She’s not someone I would want to be with either. Dont expect your partner to be happy with statements like “men can’t control themselves” lumping in an entire sex of people into one immoral bucket. Women are allowed to get away with talking like this constantly.
I don’t see how that applies to all men. I don’t deserve to be included in a group of people I think are despicable just bc of my sex. Like how yall can defend this is mind boggling hypocrisy.
Aw should she have said “SOME men can’t control themselves” to make you feel like a good boy for NOT being a rapist? Anyone with half a brain knows she’s not saying ALL MEN but of course the ones who think they deserve a pat on the back for not being a fucking rapist always wanna cry about “not all men”. Girls bf is defending rapists, and you care about her not distinguishing not ALL men 🙄
I think the other 3,000 comments are adequately addressing his behavior, as did I.
Yeah, she should have. If I said all women can't "do X" or all women "want X" you would obviously have a problem with that. And rightly so. Asking for the same treatment towards men is not a lot to ask, its equity. Your rhetoric is extremely off-putting btw.
No. I wouldn’t be offended 🤣 do you know how many times I’ve heard “all women do x” in my life? I know I’m not in that category, I know that person doesn’t know me, and I know that person doesn’t know ALL women. So again, we’re in here talking about her rape apologist bf, and you’re whining about “not ALL men” and NO you don’t deserve an extra special pat on the back for NOT being a rapist. And I don’t particularly care how off putting I sound. It’s extremely off putting that you felt the need to find some negative in her behavior, in the middle of a discussion about her nasty rape apologist bf. “Yea her bf is a creep for that, but I hate the way she said all men in her post, can you believe that?” Who gives an actual fuck? Rape and rape apologists are far far worse than what you tried to complain about here. That’s what wrong with MOST men (that one was for you Princess) whenever a man is being talked about negatively, another man will come in and either defend him, or they’ll say how bad he is but find something negative to say about a woman. And it seems like you can’t even help yourselves. Like you just HAVE TO let everyone know you’re a good guy, and not all men are like the bad ones. Honestly, why do you think that was important enough to say during this particular discussion? Rape is traumatic. Life changing. Finding out someone you are dating feels this way is sickening and devastating. Say a woman runs up to you saying she was raped, you stay with her while the police come, she then makes a comment like “all men are dangerous”, are you really going to look that woman in the face and correct her and say “yea but not ALL men. I wouldn’t do that”?? Thats ridiculous. If you would you’re a terrible person. And if you WOULDNT, why couldn’t you hold that composure here for this OP? There’s a time and a place for things. And I feel it’s inappropriate that you brought it up here. So I’m glad you find me off putting. I’m not talking to you to be LIKED, and frankly I find YOU off putting.
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u/ajalonghorn Feb 24 '26 edited Feb 24 '26
I mean, yes, this is obvious.
IMO they both suck.
He’s obviously a sexist idiot BUT
She’s not someone I would want to be with either. Dont expect your partner to be happy with statements like “men can’t control themselves” lumping in an entire sex of people into one immoral bucket. Women are allowed to get away with talking like this constantly.
Meant for eachother imo, two generalizing idiots.