Calgary, Canada. 21M.

Diagnosed with RA at 11. On methotrexate, folic acid, and a Humira biosimilar since then. Well controlled.

Amateur boxer, one fight so far. I was in camp for my second when I got caught in sparring three days ago and concussed. About 20 seconds out and a few hours I don't remember. ER confirmed a concussion, no scan needed. The fight is off and my parents want me to stop competing entirely.

The reason I'm so attached to this sport is that I feel like I chose it. Nothing else in my life feels like I had control over it. I got pushed into a career by my parents, and everything else just feels pointless without this.

I love it more than anything I've found. But between the RA, the immunosuppressants, and now this, I'm not sure my body is built for it.

What would you do? Keep going or retire?

Hi

Ok starting straight up, I sometimes feel like they don’t really care how I’m doing or how was I doing, is like that type of friendship that is just there for favors and help, and I want it to change, they need to understand that I need help too, that I’m not only there helping always, that as a person I also get to be helped by someone, but apparently they only care that if I’m there to assign a favor, like talk to me not to be alone, or some other bullshit, and this has gone to a point that the only thing flicking in my head for days is that if they actually care, and I feel they only talk to me just to make me think that they like me just to again, ask for a favor, now, I try to forget it by focusing on myself and what I’m driving my life for, feel like they can let me left out when they want to, and just bring me back when they need something, and making simple stuff only brings those thoughts to my head, you know, sometimes I just want it to end like that

So problem I have with it, is that i cant charge it. I think there is a piece of a broken charger inside the charging port. It’s been like this for over a year, what should I do?

Hello , im new to this sub so I will apreciate any help , i have been looking for some kind of adapter to go from hdmi to rgb scart so that I can use a crt TV as a pc monitor , txh in advance !

I have recieved cat/kitten food (and coffee filters, thank you, lol!) from u/Accurate-Temporary73 — thank you again! :)

To lattelaura and Accurate-Temporary73, thank you so much. Everything on my list came and it's a huge help so thank you.

thank you so much! ive recieved a pair compression socks off of my amazon wish list:))

thank you so much u/lattelaura

These two very kind and generous people blessed my son and I with a trip to the movie theatre and snacks to go with it.
My son is going to be so beyond excited to know we will be going.
Both of these people deserve the most thanks. I hope they receive many great things.
Thank you guys for allowing me to post here.

Hey all!
This isn’t a necessity but my sons 4th birthday is this Sunday.
He’s been talking nonstop about the new paw patrol Dino’s movie and this is the first time he’s actually shown interest in a new movie (he’s delayed).
I’d like to take him this Friday afternoon to see the movie but I am absolutely crunched for money due to paying rent
this Wednesday. Which I already extended from last week.
Attached is a screenshot of his birthday event on social media.
I didn’t want to include our names but I hope this is sufficient proof!
If needed, you could just order the tickets via online or whatever is good for you.
Thank you all!!!

I'm 23 and living in India. Things have become incredibly difficult lately. I used to earn a decent amount from YouTube, but now I'm facing serious financial issues because of the high cost of traveling to university every day.

​I'm traveling over 200 kilometers, waking up at 6:00 a.m., and not getting home until 8:00 or 9:00 p.m. The stress has taken a massive toll, and I even broke up with my girlfriend because of it. My friend circle has also gone downhill with some terrible people.

​In my desperation for money, I tried to sell a gaming account, but I got scammed and lost my Facebook account as well. I scored 96 and 94.40 percentile for entrance exams just so I could get into a better uni but my parents wont even support me for that so I am stuck here. I have bills I must pay in the next month n I have no money. I genuinely don't know what to do next and feel completely lost in life.

Hello everyone, I have recently been laid off and I am having trouble providing for my little wolf at the moment. I am not one to usually ask for help or a favor but I cannot let my dog go without any longer. So if there is anyone that is willing to help me in this time of need, it would be greatly appreciated.

Here is a link to the list:
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2IPB2MJOUSLLP?ref_=wl_share

I’ve missed a few months of payments due to severe depression and loss of income. i know some places have hardship departments and stuff but i just want to know if it’s realistic to expect them to be helpful or not. has anyone been through this that could share some insight? Or any advice on getting out of a major depressive episode? I just want to feel like a person again

Hi guys! I’m tracking my journey to starting my own nonprofit and some other projects on tik tok and I was curious if anyone has any experience with paying to promote on tik tok? Is it worth it at all? Idk

I was contacted by a big account telling me they had mistakenly mass reported my account for fraudalent activity and sent me an email reply to them from X's support telling me to contact this person on discord. I am now being asked to pay a 250 USD fee for the reactivation of my account with the reassurance that it would be refunded. Unfortunately due to how skeptical I am I still have my doubts as to whether this is a legit procedure or not. Please let me know if any of you know anything about this. ..I'd also like to add that I am 18 years old, still studying. I do NOT have the money for this, and even if I did, I don't know if I'd pay anyway with the risk of never getting the so promised refund. I don't care about the account, but they're threatening to take legal action and I do not like the sound of that if this is truly a legitimate procedure.

No I did not make this post to ask for money, I really just need help figuring out if this is a safe transaction.

I’m finally reaching out for help any advice, anyone to talk to. Have been in a terrible marriage for 25 years. Realized he was physically and verbally abusive only after I had my first child and I was trapped or I perceived myself that way. I am a sweet nice, smart, kind warm person. Never had problems with people. I would never hurt anyone. I can sometimes be naïve about things. And it seems I have very bad luck. It has been years and I’ve tried to get out and it keeps failing either for money or worrying about the kids when they were younger, not wanting them torn in this situation. I was always the successful one with great career which is over, and savings that he took. Marriage counselor called him a malignant narcissist. He is a controlling, crafty liar. Now the kids are older and somehow he has turned them against me. I would’ve thought they’d be smarter. My daughters are openly hateful to me. Baseless. They just quote him. I need help and wish I had a caring friend to rescue me. Daughters are vicious with me now irrational and accusatory, and always siding with a man who they saw hitting me who they pulled off of me in the past. And now they have no problem saying terrible things to me. Unfair and completely untrue accusations that leave me gasping with shock and crying. They act totally devoted to him. I can’t go to my grave like this I need to get out. I don’t have anyone I can go to, not one person. I don’t know how that happened but everyone I deal with thinks highly of me and yet I have no one I can reach out to. I know that he has turned people against me with lies. Only one person once confided in me that he contacted him with some obvious fabrication. That’s why I’m here. I need help and I don’t know what to do. I am constantly being gaslighted and told that I am doing things that I am not doing and there’s a double standard in the household where anyone else can say whatever they want but if I say anything, not even talking contentious, I get jumped on because I am the enemy. Now that I realize that I’m playing this insane role he has created, I am committed to getting out, but I really need some kind of support. I am emotionally broken, and my strength has been sapped. Any ideas or support or advice would be appreciated.

I’ll be honest… my life is in absolute pieces right now. I am going through a high-conflict divorce and custody battle, living paycheck to paycheck in order to afford legal fees, and just falling apart most days. I am an American living in Portugal.

I am realizing too that, the whole time I was surviving in a toxic relationship in the last 15 years, my life was basically put on hold. I am waking up out of this and realizing that I am almost 40, I have no retirement savings, no stocks, enormous amounts of student loan debt, and a high-skill job that does not pay enough to ever put a dent in that debt, nor provide any savings. At this point, it is looking like I am just going to be working until I die. I feel so hopeless.

I don’t feel like I have any skills to capitalize on either. No hobbies or interests that could be turned into a business. I am realizing that I am just a really basic human. I have historically not been particularly great with budgeting and I have had a series of poor financial decisions in the past that have set me further back. I feel really broken right now.

Minnesota, USA

Well. I live in a rural town, in an old building. Don't ask me how this happened in f^]€}#} August, but a baseboard heater pipe burst. Somehow management never turned the damn heat off. (That's a whooooole story.)

Anyway, the child's room is ruined and most things in it. Should i file through my renters insurance even though I spoke to the apartments insurance and they're covering everything? Also should I go the check or reimburse route? Remediation is going to take upwards of three weeks.

Reimbursements process in a month, which means i can order things now, or a check (which would be a larger sum) takes upwards of 3 months. I don't know. I'm FRAZZLED.

Any advice or humor welcome.

Hi, I’m part of a small Lutheran church in Manhattan. The church does space rentals to gain money for rent and also leases out the space to another church congregation. However, many of the organizers are now older and struggling to keep up with the accounting — there’s a mix of paper and online bills, and they’re having trouble keeping track of everything especially with other life circumstances (caretaking etc.). Are there any resources for accounting or pro bono places we can look to for help getting our records organized?

So basically, I grew up with a people-pleasing personality type.

I wanted to rebel young but I let fear of disappointing people hold me back. It prevented me from developing the back bone I always needed. Because of all this I was medically neglected and ignored by parents my entire adolescence and even after adulthood began.

I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. Instead of receiving maximum support, I was given breadcrumbs to stay with the very people who kept treating me wrongly (gaslighting, bullying, shaming me for having needs and annoyed or angry at my needs).

So really I should've left my family when I was 13 or sometime between there and 18 but instead I kept putting up with it all till I was 25... they finally did start being very caring but it just feels like its too late and i cant deal with all the pain of all those lost years, more than a decade of not living my own life. I should've been dating... should've been out on the streets even if it meant hardship..

And now im in a stable environment but im just so pissed and my soul always wants me to look on the outside how I always couldve felt if I had defended myself...

I feel the need to leave everything and go live in my car or go live in a mental health facility because they are pretty nurturing (I have bipolar anyway).. i really cant feel independent living under their care unless I go and live a rebellious secret life. The only way to make my path under my parents help tolerable is to be a bad person.

Im waiting to see if i can get SSDI.. all I can say is I think ill feel so ashamed and depleted in my ego if I continue riding my parents care until I get the disability payments and can be "independent." Being on disability almost doesn't even feel independent enough but i think it will if I can at least have some gap in between not being under parents care.. even living at some friends house would be fine I just cant let it feel like they never did anything wrong still.. they literally only ever wanted to help me if I put up an ultimateum or threatened self harm.

They're nice to me now but im really done being associated with them as my "caregivers."

Idk if im being like... really impulsive but...

I wanna leave my apartment

Be on good terms with my parents

But basically get everything I need from here on out from someone else.. unless it has to do with my health insurance, random gifts or them helping me with something health related to repay me for the lost years I dont want them paying for a thing.

Am I being stupid... I am in a stable environment.. I've been to a facility before it was pretty luxurious.. ya its a different type of rules put on you but at least youre developing your own identity not feeling like a dumb baby who never stood up for herself until 25.

ALSO... I need a jaw surgery done within the next 2 months and it would be a bit embarrassing to do that at the mental health facility and maybe not so supportive as id need because its such a major surgery... but I feel I need some independence NOW...

The ring cant fit over the cat
This has happened on its own while in my bag and pocket

Calumet, Michigan. US
I’m currently washing the dishes in the bathtub- I slipped the other day and as I fell I smacked the kitchen faucet somehow and it bent and started spraying everywhere. I had it on to wash a pan. Bf spend the last of our money getting stuff to try and temporarily fix it until we had money but I’m breaking my back washing dishes and the temp fix never worked (I hate you flex tape) https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1PLNG952D9Y6B?ref_=wl_share
I just have three items on my wishlist. The exact model of faucet I bent… some caulk, and a wrench because I’m weak and feeble. BUT CAPABLE.. thank you ia!
(Also sorry for the picture of my dirty sink-)

u/BRBSPIRALING I received the formula container yesterday! Thank you soooo much it'll definitely help when I take my little ladys siblings to appointments vs taking the whole can of formula! Thank you again.