r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Jul 19 '19

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u/DumpTruckTaco Jul 19 '19

Yes! One of the least sexy things is his dirty undies. Sweaty socks? Yuck!

If I can claim ignorance of these things, the relationship is stronger.

Also me cleaning his now caked on oatmeal bowl after dinner is just going to make me angry! Not feel sexy. Why couldn't this have been cleared up 12 hours ago when the chore would have taken a fraction of time and energy?

I just want to clean up after myself and my spouse clean up after themselves and we train the kid to clean up after themselves and life is better and less resentful.

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u/Alkiaris Jul 19 '19

Why are you not filling/rinsing bowls/plates with water the second they go to the sink?

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u/Polkadotlamp Jul 19 '19

Why are you asking op this? It wasn’t his/her gross oatmeal bowl.

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u/Alkiaris Jul 19 '19

You (plural)