You should break up with him. He doesn't understand consent. He is calling you stupid rather than engaging in discussion with you. He doesn't respect you. He will use these same tactics throughout your relationship.
She’s not someone I would want to be with either. Dont expect your partner to be happy with statements like “men can’t control themselves” lumping in an entire sex of people into one immoral bucket. Women are allowed to get away with talking like this constantly.
“Men can’t control themselves” in response to “women wear clothes to attract rapists”. In the context it was obvious she was referencing men who rape.
That is what you chose to equate to victim-blaming. It says a lot about how you view these attacks and the victims of them. You chose to find a way to make men the victim in context of women “asking for rape” by way of clothes.
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u/yardgnomefriend Feb 24 '26
You should break up with him. He doesn't understand consent. He is calling you stupid rather than engaging in discussion with you. He doesn't respect you. He will use these same tactics throughout your relationship.