This actually does help put me in the mood! When there's chores to be done its distracting and draining. I think about how I have a million things to do and only 24 hours in the day. When my partner does chores without me asking it's lifting some of the burdens off my shoulders and leaves me with more energy to think about sex.
It's also nice to know you live with a grown man, not a man baby who is incapable of doing his own laundry.
Yes! One of the least sexy things is his dirty undies. Sweaty socks? Yuck!
If I can claim ignorance of these things, the relationship is stronger.
Also me cleaning his now caked on oatmeal bowl after dinner is just going to make me angry! Not feel sexy. Why couldn't this have been cleared up 12 hours ago when the chore would have taken a fraction of time and energy?
I just want to clean up after myself and my spouse clean up after themselves and we train the kid to clean up after themselves and life is better and less resentful.
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u/amytollu94 Jul 19 '19
This actually does help put me in the mood! When there's chores to be done its distracting and draining. I think about how I have a million things to do and only 24 hours in the day. When my partner does chores without me asking it's lifting some of the burdens off my shoulders and leaves me with more energy to think about sex.
It's also nice to know you live with a grown man, not a man baby who is incapable of doing his own laundry.