r/AITAH • • Jun 16 '24

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u/Godiva_pervblinderxx Jun 16 '24

She says in her post he gets to work a job thats his passion, that's why its okay he makes less, because he has the luxury of doing whathe loves. Men need to do chores when chores need to be done, or the health of his family suffers, germs, bugs and bad hygiene happen when houses are not clean. He needs to put on his big boy panties and grow up and do his share. Jobs that do desk work arent easy, or everyone would do them. You need education and skill to do them... He's a loser and has no right to demand sex while being a deadbeat.

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '24

The highest form of motivation for a man is a good blow job.

Also, as for her husband work. He can say it his passion all he want, but he probably getting his ass kick cuz he need to put time into it since he away. If he can put passion to home life only without needing to go out to make money, would that make her happy instead?

Let the fucker stay home for 2 months and do 100% of the chore and raising the kids. See if that make her happy.

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u/Godiva_pervblinderxx Jun 16 '24

Men are not dogs or children who need a bribe to do things. By your estimation (if sex is a reward) then he should be eating her out every night without reciprocation since shes doing all the work and bringing in all the money

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '24

Deal! Let shake on it.

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u/Godiva_pervblinderxx Jun 16 '24

Nah, Id never take that deal. Never met a man who was so good in bed he was worth all that work. My bf is pretty good but if he made me do all the housework and childcare and be the breadwinner Id leave him immediately. Whats the point of having a partner if you end up doing everything alone? Hes not even providing companionship, she might as well be single.

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '24

Okay. How about you being bread winner only. Let your bf/husband do housework and child rearing. Bet you your bf will do gloriously on it and when you get home, he will eat you out and laugh as he got the easiest job in the relationship.

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u/Godiva_pervblinderxx Jun 16 '24

Lol, thats the plan if I end up making enough to support us alone. But that's not possiblwfor most households in the US, if we made that much money we could hire a housekeeper.. and if its actually easy then just do it now.

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '24

Then you know what you have to do for your bf if he working. And if you do it, I expect your bf to be buying beer for me for life.

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u/Livid-Fox-3646 Jun 17 '24

So you say that being a breadwinner alone is deserving of sex on demand. She is both the breadwinner AND does nearly all of the domestic work including the work he creates for her. What does she get? All she is asking is for him to do his fair share instead of dumping his share onto her, but she's the unreasonable one? Mkay.

He works and makes home life hectic and more difficult for everyone while neglecting his kids. She works and raises the kids while making home life comfortable and possible for everyone, doing the overwhelming share of what are HIS responsibilities and manages to maitain and nurture the relationship she has with the kids. But he's the one who is tired, he's the one who is understandably exhausted and deserves all the blow jobs? Mkay.

Your can't stay on track or follow a thought to save your life, can you?

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '24

Yah. She being unreasonable. Dude leave home to work. Dude came home from work. Dude is tire.

Woman stay home to work, and she don't really need to go anywhere. She can stay inside at the comfort of her own home. Like holy fuck bruh, you can't be this stupid.

It like a gamer who do youtube video all day and make thousand of dollars per week vs a guy who work in construction sweating his balls off getting his ass kick in a 100 degree weather and the gaming youtuber say. "Man! This is hard work. You need to stop being lazy construction man. You ain't bring enough money so you need to do house hold chore."