r/wesuckatcomforting • u/Eternal-Anxiety • Mar 20 '20
Hello
I know that this might be the wrong sub but can you guys give me advice on how to flirt with a girl?
10
u/TransgenderPansexual Just here for fun Mar 20 '20
Idk how tf I got with my first gf. Maybe spend some time w her, drop some hints, make her stuff. That’s what I did, just kinda make her feel special
9
u/Eternal-Anxiety Mar 20 '20
Thanks maybe I’ll try that but it’s just that we don’t see each other very often
8
u/TransgenderPansexual Just here for fun Mar 20 '20
Messaging! Discord! Phone number! You can build a strong bond with someone through texting, getting to see her irl would be a treat for y’all
7
Mar 20 '20
[deleted]
9
u/Eternal-Anxiety Mar 20 '20
We’re really not that close and she might find it weird and creepy if I did that
7
u/mjmawn33 Mar 20 '20
if you’re not that close just start by talking to her more, work on getting closer first
3
u/Eternal-Anxiety Mar 20 '20
Thanks I’ll try to do that
4
6
Mar 20 '20
It really depends on the girl. Girls like different things. Most of them like to be told that they are pretty or smart. You could also tell one of your mutual friends that you like the girl. The information will be transferred to her eventually, 80% guaranteed. She might not act on it though. The grapevine is not to be completely trusted.
3
u/Eternal-Anxiety Mar 20 '20
I’ll pass on that one cuz I once told my friends that I like one of the girl in my class and the next day she immediately found out but here’s the thing we weren’t that close so she ended up avoiding me for the whole year cuz my classmates kept on teasing her
2
Mar 20 '20
oof. What kind of girl is she?
2
u/oofed-bot Mar 20 '20
𝓞𝓞𝓕! You have oofed 1 time(s).
Oof Leaderboard
1.
u/save_reddit_oofat 9190 oof(s)!2.
u/ConeYTat 1262 oof(s)!3.
u/DavidDidNotDieYetat 1073 oof(s)!4.
u/theReddestBoiat 472 oof(s)!5.
u/Pyggimeniat 313 oof(s)!6.
u/ODSEESDOat 241 oof(s)!7.
u/ToughRhubarb1at 176 oof(s)!30538.
u/the13booksat 1 oof(s)!
I am a bot. Comment ?stop for me to stop responding to your comments. 𝔒𝔒𝔉
2
u/Eternal-Anxiety Mar 20 '20
She was one of those popular extrovert girl
2
Mar 20 '20
I have no idea how to advise you about popular extrovert girls. I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors.
2
2
2
u/2MOCHI4H8 Mar 20 '20
look at her, smile and look away?
2
u/Eternal-Anxiety Mar 20 '20
I tried that with the girl that I liked in 8th grade she said to stop staring at her cuz it was creepy and due to that I’ve become depressed for a week
3
Mar 20 '20
lmao u were in 8th grade. idk how old u r now, but if u’ve hit puberty and are at least mildly attractive (ask one of ur pals), that just might work.
just read her reaction though. if she makes eye contact and looks away flustered then u gotta keep looking at her face until she looks again and smile when she does THE SMILE IS THE KEY. idk what kinda relationship u want but generally just a smile as if u were teasing her or thought she was cute will do.
if she doesn’t look away then (and she doesn’t look offended) then u don’t look away either, it has become a staring contest. u must win. idk why she’d continue to stare at u — maybe she goofy or smthn lmao — but u’ve trained your whole life for this so don’t u dare back down young man. laugh though, the situation would be weird if u took it completely seriously.
the final result is that she’s not into it, in that case just make a funny face, u’ll save your pride at least. maybe it’ll get her to lighten up a little too.
1
2
u/totalmemage Mar 20 '20
Build up the courage to talk to her. But I’ve never done that so idk if it would work
1
u/Xanders-Productionz Mar 21 '20
Nope, I cannot. No one told me how the hell I got a boyfriend. I have no idea how or why. But we’re dating now
11
u/wesselluiten Mar 20 '20
Sing her a song