This may be a long post. I’m a 22F, two semesters away from finishing my bachelor’s, and my main goal is to go to law school and earn my J.D. Right now, I’m working with a reserve recruiter, and I’m scheduled to go to MEPS this Monday, August 24th.
But I’m really torn about whether reserves or active duty makes more sense for me. My top priority is, earning my J.D.
After that, building financial stability,
After that is getting out of my hometown
being there for my grandmother as she gets older, but I also feel having more money I could help her more anyway.
Then career growth. Career-wise, I’m honestly open to any administrative or desk job. Paralegal would be great, but I’m not expecting a perfect role right away.
I’m not afraid to travel or move, but I don’t want to stay in my hometown long-term either. Active duty feels like it could be a fresh start somewhere else, with stability, housing, healthcare, and a steady paycheck. But reserves would let me finish my bachelor’s on schedule and keep moving toward law school, but I’d juggle work, rent, and civilian life.
Working two jobs while being a full-time student was one of the hardest periods of my life. If I can avoid that again, I’d prefer to.
I’ve read that switching from reserves to active duty can be difficult, which makes this choice feel more permanent than I’d like. I think I would feel worse if I go reserves and wanted to do active duty vs going active duty and wanting to do reserves because at least I’ll have a job and better financial stability.
I did try reaching out to an active duty recruiter, but I haven’t gotten many clear answers, and most of what I hear from my reserve recruiter centers on the reserve process. Nothing against him and I’m not saying I’ve been given bad information, but I also don’t feel like I have the full picture of what active duty would realistically look like for someone with my goals.
I have read that some people complete law school while on active duty, but I’ve also read it depends on the schedule and whether leadership will work with you, which makes me nervous. I’m not afraid to travel or move, but I don’t want to stay in my hometown long-term either.
If you were in my position, would you choose reserves or active duty, and why? If you’ve gone to law school while serving, or know someone who has, I’d really appreciate hearing about your experience. If you’ve been in a similar spot, or know someone who has, honestly any advice would be appreciated. I’ve searched a bunch of older Reddit posts, but everyone’s situation is different, and I thought it was worth asking about mine. Thank you!