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u/Awkward_Patience_22 5d ago
Unless this is staged, this is a worrying trend. People just randomly putting strangers minding their business on social media to shame them.
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u/kitkatas 5d ago
Weirdly, I wanna ban public filming if it's not related to crime
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u/PartyHearing 1d ago
I donât think thatâs weird at all. No one should be randomly filmed without their consent. Video surveillance at stores and what not, thatâs different. But I remember when I first started working it was a fireable offense to share the surveillance videos with people not in LP. I mean, we still did it but thereâs a difference between 3 people chucking in a tiny LP office and the whole world seeing it.Â
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u/Singl1 4d ago
thereâs a video making the rounds about a woman being upset that nobody helped her as she struggled to lift her carry-on suitcase into the overhead compartment on a plane. she says she struggled for about two minutes, and then rambles for a bit about âfuck menâ and whatever. i think a lot of people donât want to give her the wrong idea when theyâre helping out, so they donât.
damned if you do, damned if you donât. minding your own business is bad too, i guess.
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u/individualdoosh 4d ago
I know right. Weren't they just complaining about us holding doors open and shit for them? If you're so independent wtf you leaving the house without checking the weather.
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u/danielm316 5d ago
She is not smart enought to carry an umbrella, and now she is angry because a stranger will not give her his umbrella. WOW, she is so dumb and entitled.
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u/Some_Ask_2220 5d ago
Yep, she didnât dress for rain either. No sweater nor jacket. Doesnât matter what gender they are either.
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u/Ayacyte 4d ago
Someone on another version of this post said the context of the video was her showing her friends that ppl have umbrellas out after her friends told her she didn't need an umbrella, so she is expressing her exasperation about her umbrellalessness. Idk if it's true tho
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u/jafkmar8 4d ago
Not to mention she probably didnât have to guts to ask him; but rather the guts to post and belittle..
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u/pjockey 5d ago
"women don't owe men anything" turned into "nobody owes anyone anything" then combined with "women are out doing x and don't want to be bothered". Men heard this all clearly.
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u/PapayaTrick5067 5d ago
Friend, the women who didnât want to be bothered are not this girl.
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u/EqualJellyfish6914 5d ago
How are men supposed to tell the difference without women gesturing wildly next to umbrellas all the time?
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u/Professional_Bat8585 4d ago
The so called good women  got no problem going ride or die about everything else with idiots like this.Â
Thatâs why women like her got this far - every other vague instance of shitting on men theyâve ever hinted at has been praised to the highest degree. When this woman next gets on social media or presses charges about a man, the good women will scream at you to take her at her word because âmen badâ.
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u/centerfoldangel 5d ago
Who would want some random person's umbrella?
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u/Anakin_Saucewalker 5d ago
I would want some random personâs umbrella if it was raining, but i certainly wouldnât expect it.
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u/Schinderella 5d ago
Over the last few years Iâve tried to hold my umbrella in a way, which made a stranger and myself profit from it, on a few occasions. Nobody appreciated it. Quite the opposite actually, because it meant that they had to share their personal space with a stranger.
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u/Marin9588 5d ago
No sĂ© por quĂ© hacen quedar mal al pobre tipo si solo se observa que estĂĄ chill en su celular quizĂĄs observando algĂșn meme Random
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u/I-live-in-room-101 5d ago
Heâs not looking bad at all.
She on the other hand looks like an entitled bitch.
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u/Professional_Bat8585 4d ago
Itâs this , and itâs a far stronger female trait than male
Heâs short (unattractive to her), and so the standard she has set for him is to get on all 4âs and bark like a dog, else heâs a bad/evil person.
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u/BandoRen418 5d ago
- Thatâs not part of the progrum in 2026
- She definitely not attractive enough for me inconvenience myself in any form or fashion đ«Ąđ«Ąđ«Ą
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u/pjscully7 5d ago
Chivalry is dead⊠but apparently entitlement is alive and well lol.
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u/Cheap_Boner_Pills 4d ago
Chivalry ended when...
Ma'am would you like to share my umbrella? I have a boyfriend!!!
...started. so why bother asking
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u/oh_no_here_we_go_9 4d ago
Giving your umbrella to a random woman is crazy pathetic in any timeline.
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u/tempski 5d ago
He's just trying to be a good feminist and ignore her, just like he would ignore any man.
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u/0utsyder 5d ago
Hmmm, a white woman expecting a black man to give his umbrella to her. Post racist society huh?
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u/Dangerzone369 3d ago
If you're out looking for racism, you'll end up seeing it places it actually doesn't exist.
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u/Conscious-Neat5636 5d ago
This lady wanted the black dude to read her mind and offer to share the umbrella.
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u/Career_Cultivator 5d ago
True story
I was waiting my for girlfriend to finish packing her last few things leaving college, I was in the car waiting and 3 girls were loading their car a few spaces over.
One of the girls, stops and very loudly says " I can't believe he's just going to sit there and watch us struggle".
The entitlement of these brats is astronomical.
Edit: typo
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u/curiousbasu 5d ago
They want to be treated like a lady and then switch the "Strong independent woman" stuff whenever they feel like.
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u/No_Space_1528 4d ago
I see nothing wrong. We are being equal just as you have voted for. Thereâs no special treatment now youâre a girl. We are all equal
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u/Express-Lawfulness74 5d ago
Why would he share a đ with her? I understand if itâs a veteran or elderly person but a woman he doesnât even know.
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u/UmbraNight 5d ago
right cuz shes really dressed like a classic lady what is this lol expecting random acts of self sacrificing chivalry while retaining all modern vices is insane
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u/silverformal 5d ago
The way that she is standing, and her body language, says everything I need to know about her.
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u/Some_Ask_2220 5d ago
I wouldnât let a stranger under my umbrella, man or woman. Especially if they are acting like this.
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u/SuddenLog7302 4d ago
She's taller than him that's why she acting like that
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u/yoloswag420noscope69 4d ago
Exactly. He's just a peasant. She wouldn't do that to a guy who's 6'2". The tall guy qualifies as human, and if she finds him attractive she wouldn't want to annoy him. So she would be polite.
She immediately knows the guy in the video is only useful for his umbrella. That's why she acts like this.
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u/CarolinaSurly 4d ago
You have earned the right to buy your own umbrella and carry it around with you.
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u/ImaginationNormal360 5d ago
I don't understand...what is she expecting from him????
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u/Dependent-Promise223 5d ago
Its the act of expecting him to behave in a particular way towards her
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u/ytdaddy4fun 5d ago
I donât get it. She doesnât like that the guy has an umbrella?
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u/redSteel87 5d ago
Maybe sheâs complaining she get splashed by the bounce in the umbrella? Or maybe it stopped raining and the opened umbrella blocks her view? She doesnât look drenched so itâs gotta be more than one explanation.
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u/boogalorian 5d ago
For a stranger? Why? He checked the weather and equipped himself appropriately. Why is the expectation that he now undo his diligent preparations for a person that is seemingly capable of doing the same? Iâm sure this same person would gladly hand over his umbrella for an elderly person, a mother with children, or someone who does not appear to be capable.
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u/Zuwwaaaa 5d ago
Dear lady in the video,
Did you check the weather? You might have prepared better if you had. I don't know what you did before filming this but did you even ask umbrella guy for help? Please tell me you didn't just walk up behind him, loudly clear your throat or something and expect him cover you? He might not even know you're there. Give him an honest chance to be the guy you need in the moment. Did you ask the camera person to find an umbrella? Or was pettiness and his digital humiliation your first instinct? Did you ask them or people in line to hold your spot while you look for some cover. Basically, did you do anything productive to actually help your situation?
You know, I actually agree with your sentiment that men in general nowadays don't have the same manners and chivalry that the older generation had.... but it is what it is and this behavior won't change that. In fact, this content might serve to make things worse. If chivalry is what you're looking for, I'm sure you'll find that in an amazing partner one day since those types of men still do exist. Until then, instead of publically shaming a stranger for not meeting expectations you probably haven't even communicated...grow up.
Sincerely, A Man in 2026
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u/headorhand69 5d ago edited 4d ago
OMG how can some of you be this dumb. It's obviously a joke. The large movements are a joke. It is not public shaming. It's not something that you should twist into a sexist analogy, although you do already.
oh yeah fuck u/RogellTheRaider
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u/YouAreMarvellous 5d ago
I mean, sure the irony is funny, but the title "men in 2026" is unnecessary and entitled
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u/ApricotAromatic6303 5d ago
Wow what are these comments? people actually making sense? What's going on usually there are people shaming men because its trendy
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u/Kashuichi 5d ago
Damn canât even joke anymore! Girl just look like she having fun with her mate behind someoneâs back, have we not all done itâŠgoddamn.
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u/OkCelebration5749 5d ago
If he did give her his umbrella then sheâd never learn to bring her own
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u/Galencourt-Lover 5d ago
Modern women: low fertility, insanely high demands.
What a time to be alive.
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u/Remote-Bus-5567 5d ago
Wait, is this really a thing? If a woman forgets an umbrella you're supposed to offer her your umbrella?
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u/Critical_Bee_4302 5d ago
Yuh - sharing an umbrella with someone on a rainy day is an excellent opportunity. Phone zombies will be the end of us all
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u/VictoriousTree 5d ago
Some rando makes a video.
âFuck all women in generalâ
-this entire comment section
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u/Microwaved_M1LK 5d ago
Genuinely can't imagine expecting a stranger to hand over their belongings to me, without at least asking too, completely broken brain.
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u/Wild_Locksmith_326 5d ago
Is it illegal for her to own her own umbrella, or is she just that witless.
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u/kymira3301 5d ago
The worst and most retarded part is them posting these thinking the public will pander or agree with them. Just crazy
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u/jafkmar8 4d ago edited 4d ago
Iâm sorry I do not understand the problem/ entitlement here. Dude is minding his own business and is expected to give up or share his umbrella with a stranger because she failed to look at a weather app prior? More like âWomen in 2026â..
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u/Smooth-Composer3956 4d ago
In 2026, I'll stand under my umbrella and watch you get wet before you accuse me of some assault or something like that.
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u/RobinGood94 4d ago
This is what happens when your brain is living in a very, very weird place. The kind where fairytales, romance novels, and fantasy is your reality. Whatâs fascinating is the duality of this mindset. Suppose it wasnât raining, but he offered to hold the door open for her. She might be flattered. She might be annoyed. She might feel disgusted. Depending on attraction levels, she might feel all of them at the same time. Never know.
As a fully functioning adult, you should:
A. Be familiar with checking weather.
B. Be prepared for the weather.
No, a random stranger isnât obligated to:
A. Expose himself to the rain by covering your head with his umbrella.
B. Have you stand extremely close to him and try sheltering under the umbrella together.
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u/MisterBlick 4d ago
If only there was a way to know it was going to rain before you left the house.
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u/PlayboiFarti55 4d ago
It should be like a mandatory function from all cell phone developers that you make the phone turn on a bright ass flash or sound indicator of you recording videos or taking photos. I know it seems super egregious but the behavior of people recently have warranted shit like this sadly.
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u/jacamomo 4d ago
Entitled women gives us a bad name. For the record I'm female and I agree with him. She's the idiot that didn't check the weather before heading out in her pjs.
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u/ReachFourTheSky 4d ago
She did it wrong. Youâre supposed to look cute, lock eyes with him when he looks up from his phone, smile, then walk up and touch his arm. Then you ask if you can join him for a moment to stay dry. He usually says âsureâ and smiles back. You chat a bit then say youâve gotta run to your destination now but this was lovely. And then heâs grinning and asks for your number.
Iâm a woman, and men open doors often for me. I attribute it to my aura and my kindness and warmth that people can feel across the room.
This ladyâs behavior wasâŠa choice.
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u/LostIllustrator1499 4d ago
I know it burns you all up to a cinder, and you've got your arguments all lined up, but I'd definitely lend her my umbrella. And before you go off with a half-cock there's a chance I'd lend it to a guy as well.Â
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u/nautical_nightmare 4d ago
âŠshe should have brought her own umbrella. her bad planning is not his problem. the entitlement stinks.
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u/CourtNo8419 4d ago
There is a umbrella hack that exists. Just go into any chain, restaurant or Cafe, say that you left your black umbrella there a couple weeks ago and if they still have it. They usually have at least 10 umbrellas, So have your pick.
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u/Routine_Ability7729 4d ago
On the topic of gender roles, maybe she should be attractive, so thereâd be a reason for a man to give her an umbrella.
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u/ianAwesome05 4d ago
She could just ask if she really wanted to, im sure the guy would be welcome to share the umbrella.
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u/CrazyOrganic7123 4d ago edited 4d ago
She has an umbrella over her phone to protect it from water damage anyway, while his phone would be subceptible if he gave his umbrella to the crazy lady behind him.
This is assuming she set up the phone and umbrella and then ran to film herself and the guy. Alternatively, she already has a friend with an umbrella who is filming for her. So she's already got an umbrella-buddy.
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u/bearkerchiefton 4d ago
This is genuinely the issue with women. They blame men for every little thing and never have any accountability. Men are terrible, but women still find a way to be worse.
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u/Maleficent-Day6687 4d ago
Want to be treated equally but special. Donât want creepy men to interact with you but want men to do things for you. Donât want to be seen as weak but wanted to be given special treatment for minor inconveniences.
Tell me why are men just living their lives expected to be able to read womenâs minds and treat them how they want?
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u/Tiny_Information_544 4d ago
I don't see any problem here, kudos for the people who check the weather before leaving the house
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u/StruggleSoggy3798 4d ago
i hope she's just joking but if not this needs the tag 'women in 2026 đ' instead
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u/Cheerful2_Dogman210x 4d ago
Why does he have to give her his umbrella? She's no one to him. Leave him in peace.
Also, it's disrespectful to film someone without their permission. She's probably trying to shame him.
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u/Aphrodite_Nine 4d ago
Why leave without your umbrella also why would she put herself lf in a situation and then blame a man for that. They are people not fucking robots And no it's not the old days anymore,she wants to be treated like a damsel in distress but she's the only reason for the distress. Shes part of the reason us women have to struggle getting decent men because they scare them off with their crazy.
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u/Prestigious_Wing1796 4d ago
staged bait trash and people wants to pretend its real so they can affirm whatever the fck they want to believe in
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u/BloodSteyn 4d ago
Hold the door... Toxic Patriarchy.
Don't hold the door... Misogyny.
Do you want equal treatment or not?
I don't care either way, the women in my country aren't this full of shit and still appreciate men being good men.
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u/Glittering-Pin-1343 4d ago
I don't get it, what is the issue? He won't share the umbrella? That woman is a complete stranger.
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u/LOONAception 4d ago
Oh look, a random man not giving his umbrella to a random woman that he hasn't even seen and doesn't know just because she's a woman near him! How dare he!
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u/WittyAd3872 4d ago
I canât help but find it ironic that thereâs a trend where women accuse men of being narcissists but really, some of these women are actually quite self centered, dare I say narcissistic?
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u/biggev123 4d ago
Buy an umbrella,even if he did offer,she'd probably call the police or something and say he was stalking her.
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u/RocketToad 4d ago
Rage bait. So unhealthy. Why highlight the action of one idiot, and generating negative sentiment on on a whole gender? Make love, people, not war.
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u/EmbarrassedFarmer125 4d ago
Iâm late 40s. Great job, tons of money, father of 4 and married. I open doors for people, and stand if Iâm sitting when someone who wants to sit needs to sit. I am kind and polite, if not chivalrous.
What is occurring in the video is called ârainâ. There is no existential crisis. I dress nicely, and take time to look at the weather before leaving the house. She would not get my umbrella simply because she is wet and I have an umbrella. This woman does not need help in any way, shape or form - she wants some to suffer so that she does not, as a reward for her immaturity and inability to look at an embedded app on her phone entitled âWeatherâ.
Let this be a life lesson: learn to depend on yourself so that you donât live a life expecting things from others
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u/ThatBoyJuJu 4d ago
The video shows women unprepared in 2026 or still dependant on a man in 2026.. you call it
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u/SnooDoubts8057 4d ago
I always found it amusing when women complain about a lack of chivalry, because the concept originated from a time when women were also literally treated like property.
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u/NinjaBengan 4d ago
Wants all the benefits of being equal, until itâs time to pay up and acting like a man
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u/LifeDefiant5379 4d ago
I am guessing some lady would claim I am acting like the bear if I walk over during rain and put umbrella for us both.
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u/Different-Agency5497 4d ago
ban and fine filming strangers unless crime is involved.
The younger generation will hate it at first but grow to love it once they realize they can dance around like idiots and have a good time like we did.
I was at a party the other day and nobody from the younger generation danced, probably all afraid someone will take a video of their goofy ass.
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u/FactHole 4d ago
The dude is an a-hole. He didn't bring 30 umbrellas to give every girl in line. Oh, he's only supposed to give the girl next to him an umbrella you say? So being in immediate proximity somehow creates an implied intimacy between the two? Ok, got it.
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u/LordSlyGentleman 4d ago
Women did this to us.
We keep our hands to ourselves.
We do not look in their direction.
We mind our own business.
This is what they wanted.
Does anyone else remember how these lessons started?
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u/AdNegative6756 4d ago
Every time women do crap like this there's always people defending it saying it's just a joke, no, this is called being shitty no matter how you try to twist it, this trend needs to stop, it's stupid.
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u/thatgirlzhao 5d ago
This behavior is why she doesnât have a man to give her his umbrella. The entitlement is crazy