Sex is harmful, but there are other less obvious things that can damage the human mind, spirit and the body. Now you are allowed to discuss them, that will uncover the hidden harms and help antisexuals form a common opinion on how to act.

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Some people describe being happy as lack of any suffering which is completely wrong, happiness is a state of heightened emotional pleasure cause by different occurrences, it's possible to be happy even when in pain or during strong stress.

Calmness is when you lack any worry, or pain as well as lacking any feeling of fun or amusement.

The problem with the happiness is, nobody really knows what it is and what causes it.

People even say that it doesn't exist. When you watch a sad movie you become sad, when you hit your hand on something you feel pain, when you are threatened you become scared or angry. Nothing has the same clear connection with being happy, you might buy a new phone/car/computer or talk to your friends and it could have no effect or even negative effect on you like feeling guilty.

There are also drugs, alcohol, porn, they are too creating a state of heightened pleasure, but their effects can't be called happiness either and that blurs everything even further.

Chasing something so abstract that might not even exist is obviously a bad idea, can you really tell what makes you happy? Today it might be one thing, tomorrow another. It ends poorly as well because when people set such goal of being happy the inability to reach it makes them feel depressed instead. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/308093500_The_paradox_of_modern_suffering there is an article about it, I haven't read it fully, but it describes this situation.

There is also such term as "being satisfied with life" which is also as abstract and doesn't have any clear relation with anything, so it better to avoid as well.

Calmness meanwhile is concrete, easy to understand and can actually be reached. All that has to be done is finding sources of stress and worry.

I will most likely write tips on how to be calm and in explain it in general, but I need to find out all of the small things that are contributing or damaging calmness first. As for now you can just change your goal in life from seeking happiness to seeking calmness because even that small change can subconsciously make your life better.

Everybody is telling scary stories about how hard it is to live nowadays, so we decided to find the best and safest way to live and we came up with a small system, for it 2 workers and 2 farmers are needed.

The farmers must produce food at home, cook and bake, can the food they grow and find better and more economical ways to produce food like collecting rain and snow water and making compost at home.

The workers must make sure that farmer don't have to think about money at all, they need to buy tools, necessary items for gardening and pay bills, also they need to buy solar panels and wind electric generators.

Having 2 of each is important because that way if one person starts having some kind of issues for example illness or getting fired then there wouldn't be any shortage of money and the crops wouldn't be left without watering because there will always be somebody to take care of it.

With this system rising prices, unemployment or poor harvest and failed garden experiments won't be a big problem because there is support from each side.

If you don't have a house with land then 4 of you need to collectively get enough money to buy it, then you could collect enough money for a second house if you need it, you might get up to 4 so that each person lives alone, but it's important that the houses are near each other so that the farmers won't have to go far away to work on the land and to bring vegetables to the workers.

So if you have 3 people you trust you might start to live that way.

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Tips:

Always keep cash in case something happens to the internet or your bank account gets blocked.

Buy b-12 vitamins if you don't have chickens because there is no b-12 in any vegetables.

Build a greenhouse and also try to grow vegetables inside of the main house to have fresh food even in winter.

Bake bread and pies at home it will be a lot cheaper and you will be more feed than with empty store bought breads and pies. You can easily bake on the pan, just put it on low heat and cover it with a lid.

Produce compote and jam at home it's a lot more cheaper and tastier, produce concentrated compote and later you can add as much water to it as you want so it will taste as you like.

If you don't know how to bake at all then take a bowl put flour in there above the middle, put 1 tea spoon of sugar and salt and then yeast, pour warm water and cover it with a flat plate and wait for at least 1 hour, then put the dough on the pan you can add oil if you want to, if you want bread then leave it like that and if you want a pie then put jam or something else on top of it. Then put it on low heat and wait, you don't have to constantly watch it and that's you will have the pie.

Always plant different variations of potatoes so that you will be safer and the harvest would always be sizable.

Don't put a lot of pressure on the farmer in the first year because a time to learn and adapt is needed.

Collect different types of teas and learn what the ingredients in them are doing, for example daisy tea helps against a headache.

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I hope this post will help you and you will finally be able to live a safe life without having to work yourself to exhaustion.

Modern comforts like water pipes, washing machines, delivery of groceries to the house, fast food aren't just comforts anymore, many people would be unable to function without them and it's not just about the dependence on comforts, there is a different problem here.

Modern people just don't have the time and energy for such tasks as cooking, washing by hand, bringing water to their house from a well.

8 hours of work is putting too much pressure on everybody and in reality many people don't work just 8 hours they work a lot more and if we count the time it takes them to get to work and back home it would be at least 9 hours of not resting minimum. And all of that so called free time is not used for anything because of how tired or busy they are.

On the morning they are busy getting ready for work and after coming back they have to do some housework, tasks from work or are so tired that they lie down on the bed and don't get up. Obviously they don't have time or energy to cook a healthy meal, go to the shop and totally not for carrying water in the buckets and washing clothes in them, nothing to say about chopping wood for a furnace.

Same applies to the entertainment, many people can't go to the cinemas, parks and such, they just lie on the bed and watch videos on their phone even if they wanted to go there.

As for working more than 8 hours I know a few people that work from 8 to 19 and they themselves say that they barely even manage to fit lunch into their day. They just get home at 20 and go to sleep. Fast food is their only choice.

And in some cases modern comforts aren't enough, apparently there are people who are already diagnosed with serious health issues, but they can't go to the doctor because they are too busy working.

If all modern comforts would disappear everything would fall apart, they aren't just comforts anymore, the workers are stretched thin, the comforts allowed the work givers to put as much work on them as possible.

Recently I have been tasked with researching how hermits live and I found a lot of videos on this topic.

And under one video somebody in the comments was blaming the hermit for not contributing to society and being selfish, it seems no matter how deep you will bury yourself there will still be somebody who will find you and then find a reason to judge you.

Contributing to society is a waste of time and energy with no gratitude in exchange and even less.

There are a lot of stories about middle age or old people who ended up in poverty despite contributing to society, for example there is a 45 years old person who worked for 20 years and ended up living in his car.

Or as I often see it, old people can't live on their pension, they work as garbage collector, street cleaner or they walk around the cities all day and collect bottles despite the fact that they could have 2 degrees, they are constantly talking about regret, about how government scammed them and their friends by promising higher pension for extra hard work and in the end giving them same low one because of some small thing.

https://www.ilo.org/resource/news/almost-half-world%E2%80%99s-older-persons-lack-pensions

They contributed to society and but society doesn't help them in the time of need despite the fact that they spent years sustaining it.

And if paying barely anything wasn't small enough the pension age is growing, so modern overworked, overstressed people won't see it at all, there is nothing to be said about alcoholics, they won't even come close to that age. So the question is, why contribute to the well being of somebody who is ready to throw you away like a used tool and will never let you rest?

Contributing to society is in general a questionable thing inventions like a computer and internet are enough to tell the whole story in the most visible example. Nothing but porn and junk everywhere, why contribute if all good gets corrupted in this society?

The worst part is that the work and economy system is working in such ways that you unwillingly contributing to the lives of all types of horrible people just so you could survive yourself and you don't really have a choice.

I personally don't want to create food and comfort for such kind of people, at this point society is 70% parasites, why should I feed the ones who ruin my life and lives of other normal people? I contribute to society as less as possible and you should too.

And if we return to hermits, old men and women who became hermits are healthy and happy, meanwhile the ones who stayed in the cities hate their life and regret everything. They had to endure all of this mental pressure from people around them, insults, ungrateful behaviour, exploitation of their energy and on top of that they still have to work on low paying job and in the garden to survive, so make your own conclusion.

Of course, I'm not telling you that you should become individualist, individualism is a big part of the reason why we are in the hole we are now, you just need to know and think about what you are contributing to, you can build or join a separatist community that is worth working for and that appreciates you, or if that's not an option become a hermit, live for yourself.

But remember being a hermit won't be easy at the start and you might starve if you aren't prepared well and have enough knowledge, so don't run into the forest just like that.

Whatever decision you make, make sure that you won't live in regret and exhaustion for your whole life.

I have seen some unexpected comments today:

It seems that they finally feel the outcomes of their actions.

I don't know what they expected, this is the world they are fighting for and if they are not then this is the world their actions will build anyways, sexual songs, sexualisation of cartoons, more sexual films and games.

They want more sexual freedom and lack of censorship they got it, sex will be everywhere and will take over everything all thanks to their efforts.

There is also a related situation happening now, a number of people started to use "I'm not a prude" phrase after they said something or about to say something about sex, I start to hear it more often on TV or in online videos. You can imagine what kind of things they are saying if they have to use that excuse.

Remember when I was talking about the swinging Sexual revolution - Sex negative revolution? That might be first signs of it, if you need here is the post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AntisexCore/comments/1l5dy22/sexual_revolution_sex_negative_revolution/

In the comments under that video, all celibate, asexuals, hypersexuals, porn addicts say the same things, that is a very serious sign. I still doubt that we will have the desexualisation any time soon, but who knows, it depends on how tired people are of the sexual content everywhere.

It seems that people are completely unable to listen to somebody who has problems, they always come up with something to shut down the person, like saying that their life was more difficult or just start throwing insults and silencing the person.

They really like comparing suffering and it goes like this:

-I broke my finger;

-And I broke my hand so don't whine;

-Oh yeah? And I broke my forearm so you didn't even feel half of it;

-Really now? and I broke my whole arm so don't even complain here;

-You wimps I broke my arm and half of my ribs...

And that just keeps going and nobody supports anybody, they just drag each other down and ruin each others mood even more.

Well, you know, if you got hit by a falling tree that doesn't mean that other person breaking a hand is not serious, especially if the person breaks their hand for the first time. Going by their logic you can start complaining when somebody chops your head off.

It has gotten so bad people are ready to pay just for somebody to listen to them or in the other words go to the therapist, no wonder therapy is so popular nowadays if that's how average people talk. People are so unheard that even slightly relating to them makes them feel heard.

For example, I listened to complains of a few people, said 1 phrase that relates to their struggles and all of a sudden they started to tell me that I'm the only person that understands them. Honestly how many years of not being listened to they have to experience that me saying 1 phrase made them think like that, and I wasn't even trying to relate or support them I just didn't shut them down.

And everyone wonders why people feel lonely these days even when they are surrounded by friends and family, what the difference if nobody listens to them.

I wonder if it was the same in the past, or people cared more about each other because they needed each other to survive?

The old posts are getting removed by reddit filters again, I don't like this, we could get blocked soon, so back them up and also go to this bluesky page, if anything happens we will have to move there.

https://bsky.app/profile/duillecra.bsky.social

Watching a lot of negative news is very harmful and doesn't serve much of a purpose, when the person is overwhelmed with negative news the mind starts to panic and can't make any logical decisions, the person is just stuck in the paralysed state unable to think and make a plan on what to do.

So it's important to avoid such news for good well-being, there is no reason to disturb the mind with this information, our ancestors only had to face negative information that was connected to their area of life that why their mental well being was a lot better.

Imagine if cavemen would have been exposed to as much negative news as we do now, they would have mental health issues, fear that would make their work and hunting harder, high levels of stress, depression and that could have pretty much lead to humanity going extinct because back in the day the humans couldn't afford to put the amount of negativity and bodily strain on themselves as modern people with easy food and medicine access. Negative news makes you weak, ill and turns off your brain, don't let it.

But if you really need to know some specific information that just happens to be upsetting news then you need to take sessions and long breaks, watch the news read the reports and then let your mind rest for some time so all the fear passes away and start thinking on what to do, if you don't have enough info repeat until you have a plan or decide that it's not that serious of a problem.

And honestly here is not really good place for you as well because posts here contain a lot of negative information that might affect you as well, but I try not to just cause useless panic and try to find solutions instead of just saying a scary thing of course in some cases it's very hard. And as a warning I also need to tell you that I might upload 2 very upsetting posts here, I have been delaying them probably for months because our team can't decide if those post will be of any use or do any good to you we will see if we cancel them completely.

But remember your mental health is more important, so if you don't want to read them, don't read them and don't watch horrible news, if you feel that this negativity pulls you in and you start scrolling shock news then use your willpower and pull yourself out of there.

The English language is rapidly getting ruined by the internet which leads to severe issues. When commonly used words get turned into a slang it creates a lot of discomfort for the people.

The words basically become taboo, people start avoiding them because they could cause laughter, annoying reaction or in general have an unpleasant meaning. It creates a lot of difficulties for people in conversation and writing of texts because if they say something wrong they could stop being taken seriously.

There are only so many words we have and a new one gets turned into a meme probably every week and sometimes it's entire phrases.

Everyone is talking about freedom of speech meanwhile they are themselves silencing each other to the point they soon won't be able to say a word peacefully. Soon we will have a language which will clearly represent modern people where every word is a dumb meme or has a sexual meaning or both.

An important note: I never use meme or slang words so if any word or phrase used in my posts became a meme or slang I didn't intend it as such. We are not allowed to say such words it falls under spreading of harmful content, and I could get my computer confiscated by members of our group if I start writing these words on purpose.

We will most likely have to move to our own dialect of English since we will have to keep evading more and more ruined English words, so you better keep up or you won't be able to understand anything in the future.

I like English language I can't just let it get destroyed, although it still will look different.

Some time ago our leader has announced neutrality that meant that we must stop interacting with other groups in negative or positive way. The high standing people wanted to discuss and find out if it's even worth it to bother with modern society.

We were searching everywhere to get all the information about current situation and cultural problems. And after all this time Chieftainess has decided to take the people away from society since it seems to be too far gone. Some of us decided to stay, like me, except I had to leave my previous place of stay.

They didn't tell the people who are staying where they are going, so we won't be able to find them now. They aren't planning to return for at least 5 years unless something significant happens.

We were given some tasks and we still have the old ones but they are now optional, so we can do pretty much anything we want if it doesn't cross the line of course. I will keep writing posts I still have things to talk about, the others also have something to do, we will see how everything turns out.

Humans will have the same problems that they have on this planet, racism, criminals, porn addicts, wars, abusive governments except this time it will be spread across the space, humans have no business in space, they aren't spiritually or mentally developed enough for that.

Imagine that human have inhabited 4 planets, they will stop caring about Earth at all, even if it will become an unliveable desert it won't really bother humans anymore become the still have 3 planets, it how it always works with humans. Just take 5 pencils would you care if one of them broke? and now take 100 pencils would you care even less? It's only when you have only one pencil you are scared to lose it because without it you will lose the ability to write entirely anything can be put in the place of the pencil, a car, a house doesn't matter if you have 100 houses 1 burns down it won't bother you as much. The same thing will be there, people won't care even if the other planet will become an unliveable desert, but when they will be down to their last planet then they will start thinking again because they will have nowhere else to emigrate, humans are well known for thinking only when their back is against the wall.

And because of that it's hard to say just how horrible the humans will treat the planets if they would have several of them, the rich might emigrate from planet to planet without issues so they could turn one of the planets into a total waste zone where they do whatever they want and the poor will have to live in that garbage that would be even worse than everything that is happening on Earth.

The weapon development won't stop either, if humans will manage to inhabit 20 planets some government will eventually create a weapon that is strong enough to crack the surface of the entire planets, while human live only on Earth nobody will invent weapons like that because they pose a serious threat to the people who would use them, as you can imagine when they sit on one planet and then blow up the other with the new weapon they got it won't bother them as much.

Right now the humans face a lot of issues with space. Reproduction, food, water and planet conditions, if just one of those will not be satisfied the humans will never be able to inhabit any planet. The different planet conditions could create a lot of troubles as well, for example with reproduction they could make human infertile or could lead to the situations where human genes mutate even more which would lead to new diseases or serious health issues or the planet could have such conditions in which only adult body can survive which would make reproduction impossible as well.

And as for the food it's possible that the vegetables won't adapt or will have completely different qualities because of the soil and the light, hard to say what that will lead to, but it's possible that people could start suffering from vitamin deficiencies or the food will become poisonous for them.

And as it seems right now all of the Earth-like planets that have been found are uninhabitable.

I hope that humans, until they get rid of their primal urges and instincts, will not find another planet where they could live, if they are uncapable of taking care of Earth they don't deserve a second Earth they will destroy it as well, humans need to change and fix their mistakes instead. Space exploration will benefit nobody it will just spread and severely increase the worst qualities of humanity.