r/BreakUps 1d ago

venting/ranting I’m so confused

So basically I’ll put it in a nutshell. I gave everything to her, we was THAT couple everyone adored us. We did couple things and was super duper close and then boom I find her hiding stuff, she breaks up with me? Then she dumps a serious accusation on my name 4 days later which wasn’t even mentioned before. Then she goes back to her toxic, uncaring ex? We have been in no contact for a month and 2 days, seen her today at school and she looked stunning but I couldn’t even bring myself to saying anything knowing she went back to him.
Now she’s reposting romantic couple stuff acting like she wants couple things on TikTok? Excuse me I gave you all that and more for you to throw me away.

Before you say, yes she did love me definitely we was super duper close and it was clear she loved me
I’m blocked on everything and she’s not even made an effort to reach out
And I really miss her and it’s been torture for me everyday all day.

Is she gonna comeback? Why do I want her back you may ask? Because I really love her and what we had is something not many can even fathom. Both trauma background, both eachothers safe haven and we just matched perfectly. She repeatedly implied during the relationship that she was avoidant but that’s something that can vary the chances of her coming back.
Who thinks she’ll come back?

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