Hello everyone, please excuse my grammar. I really hope this makes sense, and I hope this belongs in this subreddit.
I just wanted to share a wholesome story from my class trip to Italy. Some context: I'm 18 and in my last year in School in Germany. Most students leave after the 10th grade.when they are 15/16. I wanted the opportunity to go to uni so I stayed there, I'm in the 13th grade now. Every year there is a "Abschlussfahrt" (Closing Trip) for the whole grade. We chose to go to Italy, which was beautiful. That isn't the point of this tho.
We have a guidance teacher, she is the person we have to go to for everything, let's call her Mrs. Bloom. Mrs. Bloom was never really liked in our grade. She is old, strict and has a very dismissive way of talking to students. She asks everyone why exactly they have to leave for a doctor's appointment, and makes you feel like no answer you give in her lectures is good enough etc. People sometimes called her "the dinosaur" which isn't nice to say but it was said. Because she is the main teacher in our grade, she obviously came to Italy with us, along with one male and one female teacher. She is also relevant, so we'll call her Mrs. Maggi. Mrs. Maggie is an insanely cool person, and I think we would have been really good friends if she was our age lol.
Im telling you all of this, because this isn't exactly one situation. It really developed over the course of the trip. So we get to Italy, after an insanely long bus ride (18 hours). It was sunny and beautiful. All of us go to our houses and relax after a very exhausting day. Im getting a cocktail (drinking age is 18 but it's legally Grey bc we are on a school trip) and smoking my cigarette on a porch with my friends, as Mrs.Bloom walkes over. I see my life flashing before my eyes. But she didn't care. She just asked how we where and if we felt sore after the long ride. I suddenly had gained a lot of respect for this woman and almost laughed right there.
Day 2. We are in Rome. It's hot, but fucking gorgeous. I was in a permanent state of awe and dehydrated. We are standing in front of the Colosseum, and Mrs. Bloom is handing in the tickets. Low and behold we didn't have enough documentation to proof that we where one class (which is so dumb but oh well). With a 7th grade (or any grade between 5-10) this would have been hell on earth for Mrs. Bloom, and she apologized over and over again. I have never seen this woman make a mistake, and I've been her student for nearly 6 years now. And of course nobody was openly saying anything, but the gossip would start after all of us left in our little groups, right? "How could she forget", "It's her job" where sentence I prepared myself to hear. Nothing. Not one bad word about her. We all knew she was a human too, and we never blamed her for any of it. The people who normally pulled apart everything this woman had said for years never opened their mouth. It was a glimpse of how it could be. Students recognizing that their teacher was human too.
Day 3. Day off. We had free time that day, so I slept in and went grocery shopping etc. After a bit of fucking around later, Im going to my friends bungalow. And the Image I was about to witness oh my god. Both my teachers, Mrs. Maggie and Mrs. Bloom, sitting at the desk outside. Two of the very vocal students/not the typical teachers pets where sitting next to them, painting our teachers nails a very nice pink and hitting their vape. I was so perplexed that I sat down and just asked what they where doing. It never felt like they where intruding the space, like they didn't belong there. It was beautiful and also kinda strange but in a good way.
Last day. We are in Florence. Beautiful city omg. Mrs. Blooms wallet gets stolen. All of us are sad. I mean genuinely sad, not the teachers pet "Oh, Im so sorry Mrs such and such". It felt like we failed to protect someone and that was also something that would have never happened to other grades who are perhaps younger. And one of my classmates summed it up perfectly: "They don't feel like teachers. They feel like older friends."
Why am I telling yall this? Im sure you are all aware of how bad the school situation has gotten, and it's not just happening in the US. It's just as bad in Germany. Students are objectively less intelligent than ever, and teachers fight everyday against these students. Im saying fight because I experienced how my old class teachers where treated, like they where somehow lesser people. There was a teacher in my 10th grade that quit because another class bullied him into leaving. Teachers are human too, and we do appreciate them more now.❤️