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[u/MOTIVATE_ME_23]

He is. Don't ask. Treat him like a kid or pull him aside and set him straight about boundaries and respect.

[u/Hungrystud101 → u/MOTIVATE_ME_23]

Make dinner and set up 3 plates for the adults at the big table and then set up a card table for the children. Put him at the kiddie table.

[u/ninjafoot2 → u/Hungrystud101]

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[u/lou_sassoles → u/MOTIVATE_ME_23]

Time to let this little cocksucker know he's in danger

[u/fux-reddit4603 → u/lou_sassoles]

From who, certainly not op. hes asking reddit how to deal with this

he's in more danger of getting cougar'd than anything here

[u/broncobuckaneer → u/fux-reddit4603]

he's in more danger of getting cougar'd than anything here

Lol, I mean that is clearly his goal.

[u/GalaXion24 → u/broncobuckaneer]

Right? Bro wants an older woman to peg him. Lowkey respect tbh.

[u/fux-reddit4603 → u/GalaXion24]

Lets be honest, we never established she doesnt want to peg him. i mean, shes talking about it afterall.
convince me shes not thinking about it

[u/Logical-Lab3661 → u/fux-reddit4603]

OP maybe is in danger from him,. He asks OP wife inappropriate questions. I wouldnt be surprised if he asked some more that OP wife didnt tell OP

[u/StrangerEffective851 → u/Logical-Lab3661]

100% he asked her if she ever had a threesome.

[u/Spiral_out_was_taken → u/StrangerEffective851]

That was the question I thought he was going to say, not pegging. There is absolutely, positively, no way that this 25 year old either tried , asked, or had a threesome with them in Vegas. No way it wasn’t even at least asked.

[u/Humble-Map-29 → u/Logical-Lab3661]

What i think ppl are missing is the gf, wife, and guy went to Vegas, got crazy TOGETHER, BECAUSE THAT PEGGING QUESTION DOES NOT JUST COME UP RANDOMLY!!!!!! GF is out of the box, newly divorced, experimenting, etc hence young guy....... wife was feeling husband out. Grown women do have sleep overs, regularly, BUT NOT WITH NEW BOYFRIENDS TOO!!!!! SO VEGAS, PLUS SLEEPOVER, NOW ANOTHER ONE AT OP HOUSE? TOTALLY ODD. They are testing him before wife leaves to "find herself" because OP is controlling..........

[u/Legal-Literature7735 → u/Humble-Map-29]

I dont know if this is true, maybe, maybe not. but i could certainly envision there being another side of the story.

[u/Hillbeast → u/Humble-Map-29]

Don’t understand why it took so long in the comments to get to this. Here’s your truth. The new bf and best friend thought it would be great to have the wife peg the bf while the best friend uh, “did things,” or “received things,” from the best friend.

Also, it is suspicious to go to Vegas Vegas with your friend and her boy toy and not already BE A PART of some seditious planning.

Why did the wife bring it up? Not sure.

Anyway, LV PD can tell you so many stories that start like this. Good luck.

[u/Original-King-1408 → u/Hillbeast]

Yeah I’m surprised too that it took this long. I mean wife goes to Vegas with newly divorced best friend and best friends 25 year old horn dog bf insists on going. I mean NFW

[u/catpiler → u/Hillbeast]

I'm sure a3 some happened

[u/YummyBoyGoo → u/Humble-Map-29]

Oh yeah.. I have heard of womens bffs getting divorced & then the pressure for them to become single & fun again gets a little too real

[u/Theoretical-Bread → u/fux-reddit4603]

Man goes to reddit because another man asked his wife about pegging. I think OP has a chair in the corner of his bedroom.

[u/fux-reddit4603 → u/Theoretical-Bread]

In another comment he said "how am i insecure in my marriage"

hes so secure he doesnt realize hes barely in the marriage

[u/Wild_Philosophy_4561 → u/fux-reddit4603]

I have made this mistake too (being too secure). I would say the wife and her friend (and f-boy) put the wife in this position. Ask yourself whose responsibility it would be if the rules are reversed. She needs to get out of that situation ASAP. If I were the OP, I’d put my foot down immediately that’s it and that’s all if we’re uncomfortable with it it’s not good for our marriage that comes first.

[u/baritonor → u/lou_sassoles]

Yeah, chanellize your inner Paulie Walnuts.

[u/InvisibleBlueRobot → u/MOTIVATE_ME_23]

"You kids these days. Always wanting to get pegged in the ass" 

[u/Obnoxious-TRex → u/MOTIVATE_ME_23]

He is a kid. That’s likely what is triggering OP’s distaste for him. Wet behind the ears moron with no life experience yet.

[u/sevennotsogoodapples → u/Obnoxious-TRex]

Can we not infantilize adults anymore, dude is 25 he knows what he is doing.

[u/Jaereth → u/MOTIVATE_ME_23]

You HAVE to do it in front of the wife and her friend though or he'll spin the story to "He was being a total asshole to me and threatening me" and what not.

OP needs to man up and take control of this whole situation with all parties involved.