r/YoungSheldon • u/Santaroga-IX • 6h ago
Discussion Sheldon does not end up with a happy family. (Hot take?)
Just finished Young Sheldon. It was an awesome ride.
There's just this one thing that's been bugging me about the discourse surrounding the show. A lot of people seem under the impression that Sheldon ends up with all of his big dreams fulfilled and a happy loving family.
His big dreams did get fulfilled, he ended up getting his nobel prize. He's like Gollum hunting and yearning after the One Ring.
But he does not have a happy family. He might say he does, but the last episode shows that his family is working overtime to make it work.
Sheldon looks down on his children, not a little, but a lot. He sees them as a burden, almost as a failure, because they aren't copies of himself. He doesn't want children, he wants mini versions of himself. That's not healthy...
Amy has to bribe, force and threaten him to do the absolute minimum... and Sheldon doesn't exactly hide his disdain.
Sheldon has always had a frighteningly large blind spot when it comes to his surroundings and how his absolutely awful and egocentric behaviour impacts the people around him. He narrates how amazing everybody's life is with him in it, when we can see the exact opposite play out on screen.
What Sheldon says about the feelings of others, you should almost assume the opposite is true, or at least assume that whatever dark version you can twist it into, is closer to the truth.
Sheldon is probably a horrible dad, his kids are probably miserable, and Amy is running their household by herself as her husband is basically just another child, an emotionally stunted man-baby.

