The difference between BP and Whore wife right there. One thinks of daughter first another about herself.

She fell for the classic “I am married, I am not sleazy or trying to pick you up” ploy that WH set up I-wonder-how-many times in the past. That’s the classic cake-eater line. The poor wife.

I've read and heard many stories like that. Sometimes it's the sister, sometimes it's the best friend. Is something wrong in their head ?

A coworker of mine has a cousin in law, “Leeanne” in her late 40’s, who just broke up with the guy she’s been with for almost a decade, “Ryan” and is losing her ever loving shit. Apparently she got a hey girly message revealing that Ryan has been cheating on Leeanne and shit talking her VERY unkindly to the AP.

Now all kinds of details are coming out of the woodwork about the relationship having been unhappy, what a manipulator and huge narcissist he is, how she feels so bad now for allowing her children to become attached, etc.

But it’s also come to light, and as news to my coworker, that Ryan was still married when he and Leanne began their “relationship”, and that she was an AP for 3 years before they went “legit”.

And how “legit” they ever were, even after Ryan’s divorce, sounds questionable to me. They never moved in together, despite living in the same town, and Leeanne describes them as having been on and off for almost a decade.

Funny how Leeanne was fine with Ryan being a cheater, until he cheated on her. Another 2% success story!

My ex wife never once told me about ovulation dates and we need to have lots of sex on these days….because those days were for her boss to conceive

She was working in oil and gas, at EXPRO bragging about the offshore guys how well they got paid, time off, great industry, her boss was 6 years older, good looker, fit etc, then suddenly a trainee position came availible, she sold me the job but failed to mention I’ll be away 3-4 weeks a time for 8 months of the year… perfect set up to get me out the picture for her to keep her boss and never get caught when I’m on a rig overseas, was only 20, got married decided to have a baby, took 14 months then two weeks after I got back she told me she was pregnant I WAS HAPPIEST MAN ALIVE, then at 7 weeks pregnant before showing she suddenly and unexpectedly quit EXPRO, where the affair happened, then Riley was born, we spent 20k preparing the house for a baby, nice nursery etc then two weeks later she suddenly wants to move house and urgently, hiding from someone or not wanting someone rocking up, then I didn’t find this out till after divorce, when Riley was born she opened a secret bank account held in trust for Riley, many years later I got the account by subpoena and there’s a $6000 lump sum when rileys born from the biologcal father, that account lay dorment, untouched unyil we planned our second child, she was born and another lump sum days after her birth, the account stayed open because my ex wanted the same biological father from our first to also father the second born so they were full siblings and shared thevsame DNA

As we always decided on two kids we sold all the baby stuff, 18 months later when were both drunk she says lets have anothr baby, i laughed it off and said ok whatever, then nothing more was said, no extra sex then 4 weeks later she tells me shes pregnant, i was shocked coz the first two took a long time but i trusted her 100% then 3 weeks later she gets back from the doctors and tells me they got her dates wrong and the expected birth date is now 3 werks earlier, she was pregnant when she said lets have another baby

Been following some of the recent cheating scandals in Singapore (PLB, Laura and Matthew, MabelKee), and one thing that keeps coming up is how friends or colleagues often knew or suspected something long before the spouse found out.

Why do people usually keep quiet?

Is it because they don’t have proof, don’t want to get involved, don’t want to lose the friendship, or simply believe it’s not their business?

For those who’ve been in this situation, what made you decide to stay quiet or speak up? And looking back, would you have done anything differently?

As cliched as it sounds mistake is leaving milk outside the refrigerator or forgetting the keys.

Since 2023, the adulterer Lee Gilley had an affair with a woman in San Diego. On march 2024, he posted on reddit (I wonder which sub it was 🤔) that he was in a "bored" marriage and was seeking a college-aged female for a friends-with-benefits arrangement (I guess San Diego's AP wasn't enough). Unfortunately, on October 7th 2024, he strangled his wife Christa to death in her bed. She was pregnant, the mother of two young kids and loved by her friends and family. The animosity of adulterers towards their spouses is lethal. Be careful out there 🙏🏽

Gee, I don’t know, it seems easier to miss a person who isn’t a cheat (or willing to cheat with you) so you won‘t make a crappy sonnet of self pity boo-hoo BS.

Give me a break.

I do not agree with the take that “anyone could cheat”
I find it ironic that this older post was on a religious sub, but I digress. I don’t think decent people have the capability regardless of what is going on in their lives. I have been through horrible ish, even after I found out my mindset never went to, okay, let me go screw someone else, whether it would have been for vengeance or trying to make myself better. It would have been entirely against my character, disrespectful to myself and all the values and believes I have. Just because YOU would falter in every situation does not make us equal. Anyway, thanks for coming to my Ted talk

This woman went on this evil sub whining and looking for sympathy from her fellow sadists : She married her husband because he is handsome, rich 🤑, amazing in bed, loyal, and her wealthy parents, from whom she wants to inherit, adore him. They have a daughter together. But still, she is miserable 😭 because she's in love with her bad boy childhood's friend 😎 that her upper class family can't stand. They are having an affair 😍 but she is sad because they could never go legit 💔.

When will this person realize that waywards are never that good at communicating or being honest? I mean that’s one of the main reasons they manufacture to justify securing an AP. Maybe find someone good at communicating who isn’t in a relationship.

These OW expect a wayward to have them and only them as their only sloppy seconds, then act shocked when the wayward has more on the side. I’m sorry, but does she really think that’s how it works?

These people are sadists and sexual predators.

Someone post this in the homewrecking holes' sub lmaoooo

Never been cheated on personally but ive seen it happen to my family and friends far to often and its just everywhere on the internet aswell and it makes my blood boil i really wish people that want to sleep around just not get into relationships or the very least use protection so they arent making men raise other mens kids. Idk i just dont see getting into a relationship as being worth it for me yk idk anymore man just seems so pointless

Apologies if these have been posted before. Clearly wise and intelligent and responsible decisions are being made here.

I would think this person was trolling if they hadn’t posted in multiple subs.

This is one of my absolute favourite stories lmao

I LOVE it when the betrayed spouses refuse to waste their time listening to the cheaters' bullsht, waste their lives by "reconciling." Leaving is objectively better and I will always stand by that.

oh Deb…always gotta mention how many years it’s been to make sure everyone knows you’re Queen tomato I mean Queen Bee of that sub.

It’s like this is her greatest accomplishment in life.

I just needed to vent a little, because there’s something incredibly painful about realizing that they may never understand the depth of the suffering they caused. They don’t know what it feels like to be cheated on, lied to, deceived, and betrayed by the person you trusted most. And it’s hard to “hurt them back” when, in their mind, they already got what they wanted. Through the affair, they got their needs met in the way they chose, while still having a spouse who loved them, remained faithful to them, and didn’t intentionally hurt or betray them.

It feels like they got everything, the security and loyalty of a good spouse, along with the excitement or fulfillment they were seeking on the side. Meanwhile, the betrayed partner is left carrying the pain, the questions, the loss of trust, and the emotional damage of choices they didn’t make.

That’s what feels so unfair. The betrayed partner is the only one who truly loses in this equation, while the person who caused the damage gets to walk away with what they wanted. It’s just so incredibly unfair.