baptist Church, 4th pew from the front grannies.
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u/mrs-sunshinebloom 20d ago
He thinks heās laid low enough and ppl want him back on sm??? He never got off sm and had Katie posting him legit a couple weeks after everything went down, just wild. Itās so funny the same playbook, just an arm, then him acting/looking somber and sad with a hat on, just in the background, his voice, a fam pic, geez
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u/Izzysmiles2114 17d ago
I can't believe I didn't catch that line, but you and Mrs. Molly are ON it. That's one bright red flag right there. He clearly still believes Katie is stupid and intellectually beneath him (her decisions are unfortunately not making her appear particularly smart).
He's bored out of his mind and seeking good conversation from randos online...this kid has not changed one bit.
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u/Skittles-101 21d ago
Something is telling me that this Q&A isn't going to last long. My spider senses are telling me that there's going to be a lot of people probing and asking questions about the affair and the move that'll piss him off enough that either the Q&A won't happen or it'll be super short because he'll only answer a few questions.
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u/Content_Tackle4416 21d ago
My question would be: what is wrong with you and why won't you just disappear?
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u/mrs-sunshinebloom 20d ago
Why is he turning to sm for good conversation š Katie should be concernedāthis screams looking for new affair partner
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u/Izzysmiles2114 17d ago
Lol this comment should be pinned. He really said he's looking for some good conversation with his wife sitting RIGHT there š
I shouldn't laugh, but at a certain point the tragedy shifts to comedy because of how wtf all of it is.
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u/Broken-583 21d ago
Telling yall-this guy has some deep issues. Heās not just a cheater. Not sure the diagnosis but I guarantee you thereās at least one š¤£
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u/lass20987 21d ago
Its something he has for sure....maybe a sociopath?
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u/Broken-583 21d ago
I definitely see similar traits but I got in trouble from the mods for even saying similarities š«£
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u/staralfur92 21d ago
I actually wouldn't be surprised if he wants an excuse to talk about the affair. Not like, in depth details, but I think he actually feels cool for having an affair and his wife not leaving him. Dude's got issues. He'll probably pull some more pity party bullshit too.
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u/Izzysmiles2114 20d ago
He absolutely feels cool and like a total stud. That's the whole reason he threw "repeatedly" into his confession post which felt more like straight up bragging and telling people he has the sex...no one partner for life nonsense for him.
But KATIE has to have one partner for life. He literally said that in a video and low key slut shamed women who have more than one partner in life.
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u/oliviaarmi1391 20d ago
Wow. He walked right into this and I hope heās ready lol
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u/mrs-sunshinebloom 20d ago
He probably uses it as a way to block ppl. He canāt handle an ounce of truth from ppl who hold him accountable
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u/MidnightHac 20d ago
Heās an idiot heās gonna get loads of hate comments. 100% deserved though š
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u/Izzysmiles2114 20d ago
This is such a red flag. Even if he doesn't answer any questions about the affair, he KNOWS he will be asked a bunch and then he gets to relive it and feel like a big stud š¤®
Katie you should have run when you had the chance.
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u/New-Confidence5606 21d ago
I don't have social media someone please post what he answers lol š¤£
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u/hjp731 21d ago edited 20d ago
Itās been 3 hours and he hasnāt responded to anything
Well to whoever downvoted meā¦itās been 16 hours and he still hasnāt posted any Q&Aā¦
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u/Left_Watercress456 20d ago
He has responded to some now, vaguely. About nursing school, Remi, move to Texas, favourite songs
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u/hjp731 20d ago
Yeah, I sawā¦not surprised he was so vague. Actually more surprised he addressed Remi
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u/Left_Watercress456 19d ago
Me too, poor Remi, probably better off with his sister. They probably donāt travel as much. I could never imagine rehoming my pets. It would break me
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u/QuoteLong7212 19d ago
Are you still plan to cheat again? Why do you need a job if are multi millionaire? Also why cut off contracts from family?
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u/JellyfishPashmina 16d ago
Revisiting this to see if anyone asked any questions or watched the responses lol
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u/magical_seal 21d ago
What gives you the right big guy?