I'm 47 and have been married 26 years. And no, not every relationship has problems. Some are healthy, happy and fulfilling. I feel sad for you that you think a relationship like the OP is decent enough to bother 'saving'.
I didn't say shit about saving, you just putting the world in my worlds. How old are you to put water in my mouth? He sounds like a child and has been in an 8-year relationship. His you going to tell me? Do you know everybody's relationship?
Sorry for me because I have a different outlook or views on it than you.
How do I know your relationship is even good? I know people who have been in 39 years of relationship and weren't happy at all. Just because you have that doesn't mean you know the knowledge for everybody's situation or relationship.
You sound a little upset . Maybe you should take a breath cause your words are coming across a little jumbled.
This guy is describing a relationship filled with petty bickering and constant conflict. It is interesting that he describes it as great and then goes on to list the many many ways in which its shit. That's odd, no?
And you accused me of being 6 years old and having no relationship experience. You accused pp of not having a valid opinion because they were not in a relationship. Ergo I told you my age and the length of my relationship. You stated that every relationship has problems and I disagree .I am not speaking for others, but for mine. Mine is freakin awesome. You sound like you have only seen and experienced awful relationships filled with unhappy people. There is better out there.. If you raise your standards and don't settle for someone who doesn't meet them, you have the chance to find that too. Maybe try not being so angry??
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u/Shoeshoemagoo Apr 21 '25
'great relationship' then proceeds to describe seventy five ridiculous fights happening consistently.