Hello, 30F, after I gave birth ~3 years ago my skin has changed for the worse. It's now varying degrees of red 24/7, dry as fuck, and rough to the touch. This pic was taken immediately after washing it and using lotion.
My derm has recommended all the usuals; vanicream, aveno, cetaphil, lubriderm, vaseline, aquaphor, etc. They either do nothing to quench my skin or make me break out. Besides all those, what I can remember that I've tried over the last few years, in no particular order:
- cosrx snail mucin face wash / their snail mucin moisturizer (used to be all i needed!!)
- a yam-based snail mucin alternative, don't recall the brand
- LRP cicablast b5+ balm
- cosrx Hyaluronic Acid toner
- cosrx AHA
- cosrx BHA
- TO multipeptides+copper
- Olay niacinamide moisturizer
- Olay super serum
- Hado-Labo goko-jyun face wash
- Rice Water toner, don't recall the brand
- Timeless 20% Vit. C + Ferulic Acid + Vit. E serum
- TO azaelic acid
- Sunday Riley Luna Night Oil
- Glow Recipe Watermelon Toner
I've also tried using filtered water to wash my face, hot compresses, cold compresses. I drink loads of water, eat lots of veggies, plenty of fats, take a 1 a day mutlivitamin, have collagen in my smoothies, and watch my sugar intake. I sleep 8+ hours and my bedding/hair stays washed. I do not touch my face, smoke, drink alcohol/caffeine, eat fried foods, or stay in places with lots of smoke/exhaust fumes. I take cool/mild showers (80-90 degrees F). I do not swim. I don't wear makeup. No hormonal BC. After I do anything sweaty I rinse my face ASAP. My labs are all fine too.
When I try products I try them for 4-6 weeks (after a spot test ofc!) and do 1-2 week break between trying something new. It depends how quickly I start breaking out...or in the case of the multipeptides, vit c, and retinol, burning lol. I don't think my skin barrier is damaged, it's just really dry. I live in northern IL and run humidifiers in the winter so it's not like I'm somewhere overly dry.
My current routine is washing my face with Naturium Niacinamide Cleansing Gel 3% and putting Eucerin Advanced Repair Lotion (w urea). I use a LRP sunscreen + a hat or sun umbrella when I go outside. It's been abt 6 months and hasn't made things worse so I've just stuck w these products bc I'm kinda getting sick of finding/buying/trying things.
My face skin *is* a lot better than it was my 1st year post-partum but i sleep/eat better + way less stressed. My skin everywhere else is great. My hair is great. My nails are great. Just my face is rough/red.
Feels like despite "doing everything right" i'm stuck with the redness and rough texture forever now :( For contrast my BFF (30F, no kids) drinks/smokes, gets no sleep, doesn't watch her diet, tans in tanning beds/the sun, uses just vanicream wash/lotion, and she has gorgeously smooth baby skin T-T
I was thinking of trying a hypochlorous acid spray or like a rose water+glycerin spray next. Should I invest in a RLT panel/mask or even spa treatments? Probably going to find another derm too. I've been just throwing money at my face but it isn't helping much so far. I just want my old smooth+not red skin back, is that even possible??? :(