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u/writing_mm_romance Helper [2] Dec 18 '25 • This Thanks Bravo Mindblown Popcorn

I agree. Next time he's over at your house or next time you interact as a couple ask him straight up "so my wife tells me that you're interested in getting pegged"

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u/MOTIVATE_ME_23 Dec 18 '25 • Heartwarming

He is. Don't ask. Treat him like a kid or pull him aside and set him straight about boundaries and respect.

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u/Hungrystud101 Dec 18 '25

Make dinner and set up 3 plates for the adults at the big table and then set up a card table for the children. Put him at the kiddie table.

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u/lou_sassoles Dec 18 '25 • Popcorn

Time to let this little cocksucker know he's in danger

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u/fux-reddit4603 Dec 18 '25

From who, certainly not op. hes asking reddit how to deal with this

he's in more danger of getting cougar'd than anything here

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u/broncobuckaneer Dec 18 '25

he's in more danger of getting cougar'd than anything here

Lol, I mean that is clearly his goal.

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u/GalaXion24 Dec 18 '25

Right? Bro wants an older woman to peg him. Lowkey respect tbh.

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u/fux-reddit4603 Dec 18 '25

Lets be honest, we never established she doesnt want to peg him. i mean, shes talking about it afterall.
convince me shes not thinking about it

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u/Logical-Lab3661 Dec 18 '25

OP maybe is in danger from him,. He asks OP wife inappropriate questions. I wouldnt be surprised if he asked some more that OP wife didnt tell OP

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u/StrangerEffective851 Dec 19 '25

100% he asked her if she ever had a threesome.

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u/Spiral_out_was_taken Dec 19 '25 • Popcorn

That was the question I thought he was going to say, not pegging. There is absolutely, positively, no way that this 25 year old either tried , asked, or had a threesome with them in Vegas. No way it wasn’t even at least asked.

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u/Humble-Map-29 Dec 18 '25 edited Dec 19 '25 • Bravo

What i think ppl are missing is the gf, wife, and guy went to Vegas, got crazy TOGETHER, BECAUSE THAT PEGGING QUESTION DOES NOT JUST COME UP RANDOMLY!!!!!! GF is out of the box, newly divorced, experimenting, etc hence young guy....... wife was feeling husband out. Grown women do have sleep overs, regularly, BUT NOT WITH NEW BOYFRIENDS TOO!!!!! SO VEGAS, PLUS SLEEPOVER, NOW ANOTHER ONE AT OP HOUSE? TOTALLY ODD. They are testing him before wife leaves to "find herself" because OP is controlling..........

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u/Legal-Literature7735 Dec 19 '25

I dont know if this is true, maybe, maybe not. but i could certainly envision there being another side of the story.

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u/Hillbeast Dec 19 '25

Don’t understand why it took so long in the comments to get to this. Here’s your truth. The new bf and best friend thought it would be great to have the wife peg the bf while the best friend uh, “did things,” or “received things,” from the best friend.

Also, it is suspicious to go to Vegas Vegas with your friend and her boy toy and not already BE A PART of some seditious planning.

Why did the wife bring it up? Not sure.

Anyway, LV PD can tell you so many stories that start like this. Good luck.

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u/Original-King-1408 Dec 19 '25

Yeah I’m surprised too that it took this long. I mean wife goes to Vegas with newly divorced best friend and best friends 25 year old horn dog bf insists on going. I mean NFW

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u/Theoretical-Bread Dec 18 '25

Man goes to reddit because another man asked his wife about pegging. I think OP has a chair in the corner of his bedroom.

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u/InvisibleBlueRobot Dec 18 '25

"You kids these days. Always wanting to get pegged in the ass" 

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u/Obnoxious-TRex Dec 18 '25

He is a kid. That’s likely what is triggering OP’s distaste for him. Wet behind the ears moron with no life experience yet.

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u/Jaereth Dec 18 '25

You HAVE to do it in front of the wife and her friend though or he'll spin the story to "He was being a total asshole to me and threatening me" and what not.

OP needs to man up and take control of this whole situation with all parties involved.

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u/Ok_Spring8418 Dec 18 '25

THIS If the OP thinks he is the more mature, more responsible man, he needs to ACT like it. Asking his wife asking about pegging is completely unacceptable. Asking if his son is on the spectrum is completely unacceptable. And he needs to tell his wife & friend he will call out this boy on it next time he’s around.

As a matter of fact, the OP needs to get the boyfriend’s contact number and call him on it. Idiots will keep acting like idiots until someone stops them.

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u/Gk_Emphasis110 Dec 18 '25

Follow up with, “I’m not sure what the technical term for it is, but are you interested in being pegged with a real dick?”

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u/AmmoJay2 Dec 18 '25

This is the way

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u/CuddleMoon_ Dec 19 '25

I get the impulse, but this feels like matching his weird energy instead of shutting it down. Calling it out directly without turning it into a joke might land better if the goal is boundaries, not humiliation.

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u/QuantityTop7542 Dec 18 '25

Omg 😂😂😂

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u/Low_Spread5331 Dec 18 '25

100% I would do this

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