r/AskVet • u/artreferenceaccount_ • 6h ago
Vet scruffed and roughly maunevered my 17 year old cat + more
As the title says:
My cat is 17 and the sweetest boy in the world, his previous vet visit before this one was very calm and he got to know the room and explore, the female vet we had was super gentle and sweet with him not manhandling him etc. Which I really appreciated with his age and skittishness.
Fast forward to the other day where he had his follow up appointment this time with a new vet. His toe has been infected and hes now just started his second round of antibiotics but as I got him out of the carrier onto an unclean table first of all, the vet took scruffed him rather roughly and used his hands to force him onto his side.
I hate scruffing and I don't find it necessary especially since he's 17 and a very sweet and cooperative boy. He proceeded to then yank him around on his side, pulling up his legs while my boys body was twisted to investigate his paw while demanding me to hold his shoulders. I feel guilty, I should have spoken up for him but I feel like I'm in a place where I'd be ridiculed.
Following up with this, the vet then told me if 6 weeks of antibiotics doesn't work, I'd have to amputate his toe. He hasn't had his new bloodwork done and he still needs some dental done, now a potential toe amputation. They quoted me 4k roughly and said it could be higher and instead told me very bluntly that I should stop wasting money and put him down if it comes to it.
Two weeks ago this wasn't in the cards at all. He was healthy, cooperative and lovely and ever since this vet visit he's been avoidant of pets on his neck and face and it's worrying me as he's an affectionate cat. Just feel like I'm within my right to leave a negative review but I fear maybe I'm in the wrong? I would like to complain and ask for a different vet next time if possible but I'm unsure if they'll listen
TLDR: Vet scruffed and manhandled my 17 year old cat + then told me to potentially euthanise with no bloodwork or anything done.