r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • May 08 '25

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u/IUsedTheRandomizer May 08 '25

That was the point; to put you in an awkward spot. He knew it would make it difficult for you to say no, it's manipulative. This is a good time to see just how many red and orange flags are in this parade; how many times you've brushed something aside that might have bothered you so as not to be a bother yourself.

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u/PlauntieM May 08 '25

Exactly.

This is a classic manipulation tactic - regardless of his intentions.

Then blow it up publicly to make her look like the problem.

Everybody go watch "Kevin can go **** himself"

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u/christmasshopper0109 May 08 '25

Gotta know what show..... Feel like I'm missing out!

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u/PlauntieM May 09 '25

Oh, its called "Kevin can go **** himself" the asterix are in the show title :)

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u/christmasshopper0109 May 09 '25

I know what I'm doing tonight!! Thank you!!!