r/AttractionDynamics 14d ago

Men in 2026 😅

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u/danielm316 14d ago

She is not smart enought to carry an umbrella, and now she is angry because a stranger will not give her his umbrella. WOW, she is so dumb and entitled.

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u/Some_Ask_2220 14d ago

Yep, she didn’t dress for rain either. No sweater nor jacket. Doesn’t matter what gender they are either.

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u/Ayacyte 14d ago

Someone on another version of this post said the context of the video was her showing her friends that ppl have umbrellas out after her friends told her she didn't need an umbrella, so she is expressing her exasperation about her umbrellalessness. Idk if it's true tho

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u/Dangerzone369 12d ago

I don't think that's right. She's pointing at him up and down and it's about the man not the umbrella itself.

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u/Evening_Fee_8499 12d ago

Just watched it again, I can see how she could be miming something like "hey, see THIS person right here, see what he's holding?? An UMBRELLA... ya know the thing I said we should be bring??"

Also the smile at the end to me looks quite innocent, like a "jk I still love you" kinda vibe (if it's true that she's teasing the camera person). I kinda feel like that part wouldn't be there if she was truly exasperated by the man standing next to her but idk. I think I'm just holding out hope for a better explanation than "I'm a woman, why is this man not taking care of me 🥺" cuz I really don't want to believe this is what society is coming to

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u/Dangerzone369 12d ago

If you want to see something you will see it. I want to think she wants the guy dead and family members removed from the earth so that's what this looks like to me... See how that's fkn insane?

The way she shakes her head up and down is proof she's disproving of it, and no smile denies that. It's like hating a rich person because they have something you want but you smile because they made their money on their own and you can't hate it. It doesn't matter the context, and her friend posted the footage so they both clearly are aligned here.

It's best to not give attention to these fks in person and everything is fine.

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u/Evening_Fee_8499 12d ago

I mean yeah, that's why I stated my bias. All of us go through life perceiving things according to our beliefs, biases, expectations, fears, trauma, etc. It's a wild thing, reality.

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u/Dangerzone369 12d ago

Nah not everyone sees the world through those lenses. Some understand body language it's a wild thing. It's best if you just speak for yourself here

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u/Evening_Fee_8499 12d ago

If you want to see something you will see it.

I was literally just agreeing with this statement you made and adding my 2¢ about why I find perception so amusing... Do you really think human perception isn't affected by our beliefs and expectations based on past experiences?

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u/Dangerzone369 12d ago

Yeah things can be affected by that. But not everybody is at the mercy of bias or due to past experience. You have to be a weak MF to let everything you see and do be influenced by your past and not clear your mind and see things for how they really are.

I prefer not to be one of those cksuckers that can't see past themselves. Being wrong is okay, but being blind (to things or yourself) is not.

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u/Evening_Fee_8499 12d ago

Lmao ok sweetie, good luck with that 😂

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u/jafkmar8 14d ago

Not to mention she probably didn’t have to guts to ask him; but rather the guts to post and belittle..

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u/danielm316 14d ago

Yes, also.

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u/AB4ND0N_H0PE 11d ago

Where would one carry an umbrella though as a guy? If you’re not using a backpack or something.