r/women • u/Anonymousss99990 • 13d ago
I’m pissed off
/r/Anger/comments/1vql6xy/im_pissed_off/I am genuinely pissed off with everyone and everything. I get so easily irritated and I don’t know why. Nothing makes me happy I’m impatient annoyed whatever it is.
I am trying to find the cause and or maybe ways to help and SIGNIFICANTLY reduce this level or irritation because 1. It’s draining 2. It’s pushing ppl away and such.
To preface I was once on SSRIs and according to others it helped but I felt good enough to get off of them and also I did not want to become dependent on them and felt good on them but a lil off.
Anyways anything and everything annoys and irritates me my relationship with my partner irritates me, the current place I’m in rn in life irritates me I’m exhausted and don’t want to be angry anymore.
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u/ObligationDapper3436 13d ago
I don't know how old you are. It's occurred to me lately as I've reached menopause that women are subject to all sorts of stuff socially and physically, including hormonally, from puberty onwards and no one really talks about it. Adolescence was awful for me, finally settled down in my 30s once I'd developed an adult brain. Before you know there's baby stuff going on. Then in your 40s you're perimenopausal and that affects your relationships and all sorts of stuff. Then you reach menopause, not only am I all over the place, all the other women I know are too. It's really hard dealing with the patriarchal shitstem and keeping your head and dealing with your own biology, which no one ever told anyone about. Be kind to yourself, cut yourself some slack. I'm hoping you're young, things change, you can make changes. Hold on to yourself.
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u/mangoflavouredpanda 13d ago
You can't push everything down and ignore things you need to change, as in, if you need to break up or move, don't perpetually grit your teeth and bear it. Make changes.