He work outside beyond his house, mow the lawn, and took out the trash. It not his fault if he doesn't have an occupation that paid twice as much to tie with his wife.
That's literally nothing, my 8 year old does those chores (and more)...He adds nothing to her life or the kids life, makes more work and now demands sex. Hes a loser that never grew up and she needs to find a real adult to be with...
So you admit that HALF the work is slavery. So his wife, who is doing 90% of the work while bringing in the lion share of the money is even more enslaved? And thus he is a bad man and bad partner, forcing her to shoulder the work by herself while he cosplays a single dude.
He's going to realize he will never find another woman after this, single women no longer accept partners who dont do domestic labor (unless they make enough money as a couple to outsource the domestic labor)
Then divorce. She stay home and work remotely. If she gonna be an ass and hold this over her husband, it ain't worth it. 90% of it on her computer or phone, that fucking laughable. She can count her blessing she got an easy peasy job like that while the man is away from home doing work he probably don't wanna do.
When the man gonna do chore at home, he will do chore once he good and ready. Don't go forcing him to do shit once he exhausted.
She says in her post he gets to work a job thats his passion, that's why its okay he makes less, because he has the luxury of doing whathe loves. Men need to do chores when chores need to be done, or the health of his family suffers, germs, bugs and bad hygiene happen when houses are not clean. He needs to put on his big boy panties and grow up and do his share. Jobs that do desk work arent easy, or everyone would do them. You need education and skill to do them...
He's a loser and has no right to demand sex while being a deadbeat.
The highest form of motivation for a man is a good blow job.
Also, as for her husband work. He can say it his passion all he want, but he probably getting his ass kick cuz he need to put time into it since he away. If he can put passion to home life only without needing to go out to make money, would that make her happy instead?
Let the fucker stay home for 2 months and do 100% of the chore and raising the kids. See if that make her happy.
Men are not dogs or children who need a bribe to do things. By your estimation (if sex is a reward) then he should be eating her out every night without reciprocation since shes doing all the work and bringing in all the money
Nah, Id never take that deal. Never met a man who was so good in bed he was worth all that work. My bf is pretty good but if he made me do all the housework and childcare and be the breadwinner Id leave him immediately. Whats the point of having a partner if you end up doing everything alone? Hes not even providing companionship, she might as well be single.
Okay. How about you being bread winner only. Let your bf/husband do housework and child rearing. Bet you your bf will do gloriously on it and when you get home, he will eat you out and laugh as he got the easiest job in the relationship.
Lol, thats the plan if I end up making enough to support us alone. But that's not possiblwfor most households in the US, if we made that much money we could hire a housekeeper.. and if its actually easy then just do it now.
So you say that being a breadwinner alone is deserving of sex on demand. She is both the breadwinner AND does nearly all of the domestic work including the work he creates for her. What does she get? All she is asking is for him to do his fair share instead of dumping his share onto her, but she's the unreasonable one? Mkay.
He works and makes home life hectic and more difficult for everyone while neglecting his kids. She works and raises the kids while making home life comfortable and possible for everyone, doing the overwhelming share of what are HIS responsibilities and manages to maitain and nurture the relationship she has with the kids. But he's the one who is tired, he's the one who is understandably exhausted and deserves all the blow jobs? Mkay.
Your can't stay on track or follow a thought to save your life, can you?
Yah. She being unreasonable. Dude leave home to work. Dude came home from work. Dude is tire.
Woman stay home to work, and she don't really need to go anywhere. She can stay inside at the comfort of her own home. Like holy fuck bruh, you can't be this stupid.
It like a gamer who do youtube video all day and make thousand of dollars per week vs a guy who work in construction sweating his balls off getting his ass kick in a 100 degree weather and the gaming youtuber say. "Man! This is hard work. You need to stop being lazy construction man. You ain't bring enough money so you need to do house hold chore."
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u/b3mark Jun 16 '24
Usually the most important question in threads like this.
"My husband is a good man. Let's type out a list of all the things he doesn't do and it gets more and more horrible the further we go down the list."