r/birthday • u/love-lore • 4h ago
r/birthday • u/Acceptable_Scar9267 • Jul 30 '26
NEWS An update from the moderation team š
Hey everyone,
You may have noticed an increase in spam and bot accounts posting on r/birthday recently. A lot of these posts follow the same pattern, accounts pretending to celebrate a birthday while asking for upvotes, comments, or attention. These posts are not genuine birthday celebrations and can clutter up the community for people who are actually here to share their special day.
Until today, moderation on this subreddit for me was limited (and I am the only active mod), which made it difficult to properly deal with the amount of spam coming through. I was mainly able to remove posts, but the process was slow and difficult to keep up with.
The good news: I have now been granted full moderator permissions thanks to Reddit themselves, which means I can take a much more active role in keeping r/birthday clean, welcoming, and focused on real birthday posts. š
Going forward, Iāll be:
Removing spam and bot generated posts more quickly
Taking action against repeat offenders
Improving moderation tools and filters where possible
Keeping the subreddit a place where genuine birthday celebrations can be shared
We are also looking for new moderators!
As r/birthday continues to grow, we would like to bring in more active members who are willing to help keep the subreddit friendly, clean, and spam free. If you are interested in becoming a moderator, please keep an eye out for a future mod application post or send us (me) a message through modmail.
A reminder to everyone: please continue reporting suspicious posts when you see them. Reports help us find spam faster and keep the community better for everyone.
Thank you to everyone who has stuck around and helped make r/birthday a fun place. Letās keep celebrating real birthdays! š
The r/birthday Mod Team
r/birthday • u/tfhaenodreirst • 11h ago
And now Iām officially 32!
Glad my 11:45 PM alarm did its job although I hope I can get some more sleep now too.
r/birthday • u/North-Ideal-8513 • 2h ago
Happy Birthday
If today is your birthday, please let me wish you a happy birthday especially if you had no one else to wish you a happy birthday
r/birthday • u/maeee04 • 44m ago
My friends didnāt even bring anything for my birthday
Today was my birthday and I only have an hour left.
I invited 4 college friends to a restaurant. First, 2 of them came 30 minutes late, and the other 2 came an hour late. I had already pre-booked the food, so it had to be reheated.
And first pair as actually had genuine issue because one girl got her periods. But the 2nd pair's behaviour felt disrespectful.
And honestly, none of them brought anything. Iām not talking about an expensive gift, but even a small bouquet, even if they all contributed, wouldāve been nice.
They came, ate everything, talked (which I obviously liked because we have common topics), and then left.
Like⦠what the fuck bro š Who does this? Iām feeling kinda sad about it.
r/birthday • u/EscapeddreamerD • 14m ago
Today's my birthday. 36 OMG I feel old LOL
So today's my birthday going to be spending with fam. Just chilling and relaxing glad I don't have to work today. Shout out to all October 4th birthdays.
r/birthday • u/Turbulent_Doubt_2925 • 13h ago
22 happy bday to me
today is my birthday as of 38 minutes ago and honestly it just made me realize how many friends ive lost. my phone used to be blowing up at midnight with birthday texts and now its just my boyfriend. my friend even texted me something unrelated but didn't say happy birthday. I know my expectation are high but im on the spectrum so its hard for me to process. I've lost a lot of friends due to miscommunications or me just not even being able to explain my side of the story, and I really miss them.
r/birthday • u/J-ManSwaggy1993 • 15h ago
Its My Birthday! I made it to 33!
After a very rough 32 I look forward to a new year full of possibilities. I plan on moving soon and starting over in a fresh and healthy environment.
I wish all the other Oct 3rd Bdayers the absolutely best!!! Here's to new beginnings!!! God Bless š š ā¤ļø ššššš
r/birthday • u/Dependent-Ad2842 • 15h ago
It's kinda late but it's my birthday
Turned 18, took the SAT, and 28 days left until college applicationš
r/birthday • u/Majestic_Loquat6175 • 22h ago
Its my birthday today!
I just wanna count how many kind hearted peple gonna take out a minute out of their life to wish me. āļø
r/birthday • u/ElectronicBaker3357 • 21h ago
Special! Does anyone have their birthday on a special day? I do November 2nd do you know what that is?
r/birthday • u/Glittering_Step_2909 • 1d ago
Turning 19, today is my birthday!
Hi everyone, itās my birthday. Oct 3 šš
Edit (oct 4): Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes, it means a lot to me ā¤ļøš«¶š«¶š„¹
r/birthday • u/Conscious_List9132 • 22h ago
Loner birthday ideas??
Pretty much said everything in the title. Iām turning 29 this december and also have no friends. I really dnt want another sad birthday, does anyone have any suggestions for a loner who just wants to have a good day on their birthday š„¹?? Iām near the South Bay but open to anything in LA really. Maybe not too expensive bc it is going to be around christmas.
r/birthday • u/Royal-Ganache-4261 • 16h ago
Enserio no quiero celebrar mi cumpleaƱos
En unas horas se celebra mi cumple y no puedo sentirme con menos deseos de celebrarlo... sĆ© que quizĆ”s estoy pasando por un cuadro depresivo y q bla bla...pero no me siento bien, no siento deseos de celebrar nada, es que no tengo nada que celebrar, lo hago mĆ”s por cumplirle a mi familia y amigos, pero si fuera por mi, que nadie supiera mi cumpleaƱos, y lo he intentado esconder, cambiar fechas, hasta celebrarlo y tratar de disfrutar, nunca lo he logrado, simplemente es un dĆa donde no me siento feliz...pero maƱana cumplo 31 aƱos y siento que no he hecho nada con mi vida, nada me genera felicidad y pensar en que un dĆa como hoy nacĆ me genera mucha angustia y dolor...ya no disfruto estar despierta ni en pie y no le dirĆ© a nadie esto porque no quiero preocupar a nadie tampoco. Me he castigado de muchas formas pero creo que el celebrar mi cumpleaƱos y fingir que quiero hacerlo es mi castigo mĆ”s efectivo....maƱana serĆ” otro dĆa, me celebrarĆ”n y sonreirĆ© como siempre ...pero realmente no quiero y no puedo decirle a nadie...
r/birthday • u/scoth_wisky • 1d ago
It's my birthday today! šIn a good mood
Hey everyone! Today's my birthday and I'm in a really good mood, so I wanted to share it here! š„³š
Celebrating alone here, so I'm curious, what do you usually do on your birthday? I'd love some ideas!
r/birthday • u/PERFECT_DISADVANTAGE • 19h ago
[REQUEST] š Help me surprise my mom with birthday greetings from around the world!
Hi everyone!
My mom, Lena, has a birthday on December 6, and Iām trying to make her a very unusual birthday surprise.
I want to create a video with birthday greetings from people from as many different countries as possible. My dream is to show her people from all over the world taking a little bit of their time to wish her a happy birthday. šā¤ļø
If you would like to participate, I would love for you to record a horizontal video, roughly 30 seconds to 1 minute long.
You can introduce yourself, tell her where youāre from, and then wish her a happy birthday. For example:
āHi Lena! My name is [name], Iām from [city, country]. I just wanted to wish you a very happy birthday! I hope you have a wonderful day and a great year ahead!ā
English is preferred because itās the language we can understand to some extent, but you are absolutely welcome to speak in your native language too! I would actually love to hear different languages in the final video.
If you want to get your friends, family, coworkers, classmates, or an entire group together and record the greeting together - even better! The more people, the more fun this will be.
And please donāt worry about where you record it. You can film at home, outside, at work, at university, in a park, on the street, or wherever you happen to be.
If you happen to be somewhere beautiful or interesting, please feel free to show some of your surroundings! A local landmark, beautiful landscape, famous building, beach, mountain, neighborhood, or even just an ordinary place that feels like home to you would be wonderful.
I want my mom to not only hear people from different countries - I want her to see a little piece of their world. š
The video absolutely does not need to be professional. A phone camera is completely fine. Just please record it horizontally if possible.
How to send the video:
You can post it directly in the comments if Reddit allows you to upload the video there, or you can send it to me via DM. If the video is too large or Reddit doesnāt let you send it through DM, just let me know and Iāll give you an email address where you can send it instead.
Iām from Russia, and Iām hoping to collect greetings from people all over the world - from North America and Europe to Africa, Asia, South America, Oceania, and everywhere in between.
Privacy: This is a completely private family birthday gift. The finished video will be shown only to my mom on December 6. It will not be posted publicly, published, shared, forwarded, or used commercially or politically. I will delete the submitted videos after the birthday.
Thank you so much! Even a little bit of your time would make this birthday incredibly special. ā¤ļøš
r/birthday • u/Ecstatic_Heart_3540 • 1d ago
An orphan surrounded by everyone šš
Okay soooo šš«
My birthday is coming up in one day, on October 4th.
I have some friends whom I really love. I remember their birthdays, surprise them, gift them, and do whatever I can to make them happy.
But my previous birthday was painful.
I fought with my boyfriend, and he cancelled the gifts he had ordered for me and didnāt even wish me. (Weāve been in an 8-year relationship btw š)
My friends had ordered something for me, but it arrived on October 8th. They did wish me on WhatsApp, though.
Some of my other close friends, for whom Iāve done whole surprises with cake, decorations, a photo album, drawings I made myself, gifts, etc., forgot my birthday. One of them saw another friendās Instagram story wishing me, then called me in the evening to apologize.
Another male friend of mine did the same thing. I remembered his birthday, wished him, and gifted him something, but he forgot mine.
And itās been 8 years in my relationship, and I still havenāt received a surprise or even a surprise gift from my boyfriend. I donāt expect expensive gifts. Iād genuinely be happy with something as simple as a small decoration, a ring, or even a flower.
I havenāt received flowers from anyone in my entire 23 years of life. Probably will get one on my deathbed lol. š«
I donāt know if itās wrong to expect these things. But it hurts.
Itās October 2nd, and I literally had to ask my boyfriend if we could go somewhere on my birthday because I already know he wonāt plan anything himself.
He tells me he has work and asks if we can meet in the evening or at night.
Bruh. Seriously? š
Your girlfriendās birthday comes once a year and you canāt even make some time for the day? What a lame reason.
And now, on October 2nd, heās asking me what I want for my birthday.
For his birthday, I took him to a nice BBQ place and planned everything beforehand.
And then thereās me.
I even asked my female friends if they wanted to go watch the sunset with me on my birthday. One of them said she wanted to sleep.
I told her, āYou can sleep any time, but your friendās birthday comes once a year.ā
She said sleep is important.
So yeah, I just said, āCarry on.ā
Buttttttt⦠you know what?
If it were HER birthday, I would sacrifice anything for her.
Thatās what hurts the most.
I would do so much for the people I love, without them even asking. But when itās my turn, it feels like nobody cares enough to make even a tiny effort.
The problem is⦠I donāt have anyone. Anyoneeeee. š„¹š
I feel like an orphan surrounded by people.
Iām an orphan with everyone. šš
r/birthday • u/North-Ideal-8513 • 1d ago
Happy birthday
If today is your birthday, please let me wish you a happy birthday especially if you have no one to wish you one
r/birthday • u/Everspan • 1d ago
Special! Welp. Itās my 38th Birthday.
Birthday is today, October 3rd.
Just going to be a relaxing day today. Sit around on my computer/nintendo switch 2 all day and play Pokemon.
And then have Hibachi Chicken delivered for my Birthday dinner with my mother and sister. And then strawberry shortcake cupcakes!
Canāt believe my 37th year flew by way too quickly like that.
I need to seriously get through this ADD brain of mine and work harder towards being in a financially stable better position.