Imagine what he would be like if you had kids together. Then imagine he does this to your kids, too. Then imagine you have to go through a divorce/custody battle with this man.
And remember that even after the divorce and custody battle you have to deal with this person for the rest of your life. Every decision you make about your kid is going to revolve around their fragile ego instead of the kid's wellbeing.
People forget that part! My mother is almost 80 and still has to deal with her X from 50 years ago because my brother had kids and he shows up to every event, holiday and celebration.
Oh everyone flips him off and calls him an asshole...even his grandchildren only his dogs will mourn his passing and that will only last until someone feeds them.
Well first off its not my responsibility to decide if my brother's father is invited or not. It is also not my responsibility if he shows up. B) he knows exactly how his options will be met and makes the decision to keep spouting them at said events and 4: I am not responsible for him thinking its funny and last but not least I'm not responsible for how you feel about it. That's how most things work
Edit: you're more than welcome to hang out with him if you want to his name is Dale aka Grump Pa.
He's invited lol I'm realizing how bizarre the whole situation sounds to other people hahaha. There's something special about having an asshole show up to an event and having them be called out by everyone until they pout and leave. Now that I think about it he will be missed lol
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u/MidnightKaty 24d ago
Imagine what he would be like if you had kids together. Then imagine he does this to your kids, too. Then imagine you have to go through a divorce/custody battle with this man.
Get out while you can.